Ep. 90 | You're Not Lazy - You're Fried: The Real Reason You Feel Stuck in Menopause
Release Date: 07/07/2025
It's Not JUST Menopause
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info_outlineđïž Episode 90: Youâre Not LazyâYouâre Fried: What Stress Really Looks Like in Midlife
If youâve been feeling overwhelmed, shut down, or completely checked out latelyâbut still blaming yourself for not being âdisciplined enoughââthis episode is your wake-up call.
In this episode of Itâs Not Just Menopause, Cindi Stickle, Functional Nutrition Practitioner and Certified Menopause Specialist, breaks down the four stress responses women face in midlifeâfight, flight, freeze⊠and the one no one talks about: fried.
What Youâll Learn
đ„ Why âfriedâ is the most overlooked stress state in perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause
đ§ How nervous system dysregulation silently drives fatigue, brain fog, weight gain, and burnout
â ïž Why pushing harder only backfires when your body is stuck in survival mode
đż What real recovery looks like when your hormones and stress responses are finally supported
If youâre constantly tired, easily overwhelmed, or feel like youâve lost your spark, this episode will help you understand whatâs really going onâand how to begin shifting out of survival mode for good.
Resources & Links
đŻ Take the free quiz â Whatâs Really Driving Your Menopause Symptoms?
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