Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: How I Ended Up on a Submarine, Part 1
A Moment of Hope
by Harper Brame as told to Marilynn Chadwick “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 NIV So how on earth did I end up working on a submarine? Well, it was definitely not my original plan. The war was wrapping up after Japan was bombed, but the military draft continued because there were still many dangers all over the world, especially in the Pacific. My father was with the Army Corps of Engineers, so our family moved around a lot. I was nearing the end of my senior year. I had attended...
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Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: The Hot Running Torpedo
A Moment of Hope
by Harper Brame as told to Marilynn Chadwick I was barely 18 when I entered the Navy. But I have a lifetime of memories from my tour of duty as a submarine sailor. It’s been such a long time since I’ve thought about that blue whale. It’s funny how things can suddenly come to mind out of nowhere. It’s sort of like the time we had a hot running torpedo on the sub. The captain quickly sent us to the front of the sub where we went below if we didn’t have required duties to bring it under control. There was a very real danger of explosion, and we had 24 loaded torpedoes. If that thing had...
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Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: The Great Blue Whale, Part 2
A Moment of Hope
by Marilynn Chadwick “The earth is full of your creatures. There is the sea, vast and spacious, teeming with creatures beyond number— living things both large and small.” Psalm 104:24b,25 NIV …Continued from Friday… My Dad paused before continuing the story and got real quiet. He was thinking back to the astounding size of the creature he had seen. “I was up in the shears of the conning tower. Back then, if you were on lookout duty, you had to always scan the horizon for threats like enemy ships or aircraft. You would also keep watch for any navigational hazards. We were an extra...
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Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: The Great Blue Whale, Part 1
A Moment of Hope
by Marilynn Chadwick "Praise the LORD from the earth, you great sea creatures and all deeps” Psalm 148:7 It was Christmas Day and the entire family had gathered at our home. Our grandchildren gazed at their great grandfather with wonder as he unwrapped his special Christmas gift. We had just finished Christmas dinner and the children crowded around “Great Grandaddy” as he opened his present. What could it be? The mysterious gift was packaged in an unusual antique box that had to be at least as old as Harper Brame, their ninety-eight-year-old great grandfather, and my father. Great...
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Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: Share Your Family Stories
A Moment of Hope
by Marilynn Chadwick "Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, be courageous, be strong." 1 Corinthians 16:3 NIV Daddy is one of the few remaining World War II era submarine veterans, and the last man still alive from his submarine, the USS Besugo. “Guess I’ll have to turn out the lights,” he smiles. He and my mom vividly remembered the war—they didn’t take our freedoms for granted. So, growing up, neither did we. One of the ways they helped us appreciate our heritage was to tell lots of stories—especially about our family. I grew up hearing about Daddy’s submarine adventures...
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Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: The Roots of My Raising Run Deep
A Moment of Hope
by Marilynn Chadwick “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.” Galatians 5:1 Daddy was always proud of his family. Not only his parents and siblings, but also his grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins. He often shared stories from his growing up years and said the way he felt about his family reminded him of the old country music song by Merle Haggard, “The Roots of My Raising Run Deep.” Growing up, I was incredibly fortunate to know my dad’s parents, my grandparents, along with a wonderful collection of aunts, uncles, and cousins. Daddy often talked about his...
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Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: Keep Calm and Carry On
A Moment of Hope
by Marilynn Chadwick “Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him’.” Genesis 2:18 During our growing up years, Mom was more than just Dad’s companion. She was what the Bible refers to in Genesis 2:18 as his “helper.” The original word in Hebrew is ezer, which means a strong, often heroic, source of support. Mom was both strong and kind and she was Daddy’s rock. Mom stopped teaching school when the kids came—family was everything to her. She especially loved Dad’s parents and his three sisters and their...
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Lessons from My 98-year-old Dad: Honor Your Wedding Vows
A Moment of Hope
by Marilynn Chadwick “Let marriage be held in honor among all…” Hebrews 13:4a When people meet my 98-year-old dad, they often ask me, “What’s his secret?” “How does he look so young and stay so sharp?” Daddy would be the first to tell you that part of his secret is that he had a great wife. When my mom went home to be with the Lord three years ago, she and my dad had been married just shy of 70 years. My mother was bedridden for the last ten of those years. A ruptured appendix and complications from subsequent surgeries robbed the once robust grandmother of her ability to...
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Characters at the Cradle: The Wise Men, Guided to God’s Perfect Light
A Moment of Hope
by David Chadwick Matthew 2:19-23 is how we will wrap up our study of the Wise Men. Today also completes our eight-week series where we have looked at the many characters who found themselves connected to the cradle of Jesus. Herod finally died in 4 A.D. While in Egypt, an angel of the Lord appeared once again to Joseph in a dream. He told Joseph that it was now safe to return to Israel. Joseph rose and went back to Nazareth in Israel. As I have heard my daughter say to her children, obedience brings blessing, and disobedience brings discipline. Thankfully, once again, Joseph obeyed....
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Characters at the Cradle: The Wise Men, Herod’s Demonic Wrath
A Moment of Hope
by David Chadwick Herod came to the realization that he had been tricked by the Wise Men. He found out that they had departed and gone home instead of coming back to tell him where the new baby king was located. Now, Herod did not know fully who this baby was, but he knew enough to make him afraid. His paranoia heightened as he knew his throne was threatened. Fear makes people do crazy things! The most devastating part of this biblical account is that Herod, in his fury, sent out an edict to kill all male children in Bethlehem who were two years old or under. Herod’s genocide fulfilled the...
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“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him’.” Genesis 2:18
During our growing up years, Mom was more than just Dad’s companion. She was what the Bible refers to in Genesis 2:18 as his “helper.” The original word in Hebrew is ezer, which means a strong, often heroic, source of support. Mom was both strong and kind and she was Daddy’s rock.
Mom stopped teaching school when the kids came—family was everything to her. She especially loved Dad’s parents and his three sisters and their families. Dad’s job required quite a bit of travel, but Mom never complained. She kept life going for her three daughters. But invariably, most of our life crises seemed to hit when Daddy was away. Like the time I tried to do a cannonball dive into three feet of water and didn’t tuck quite fast enough, hitting my head on the bottom of the swimming pool. After Mom and I took a fast trip to the emergency room and 27 stitches later, Daddy finally made it home.
Recently, when I asked Daddy to describe my mom’s strength, he pointed back to that incident. “I never worried when I was traveling,” he said. “Even when you cracked your head open, I could always count on your mom to handle things. She was always so calm.”
Daddy’s right. Mom honored him through her strong resolve and her ability to keep the family on track. The popular World War II expression “Keep Calm and Carry On” was originally created to inspire the Brits to keep up their courage during the war. And I think it also describes my mom quite well.
Mom and Dad suffered two especially hard losses as a young couple. When I was two, Mom delivered a near term baby girl who died shortly after she was born. Today’s neonatal technology could easily have saved the baby. I have no memories of this incident.
Tragically, the very same thing happened again when I was five. This one I vividly remember. There were two of us girls now. My sister Susan and me. Mom went into premature labor again and delivered a baby—another nearly full-term baby girl, who died soon after birth. Mom, just 28 at the time, somehow managed to keep life moving forward. She had a quiet, but deep faith. I’m sure it was her faith that gave her the strength to persevere. She and Daddy kept hope alive, and two years later welcomed my youngest sister, Janice, whose name means “God’s gracious gift,” into our family.
When I look back at those times in my mother’s life, I don’t know how she kept going. I’m amazed at how Mom and Dad refused to allow those terrible losses to overwhelm our lives as children. They didn’t retreat to fear or hold us back from an active and happy childhood. They bravely kept moving forward—for us. Evidence, again, of their courageous and enduring faith.
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