Ep. 4 - The Science of Sexy: How Chemistry Changes the Dating Game
Release Date: 11/05/2024
Ep. 7 - Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates
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In Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates, we’re joined by Tom Lemere, creator of the innovative Tom Lemere Project (@the_tomlemereproject) designed to help men attract high-quality women and build lasting relationships. Tom, a self-proclaimed former “player,” will soon be appearing on a local South Florida TV news segment about dating. Tom and Dateless in Delray host Susan Heller Shoer chat about some of the crazy things men do to win women over. Tom shares actionable tips and insights to help men build confidence and step up their dating game....
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Ep. 6 - Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality
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In Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality, we explore how to keep that newly dating/still have butterflies magic alive! Gottman-certified therapist Alex Antonucci () shares the actionable and insightful Gottman Method, known for turning relationship science into practical advice (think relationship to do list!)... Studies from the Gottman Institute show that happiy couples spend at least five hours per week intentionally focusing on each other—and not just as they’re mindlessly scrolling or binge-watching Netflix. We’re talking real, meaningful quality time....
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Ep. 5 - Conscious Coupling: Dating with Clarity and Confidence.
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In this episode we explore the art of Conscious Coupling: Dating with Clarity and Confidence. Certified CoActive and Professional Coach Darla Beam (; IG @darlabeamcoaching), guides us through her approach to dating with intentionality and mindfulness—what it means to know yourself fully and align your dating life with purpose. Darla’s coaching client, Michelle, a twice-divorced woman in her 50s, joins the conversation to share her journey of taking a break from dating to focus on self-discovery and building confidence from within. Communications Coach Laurie Schloff also lends her...
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Ep. 4 - The Science of Sexy: How Chemistry Changes the Dating Game
Dateless in Delray
What really makes someone irresistible? In this episode, we study up on The Science of Sexy, with a closer look at fascinating research on how brain chemistry shapes attraction. Join us as we explore the powerful effects of dopamine, serotonin, estrogen, and testosterone and how they influence who we’re drawn to—and why. Our expert guest lineup features Dr. Marcy Dater Weiss, Psychotherapist and Board Certified Sexologist, who unpacks how these “love chemicals” impact desire and compatibility. Communications Coach Laurie Schloff shares practical advice on creating attraction and...
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Ep. 3 - The Profile Predicament: Separating the Hype from the Swipe on the Dating Apps
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Online dating—exciting or exhausting? In this episode, Susan Heller Shoer dives headfirst into the world of dating apps and profiles. We’re talking deceptive photos, scammers, swindlers, and those profiles with pictures from decades ago. Susan, alongside guest experts and real-life daters, unpacks the “fun” of ghosting, fake profiles, and figuring out who’s really behind that perfect profile pic. If you’ve ever been burned by a swipe or feel like you’re wading through a sea of nonsense online, this episode is for you! Be sure to subscribe, follow, and drop us a review to keep up...
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Ep. 2 - Red Flags & Green Lights: Is It a No or a Go?
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In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer tackles one of the most critical parts of modern dating—spotting red flags and knowing when to move forward with green lights. Joined by everyday daters and experts, Susan breaks down deal breakers, non-negotiables, and those all-important must-haves that guide us on our dating journeys. Are you missing the signs? Or are you holding out for perfection? This episode is all about understanding what really matters when deciding if someone’s a keeper—or a hard pass. Be sure to subscribe, follow, and drop us a review to keep up...
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Ep. 1 - Getting Real About Relationships: Chemistry, Conversations, and Modern Dating
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In the debut episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer—a writer, real estate agent, and somewhat reluctant expert on dating in Delray Beach, the heart of single life after 50—dives deep into the realities of chemistry, communication, and finding love in the modern world. Susan is joined by special guests Brian Howie, host of the wildly successful podcast The Great Love Debate, and Laurie Schloff, a communications coach with Partners in Communication, and an expert on what to say and how to say it when it matters most. Together, they’ll tackle the big questions: What exactly...
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Welcome to Dateless in Delray!
Dateless in Delray
info_outlineWhat really makes someone irresistible? In this episode, we study up on The Science of Sexy, with a closer look at fascinating research on how brain chemistry shapes attraction. Join us as we explore the powerful effects of dopamine, serotonin, estrogen, and testosterone and how they influence who we’re drawn to—and why. Our expert guest lineup features Dr. Marcy Dater Weiss, Psychotherapist and Board Certified Sexologist, who unpacks how these “love chemicals” impact desire and compatibility. Communications Coach Laurie Schloff shares practical advice on creating attraction and connection through body language and conversation. And for some real-life perspective, we’ll hear from everyone's favorite tell-it-like-it-is dater, Stephanie, as she opens up about her own chemistry-driven highs and lows in the dating world. Whether you want to understand why sparks fly (or fall flat) or are seeking a winning formula for dating, this episode is a must-listen! Be sure to subscribe, follow, and drop us a review to keep up with Dateless in Delray and all our you-can’t-make-this-sh*t-up dating stories!