A life lived well
I'm so excited to be recording today with my dear friend and Real Estate extraordinaire, Jill Williams! We met close to a decade ago and bonded over our appreciation of holistic health and good people. Here's what Jill has to say on how your home can impact your health! Are we seeing a trend toward other Healthy/Alternative types of homes or neighborhoods? Jill Isn’t seeing this as a big trend, but she could see it more so in the future. Views and outdoor space are a big driver right now. In this area, it is also very important to many buyers to have water access....
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Normally, I'm all about being fierce and "Going for it!" but today, I want you to hear the lessons BuckBeak and Copper AKA Kung Pao have to teach us. I want to hear from you: Tell me what lesson you learned from how BuckBeak and Copper! Bonus Points if you can relate (Yours doesn't have to be a life or death experience). I'll pick one response on June 30th and we'll share your wisdom with all our listeners! Links: Instagram: @growyourself757 Facebook: Music Emotional Inspiring Epic Trailer by Coma-Media via Pixabay Disclaimer: Nothing in any episode is to be considered medical advice....
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I am an Amazon Affiliate so those links may get me a kickback if you buy something from them, but I will never promote something I don’t believe in. Inspired by the Real Simple Magazine (Yuko, E. (2023). Mindfulness for skeptics. Real Simple, Special Edition(A Spiritual Life). ) Mindfulness and meditation were terms that I used interchangeably, but they have different uses. Mindfulness is a form of meditation where we are aware and present at the moment and focus on the senses, emotions, and experiences. The average person’s mind wanders 47% of the time (Seaver, M. (2023)....
info_outline Meet Your Food: Our Gardens, Part twoA life lived well
Apologies for the delay! The past month has been a little trying for me, but I will do better about editing on time in the future. Now on to the podcast! What we are trying this year? Big plans Raised beds- Liz says her soil is tired-looking- and needs to be amended. The plants in it look tired and it doesn’t seem to be holding water. She watched a video about looking for good soil- the three things it mentioned were does it have nutrients, does it hold water and does it have good drainage? Don’t just rely on the pictures on a package- read what the soil says it is designed for if...
info_outline Meet Your Food: Our GardensA life lived well
We added something to our podcast: What’s new and good? We start out just telling you what’s going on in our lives. Let us know if this is something that would interest you to keep hearing! Sorry it was late this week, I was learning video edits on the fly! Today is a Meet Your Food segment on Gardening! Liz has just joined a garden club. The big takeaway from their February meeting was to limit their garden disruption at that point, but her Master Gardener neighbor has now started cleaning out beds. Liz has trimmed her roses and cleaned out her potted plants and any...
info_outline Want Vs. WillA life lived well
Just a short Lenten Reflection while LIz is occupied this week that I had which I wanted to share with you. It's a different way to look at our daily activities to achieve our goals that came to me between reading stoics, my lenten reflection challenge and more. We all have things we want to do, but what will you do to get there? Links: Instagram: @growyourself757 Facebook: Music Emotional Inspiring Epic Trailer by Coma-Media via Pixabay Disclaimer: Nothing in any episode is to be considered medical advice. This podcast does not constitute client privilege. Unless...
info_outline Fight FairA life lived well
Why do we fight? Perceptions ideas values desires Consider If it is worth it to have this fight/ difficult conversation- do you have a relationship that could be repaired by talking it out? Are you a stuffer or exploder? Neither is a good method. You shouldn't save insults, but also you want to have an exploration and a fix to a situation, not just get angry and blow up. In order to save the relationship: Expect to compromise, not win. Set Ground rules before you can even fight. Come from Love and understand why you feel like you need to have this discussion. Actions Do ...
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Let's Talk about it! “I’m gonna say it and fix it”, or “You know my heart”. These are phrases we use with friends sometimes when talking about sensitive subjects to remind them that we love them, but it is critical to know our audience when we communicate. There were so many ways to communicate: verbal versus non-verbal communication Spoken (live or prerecorded or video or audio) Written (text, meme, email, cards, and letters) And there are language modifiers: Body Language, facial expression, and tone are just a few modifications In writing, we might use casual versus...
info_outline Time ManagementA life lived well
What are the biggest downfalls in getting the most out of your day and the ways you can protect your productivity? We give you some good ideas, but we'd love to hear yours, too! What has worked for you in the past? What hasn't? Links: Instagram: @growyourself757 Facebook: Music Emotional Inspiring Epic Trailer by Coma-Media via Pixabay Disclaimer: Nothing in any episode is to be considered medical advice. This podcast does not constitute client privilege. Unless otherwise noted, none of these links are meant to represent any relationship between Your Growth Matters, LLC...
info_outline Memento MoriA life lived well
Treat every day, experience, and interaction with the realization of the impact that it could be the last memory you make with the people around you. Think of it as a reason to make each day epic rather than letting it scare you! Basically, consider making the most out of life. Follow the seasons for guidance: take time to slow down, and build energy. Laughter can be healing in the wake of loss. You will go between joy and sorrow in the face of loss, but you must face both. Return to “normal”- whatever that new normal is. Act slower, and think more. “Whatever you do, do...
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“I’m gonna say it and fix it”, or “You know my heart”. These are phrases we use with friends sometimes when talking about sensitive subjects to remind them that we love them, but it is critical to know our audience when we communicate.
There were so many ways to communicate:
verbal versus non-verbal communication
Spoken (live or prerecorded or video or audio)
Written (text, meme, email, cards, and letters)
And there are language modifiers:
Body Language, facial expression, and tone are just a few modifications
In writing, we might use casual versus formal language, emojis, or other modifications
Timing is also critical both in the rhythm of the conversation and the speed at which we speak may make it easier to understand (especially when someone is hard of hearing or if there is a cultural or language barrier).
Your choice of words is important too! Consider both the Denotation- what the word means- and also the connotation- other meanings the word might have. There are also cultural implications you might want to consider.
An example is love. The Greeks used several terms for love: Agape, eros, Caritas, and eros to indicate the type of love.
Duchenne smile- genuine facial expression is critical- people can read micro-facial expressions to tell when your face doesn’t match what you are saying and it will make them distrust what you are communicating, even if the mismatch has nothing to do with them.
In written communications- leave grace for autocorrect!
Going back to the audience, we have to also consider the state of a person when they receive our message. They might not be able to receive something at a certain time in the manner we intend (Like Liz reading that email).
Public communication- Posting on social media means your comments can be seen by many people and they could misread or misinterpret and could unleash verbal warfare on you like they did with Liz’s caring comment.
Overall: Communication is a spectrum- you can’t do it perfectly. Still, also you can keep these tips in mind to help you minimize miscommunication and repair the situation if things aren’t received in the manner we meant. In the same way, take a step back if you feel offended. Maybe send the person this podcast so they can be more careful communicating next time!
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Great ways to get to know your audience and the best way to communicate effectively with them:
Love Languages: https://5lovelanguages.com/
Personality Plus/Wired that Way: https://thepersonalities.com/
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