This is How Your Relationship Will Make or Break Your Success with Katarina Polonska- Ep 21
Release Date: 02/06/2025
Why You’re Afraid to Change (Even When You’re Ready) | EP 70
The Higher Alignment Podcast
In this episode, I break down why change can feel so terrifying, even when it is something we deeply want. Using a real client example, I explain how fear is not about logic or readiness, but about the nervous system being stuck in survival mode. When we are dysregulated, the body prioritizes familiarity over growth, even if that familiarity is unhealthy or unfulfilling. This is why big decisions like career changes, relationships, or choosing a more balanced life can feel paralyzing. I share how self-abandonment and over-performing slowly erode self-trust, making it harder to believe in...
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The Higher Alignment Podcast
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The Higher Alignment Podcast
In this episode, I sit down with Brittany Anger to unpack what happens when you “have it all” on paper, but your body is quietly waving the white flag. Brittany shares what life looked like coming back from maternity leave into a fast-paced corporate banking role while recovering from thyroid surgery, carrying the emotional load at home, and living in constant go-go-go mode. We talk about how high performers often guilt themselves into “just being grateful,” even when they’re running on fumes, and why knowing you need help isn’t the same as your nervous system being able to receive...
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Before You Set Your 2026 Goals, Listen to This | EP 67
The Higher Alignment Podcast
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The Higher Alignment Podcast
In this episode of the Higher Alignment Podcast, I’m joined by Meaghan Alton for our annual numerology forecast, this time to break down what 2026 holds and how to use it intentionally. We reflect on 2025’s “nine year” energy as a cycle of endings, release, and pattern-breaking, and why that can actually become the best year of your life when your nervous system has the capacity to welcome change. Meaghan explains why 2026 is a “one year,” meaning it’s a fresh start and the beginning of a new nine-year cycle. This is the year to plant seeds, set a clear vision, and take real...
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The Higher Alignment Podcast
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The Productivity Myth That’s Keeping You Burnt Out | EP 64
The Higher Alignment Podcast
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Feeling Guilty for Pulling Away? Here’s What’s Actually Going On | EP63
The Higher Alignment Podcast
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The High Performer’s Guide to Letting Go of Control with Carly Bolin | EP 62
The Higher Alignment Podcast
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The Skill That AI Can’t Replace (And Why It Sets You Apart) | EP 61
The Higher Alignment Podcast
In this episode of the Higher Alignment Podcast, Minh-Thu breaks down why self-regulation is becoming the most valuable skill in today’s AI-driven world. With the rise of digital overwhelm, overstimulation, and artificial efficiency, humans are craving authenticity and real connection more than ever. Minh-Thu explains how nervous system regulation enhances leadership, strengthens relationships, improves decision-making, and helps you stay grounded even when the world feels chaotic. This episode is a practical, empowering look at why your inner world determines your outer success and how...
info_outlineEpisode Highlights: Navigating relationship as an executive or high performer, setting boundaries, knowing when to leave, healthy communication, professional vs personal communication, personal growth, relationships, communication, attachment theory, NLP, coaching, behavioral science, self-discovery
Summary: In this episode of the Higher Alignment Podcast, Minh-Thu Lam interviews Katarina Polonska, who shares her transformative journey from personal struggles with anorexia and family crises to becoming a successful relationship coach. Katarina emphasizes the importance of healthy personal relationships needed for professional success, the role of relationships in personal growth, and the necessity of setting boundaries with compassion. The conversation delves into the dynamics of leadership in relationships, the significance of communication, and the need for continuous personal development. Katarina's insights provide valuable guidance for anyone looking to enhance their relationships and personal well-being.
Takeaways:
Relationships are foundational to overall happiness and success.
Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.
Communication should come from a place of love and compassion.
Self-discovery is crucial before setting relationship expectations.
High achievers often neglect their personal relationships in pursuit of success.
Leadership in relationships requires a balance of responsibility and compassion.
Understanding attachment theory can improve relationship dynamics.
Practicing heart-centered communication can transform relationships.
Boundaries should be communicated clearly and kindly.
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