Wake Up Latter-Day Saints!
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
Why is the Church in the United States losing members? Why are we losing the children who have been brought up in the Church? What can we do to make the Church a place that reflects the committment we have to follow the teachings of Jesus the Christ? There is no ONE answer, but in this episode we ask some important questions .... To join the conversation, go to
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Eternal Sex
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
In today's episode I discuss how sexuality can be the access point for increased results in all areas of life, including finances, your marriage, parenting and more.
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I Am a Child of God and the Culture of Toxic Shame
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
I had an interesting reaction recently while singing the song "I am a Child of God." This is one of my favorite church songs, and always has been. But as I sang it this time in church, I felt some wording that reminded me of the toxic shame that I'm escaping from. Have a listen to this episode and let me know what you think.
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Sex and Scooby Snacks
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
Have you ever felt like a puppy begging for a Scooby Snack when you want to have sex with your wife? Let's face it, more often than not, the woman controls the sexual dynamic in a relationship. Either it's too late and she's tired, she has a headache, or she's 'just not feeling it' tonight. In any case, this leaves you as a man feeling frustrated, helpless and lonely. If this compounds month after month and year after year, you may being to wonder if there's any hope. The first thing to realize is - you aren't alone. That's the topic of today's episode. Enjoy.
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Jesus and Sex
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
This episode was originally posted on Facebook as a "live." Yes, in this episode I'm purposely sensational with the hope that you can discover a lesson here for yourself and how it relates to unlocking new levels of growth, connection and fulfillment for you, your wife, your family, and your connection to God.
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How is Your Sex Life? (How to Know)
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
I've found that most men think their sex life is better than their wife thinks it is. A great sex life can take marriage intimacy to an entirely new level.
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Arguing with Your Wife (and How to Fix It)
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
Some of the most challenging things in a marriage are frequent or intense arguments. In today's episode, you'll discover how I sabotaged our romantice weekend by getting in an argument on the way there. If you haven't already, make sure you leave us a review on iTunes. What are you waiting for?? Head over there now!
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Stop Lying
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
What does it mean to "stop lying," and why is this conversation pivotal to the results you want in your life, business and marriage? Today I speak with ascendant king Chris Christensen about how "lying" is common in today's world - and how this robs a man of power.
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4 Pillars of a Successful Marriage
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
In this episode, author David Frey shares the "4 pillars of a successful marriage." Visit for additional resources.
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Powerful Tip for Handling Disagreements in Marriage
Real Conversations for Latter-Day Saint Men
On today's episode, you'll discover one powerful tip for handling disagreements with your wife. It is natural and normal to have disagreements in marriage. And if you don't have a successful strategy for handling disagreements, this can tear apart a marriage. Today's guest is David Frey. David has been married to his lovely wife for over 31 years, and he now helps men become what he calls "high-value husbands." His book, 301 Ways to Become a High-Value Husband is about to be released. In his previous life, David was a corporate executive and he's owned his own marketing business for the past...
info_outlineHello King and Priest. You might have noticed that I didn't release a podcast episode last week.
I was planning to, but I had a breakdown with Carly. In other words, we had a collision.
When this happened, all desire to publish an episode disappeared, it evaporated.
And here's the thing if you're up to something big - when you're up to something big, you'll be challenged, you'll be stretched.
And by "something big," I mean a life other than a life of default. If we keep living the way we're living now and doing what we're doing now, we can pretty much predict how our life will turn out.
Doing something big is going for a non-default outcome.
Now, if your relationship with your spouse is off, every other area of life will be affected.
Carly had told me that she didn't feel that I empathized with her. She said that she doesn't feel like I care. I was triggered because it hurts, it's painful to think that I try to be the best husband I can and I still fall short.
This threw me into an emotional tailspin.
And in this place, it took away all motivation to publish an episode. I felt like an imposter. How am I supposed to create a podcast about being a King and Priest when I can't even manage myself in my own marriage?
Well, I managed to get through it and here we are again. But here's what I want you to consider - a loss or deficiency in one area of your life affects all areas of your life.
And this is at the core of what it means to be a King and a Priest. We pick ourselves up off the ground and get on the horse again. This is the gift that Jesus Christ gives us, the gift to begin anew.
Now, last week we talked about the Systematic Sedation of men, in Episode 7. You discovered how over the past 200 years men have been trained, taught and educated that emotions are unhealthy and "feelings don't matter."
You discovered how the role of women and men has changed and now we're in an age of confusion where we're desperately trying to figure out, "where do I fit in."
Today we're going to talk about a discovery that I had that affected my marriage, my business and financial success, my health and fitness … everything in my life.
You see, when I dug down into my marriage problems, into my business problems, into my financial problems, into my crises of faith, into every problem in life I have … I discovered at the root of all of it are three main lies.
These three lies lie at the heart of my disconnection with my wife Carly.
They lie at the heart of limits on my financial success.
They lie at the heart of my disconnection with God.
Yes, I discovered that there are three lies that I tell myself that sabotage me every single day.