When Doing "Nothing" Is Everything: Redefining Postpartum Doula Support
Release Date: 07/23/2025
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The Doula Darcy Podcast
In this episode, I'm coming to you from sunny Clearwater, Florida a few days ahead of The Birthworker Retreat. I share the behind-the-scenes of how I intentionally designed this event (and my life!) to match my personal needs and seasonal rhythms. From walks on the beach and hotel massages to the mindset shifts that took me from burnt-out martyr to thriving doula business owner, I walk you through how this lifestyle didn’t happen by accident. It happened by methodical design. I’m breaking down how you, too, can start aligning your business with the life you truly want, starting with small,...
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The Doula Darcy Podcast
There comes a moment in many doula businesses when everything is technically “working”… You’re getting clients. You’re good at what you do. You’re busy, maybe sometimes too busy. And yet, the income still isn’t where it needs to be. In this episode, I’m talking about the very real (and very common) moment when doulas hit an income ceiling and what to do when you realize that trading hours for dollars simply isn’t sustainable long-term. I share my own story of reaching this point a few years into my postpartum doula business: juggling multiple families in a day, racing...
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The Doula Darcy Podcast
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Doula Finances 101: How to Pay Yourself, Save for Taxes & Retire Right
The Doula Darcy Podcast
Welcome to a real talk episode with Doula Darcy, recorded during that deliciously confusing week between Christmas and New Year's. In this solo episode, Darcy shares a side of her that you may not have seen much before: her passion for personal finance and how it ties directly into doula sustainability and self-care. If you're ready to step into 2026 with more financial clarity, less stress, and a business that supports your life, not drains it, this episode is your guide. In this episode, you'll learn: Why paying yourself well is the ultimate form of self-care How to calculate...
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The Doula Darcy Podcast
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The Doula Darcy Podcast
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Coaching Isn’t Just for Athletes - It’s a Business Game-Changer
The Doula Darcy Podcast
This week, I'm narrowing in on a question many people (including my parents) still ask me: What exactly does a business coach do? And why do you need one? I’m breaking it down through personal stories from my competitive gymnastics and diving days, showing how having a coach - whether on the mat, on the diving board, or in your business—can be the difference between floundering and flying. You’ll hear: Why coaching isn’t just for athletes How a good coach acts like a “spotter” in your business The importance of trust, accountability, and confidence in coaching relationships ...
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The Real Work Behind a Successful Online Doula Business
The Doula Darcy Podcast
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Why I Don't Do CEO Days
The Doula Darcy Podcast
Someone asked Darcy on Instagram how doulas can be incorporating CEO days their doula business. Darcy, who prefers the term 'Island days' over 'CEO days,' shares her personal strategies for maintaining a balance between work and relaxation. She shares the importance of taking time to work ON your business rather than just IN it. Whether through designated weekly hours, full days off, or attending business retreats, Darcy emphasizes the value of stepping out of your routine to spark creativity and achieve business growth. What is a CEO Day? Introducing Island Days The...
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Claim the Life you Want and Build the Business to Match it with Amber Lilyestrom
The Doula Darcy Podcast
Want to meet the Business Coach Behind the The Doula Business Coach? What happens when your business coach becomes one of your strongest cheerleaders and biggest expanders? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and inviting you into a very personal (and often hilarious) conversation with my business coach of three years, the incredible Amber Lilyestrom. Amber isn’t just a business coach & brand strategist. She’s a poet, a mom, and a professional crazy cat lady (yes, we explain). She’s also the reason I’ve taken my doula coaching business to the next level....
info_outlinePostpartum doulas often equate their value with how much they do—laundry folded, dishes washed, bottles sterilized. But what if the most meaningful support has nothing to do with physical tasks? In this episode, Darcy challenges the productivity myth and highlights the profound impact of simply being present, listening, and validating a new mom's experience.
What You'll Learn:
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Why postpartum doulas often undervalue emotional support
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How our culture ties self-worth to productivity—and how to unlearn it
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Real client stories that prove presence > performance
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How to ask the right questions to uncover your client's real needs
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Why virtual postpartum doula services can be just as impactful
Whether you're a seasoned doula or just getting started, this episode is your reminder that sometimes the most powerful support you can offer is simply showing up with love and presence.
📩 Questions or thoughts? DM me on Instagram or email me at darcy@thedouladarcy.com.
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