660: How the Ultra Successful Think (and Why Most People Self-Sabotage) with Dr. Julie Gurner
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Release Date: 02/02/2026
667: How to Train Your Brain for Better Focus, Recovery, and Performance with Dr. Patrick Porter
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Most men over 40 are doing the work—but not seeing the results they expect. In this episode, Ted speaks with Dr. Patrick Porter about how brain function, stress, and subconscious programming influence everything from habits and performance to recovery and sleep. They explore brainwaves, neuroplasticity, and why many people stay stuck despite effort. This conversation offers a deeper look at how to align your brain with your goals—and why that may be the missing piece. Listen to the episode to learn how to start training your brain more effectively. Today’s...
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666: Mastering Nutrition: How to Think Clearly About Diet in a World of Conflicting Advice with Christopher Masterjohn
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Nutrition debates today often feel more ideological than scientific. One of the biggest examples is the ongoing controversy around seed oils, where strong opinions exist on both sides but clear understanding is often missing. In this episode, Ted speaks with nutrition scientist Christopher Masterjohn to explore the history and research behind seed oils, cholesterol, fatty liver disease, and oxidative stress. They also discuss why nutrition debates become polarized, how choline intake influences liver health, and why metabolic markers like glucose and lactate can offer useful...
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665: How Passive Income Can Reduce Stress and Help You Live a Healthier Life with Mark Podolsky
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Financial insecurity affects more than just your bank account, it influences stress, health decisions, and the freedom to live life on your own terms. In this episode, Ted sits down with land investing expert Mark Podolsky to discuss a little-known approach to building passive income through raw land. Mark explains how land investors buy undervalued property, sell it with owner financing, and generate recurring cash flow without the typical headaches of traditional real estate. Along the way, they explore the mindset shifts required to build wealth, the parallels...
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664: Personal Trainer vs Online Coach: The Smarter Choice for Real Body Transformation Results Over 40
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You’ve been working out for years—but you’re still not where you want to be. In this episode, Ted breaks down the real differences between hiring a personal trainer and working with an online coach. Drawing from 27 years in the industry—including 19 years as a personal trainer and eight years running a fully online coaching practice—he explains where each model works, where it falls short, and why workouts are rarely the true bottleneck. If you’re serious about getting leaner, healthier, and more consistent—without wasting more time or money—this episode will...
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663: How to Rewire Your Attachment Style for a Healthier Life with Thais Gibson, phD
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Most people focus only on diet, training, and supplements when it comes to health—but often overlook one of the biggest drivers of stress and burnout: relationships. Chronic emotional stress can quietly dysregulate your nervous system and undermine your health, no matter how disciplined you are with fitness and nutrition. In this episode, Ted sits down with Thais Gibson to explore how attachment styles shape your relationships, stress response, and overall well-being. Thais explains how early attachment patterns influence adult behavior, why unresolved attachment wounds keep high...
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662: The Power of Walking: How 15,000 Daily Steps Impact Longevity and Heart Health with Greg Mushen
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Most men over 40 focus on lifting weights and dialing in their diet—but still overlook a major driver of long-term cardiovascular health. In this episode, Ted speaks with Greg Mushen about why subsistence populations rarely develop heart disease, how walking influences glucose and lipid clearance, what genetics reveal about individual risk, and why daily movement may matter more than extreme workouts. If the goal is to protect arteries, improve metabolic health, and age with resilience, this conversation offers a practical, research-driven framework worth listening to. ...
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661: How Having Better Sex Impacts Your Overall Health After 40 with Dr. Nicole McNichols
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Many men over 40 take their health seriously but feel confused, frustrated, or quietly concerned about changes in their sex life. In this episode, Ted speaks with human sexuality expert Dr. Nicole McNichols about how stress, sleep, anxiety, body image, and relationship dynamics shape sexual health. They explore why common explanations like testosterone or blood flow often miss the bigger picture, and how unrealistic expectations fueled by culture and pornography can undermine confidence and desire. This conversation reframes sex as an essential part of overall...
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660: How the Ultra Successful Think (and Why Most People Self-Sabotage) with Dr. Julie Gurner
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Many high achievers look successful on paper but feel constrained, overwhelmed, or quietly dissatisfied behind the scenes. In this episode, Ted sits down with executive performance psychologist Dr. Julie Gurner to explore why driven people struggle with stress, control, motivation, and identity as their responsibilities grow. The conversation breaks down how success can outpace personal growth—and what happens when it does. This episode offers a clear, grounded look at the psychological shifts required to sustain performance, health, and fulfillment at higher levels. Listen...
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Your 2026 Body Blueprint — Part 7: How to Build a Routine That Actually Works After 40
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The final episode of Your 2026 Body Blueprint brings the entire series together. Ted explained why most men over 40 age faster than they should. , he broke down why weight loss alone doesn’t equal health. , he showed how men should train to preserve muscle and strength with minimal time. , he explained why cardio and cardiovascular fitness are essential for longevity—even if you already lift. And he shared a clear, evidence-based approach to nutrition that supports metabolic...
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Your 2026 Body Blueprint — Part 6: How Sleep, Stress, and Lifestyle Shape How You Age
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When it comes to longevity, most of the research feels clear around exercise and nutrition. We know how they affect aging and the prevention of the four diseases that kill most people: heart disease, cancer, metabolic disease, and dementia. But where do sleep, stress, and lifestyle actually fit into that picture? of the 2026 Body Blueprint, Ted explained why most men over 40 age faster than they should. , he broke down why weight loss alone doesn’t equal health. , he showed how men should train to preserve muscle and strength with minimal...
info_outlineMany high achievers look successful on paper but feel constrained, overwhelmed, or quietly dissatisfied behind the scenes.
In this episode, Ted sits down with executive performance psychologist Dr. Julie Gurner to explore why driven people struggle with stress, control, motivation, and identity as their responsibilities grow. The conversation breaks down how success can outpace personal growth—and what happens when it does.
This episode offers a clear, grounded look at the psychological shifts required to sustain performance, health, and fulfillment at higher levels. Listen now!
Today’s Guest
Dr. Julie Gurner
Dr. Julie Gurner is a doctor psychology and executive performance coach who works with high-level executives, founders, and elite performers in tech, finance, and other high-stakes industries. She is the founder of Ultra Successful, a widely read newsletter focused on the psychology of exceptional performance, and has been described by The Wall Street Journal as a real-world counterpart to Wendy Rhoades from Billions.
Connect to Dr. Julie Gurner
Website: DrGurner.com
Substack: DrGurner.substack.com
X: @drgurner
Instagram: @drgurner
You’ll learn:
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Why high performers often sabotage success as their identity lags behind growth
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How control, stress, and overload quietly limit cognitive performance
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The difference between productive stress and stress that undermines decision-making
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Why motivation, discipline, and grinding are often misunderstood at high levels
What Ted and Julie discuss in this episode:
00:00 Introduction
00:42 Meet Dr. Julie Gurner: Performance Psychologist
02:13 High Performers and Fitness
03:40 The Role of Sleep in Performance
05:24 Cognitive Optimization for High Achievers
11:05 Managing Stress for Executives
14:01 Letting Go of Control to Succeed
14:49 The 80% Rule: Delegating for Growth
15:33 Building a Team: The Key to Scaling
16:18 Personal Growth for Business Success
17:03 Balancing Control and Delegation
18:31 Choosing the Right Business Partner
20:00 The Importance of Self-Belief
26:17 Final Thoughts