Ep. 11 - I'm ‘Her’: 90 Days To Reinvent Myself & Change My Habits As A Working Mom
Release Date: 09/06/2023
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Think of the woman you’ve always wanted to be. What does she look like? How does she experience life? Where are her priorities?
These are questions I asked myself as I move into this version of “her” that I’m committed to becoming.
Follow along as I share with you the steps to becoming ‘her’, based on my own journey of reinvention and personal growth. Come along!
Listen out for:
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How I Came Up With “I’m Her” And What It Means [1:05]
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Importance of “Future You Writing” When Reinventing Yourself [4:24]
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My My Four Areas Of Focus To Becoming “Her”
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Mindset: Quiet The Noise, Amplify The Good [6:15]
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Health: The 75 Soft Challenge [13:37]
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Family: All About Quality Time [17:56]
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Business: Nurturing Areas Of Growth [19:11]
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& Many More
Quotes
“My son got into the car yesterday after football and goes “Mom, I’m him. I killed it at football today.” And I was like, ‘Let me write that down quick.’ So I took my notebook out and I was like, I’m ‘Her’. It’s not ‘It Girl’ or ‘That Girl’. I’m ‘Her’. I am going to be the person I am going to be creating over this next 90 day journey and I get to share that with you.” [1:08]
“I want you to take time to start the “Future You Writing”. You can start by saying I am someone who is kind to everyone. I am someone who could see the good. I am someone who stands up for me. I am someone who fits in with myself.” [12:05]
“You will do incredible things when you take the time to script what you want your life to look like. And then as you start to do that, you’re going to start to put into place the habits and you’re going to see yourself in a different light. Before, I didn’t see myself having this conversation with you — and now I’m doing that damn thing.” [24:35]
Resources Mentioned
🔗 Article - The 75 Soft Challenge: The Soft Alternative to The 75 Hard Challenge
🔗 Book - The Calling: 3 Fundamental Shifts to Stay True, Get Paid, and Do Good
🔗 Book - 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go
🔗 Service - My Done For You & Done With You Facebook Ads Agency
🔗 Freebie - Daily Success Tracker
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