The Handshake
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Introduction: Imagine a world where a slice of pizza holds the power to change everything. Arshay Cooper, against all odds, embarked on a path that led him to become a bestselling author and the central figure in a star-studded documentary "A Most Beautiful Thing". Today, he's dedicated to the art of 'calling people in' for transformative change. Join us as we explore Arshay's inspiring journey as a leader, community builder, and loving father on The Handshake. Timestamps: 1:04 - An Introduction to Arshay Cooper on the Most Dangerous Ocean in the World 2:29 - Arshay’s Story...
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Imagine a world where a slice of pizza holds the power to change everything. Arshay Cooper, against all odds, embarked on a path that led him to become a bestselling author and the central figure in a star-studded documentary "A Most Beautiful Thing". Today, he's dedicated to the art of 'calling people in' for transformative change. Join us as we explore Arshay's inspiring journey as a leader, community builder, and loving father on The Handshake.
Timestamps:
1:04 - An Introduction to Arshay Cooper on the Most Dangerous Ocean in the World
2:29 - Arshay’s Story
4:50 - “God Exists Everywhere but Here…”
6:29 - Communities have the right people and impactful solutions to make change…
8:30 - Rowing, “the unlikely lifeboat…”
10:55 - When you learn to take care of yourself, you can take care of everyone else on the team.
12:55 - Arshay’s First Lesson in Rowing: Do the work of 8, with 1
14:40 - Arshay’s Second Lesson in Rowing: Leave it better than you found it - “Don’t step over the mess”
20:15 - What is your leadership handshake (how do you create belonging)? Call People in, don’t call them out. No withdrawals without deposits. Being willing to have uncomfortable conversations.
29:25 - What is your leadership awkward handshake (what mistakes have you made and what did you do about it)? (letting go of your pride & it’s ok to say no)
37:30 - Build your church with your church
40:38 - What is your leadership Secret Handshake (what makes you a good leader)? (don’t be involved in the mess & persist)
Key Takeaways:
On The Handshake Podcast, we talk to guests about three core questions:
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What is your leadership 'handshake'? - How do you build teams? Arshay's Answer:
- When you learn to take care of yourself, you can begin to take care of everyone else on the team. Ultimately, do the work of 8 with 1.
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What is an 'awkward handshake' to you as a leader? - When have you made mistakes as a leader? What did you learn?
- Pride and ego get in the way of successful leadership, and relationships
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What is your 'secret handshake' as a leader? What is your secret sauce to leading teams and communities?
- Call people in, not out!
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Acknowledgments:
Special thanks to Arshay Cooper, music by SERO and jointly produced with Blake Brinker @ Nth Talent
Disclaimer:
Statements in this video do not constitute financial/investment/legal advice. Always do your own research.