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"My partner just doesn't care"

The Anxious Love Coach

Release Date: 11/04/2024

Girltalk: sisterhood keeping you humble in your marriage show art Girltalk: sisterhood keeping you humble in your marriage

The Anxious Love Coach

In this episode, my friend Cherry and I talked about a recent conversation where she humbled me in my marriage and how INCREDIBLY helpful it is to have sister roles like that in your life. Cherry also shares how to make bomb a$$ friends.   Links: - support my work and come pick my brain during my monthly hotseat coaching for $7/month! - join me for 3 of my best-selling 8-week programs in spring, summer, fall, plus monthly trainings/Q&As/workshops with my mentor and dear friend, Stefi Preiss.

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This question came from my Patreon and I want to talk about it! If your guy is in his 20s and figuring himself out and you're feeling anxious about it... you're not crazy. Here's why and what you can do about it. - pick my brain monthly and get discounts on (almost) everything I'm hosting a workshop on Dec 19th to set your intentions for 2026! Free for and members. Or get it here for $25.

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In this episode I share a personal story with my husband’s porn usage, what to do if your partner’s usage bothers you, how I see porn now, what makes it worse, and how to get him to want to stop. Join me for the entire year in You'll get: Access to my three best-selling 8-week group programs in spring, summer, and fall Plus an exclusive community ONLY for those that join for all three seasons, where we will meet monthly for trainings and Q&As to help you integrate and keep the momentum going all year long.

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Hey! In this episode I shared my story with breakup urges in my relationship with my now-husband and partner for 14 years. Boy do I know the panic of the thought "BREAK UP!" I also shared how I stopped experiencing these altogether, and how you can work with me in 2026.   Join me for the entire year in You'll get: Access to my three best-selling 8-week group programs in spring, summer, and fall Plus an exclusive community ONLY for those that join for all three seasons, where we will meet monthly for trainings and Q&As to help you integrate and keep the momentum going all year...

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Hot take: relationship anxiety is the fear of being "stuck" or powerless. There's no shame in falling into the trap of thinking we'll be victims to the circumstances in our lives— but once you see it... you don't have to choose it. You can choose to stay empowered no matter what your decision is. Listen in. Links: Join me for the entire year in You'll get: Access to my three best-selling 8-week group programs in spring, summer, and fall Plus an exclusive community ONLY for those that join for all three seasons, where we will meet monthly for trainings and Q&As to help you...

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This is an IG LIVE - Join me for Tension of Opposites starting July 10th

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End the war within yourself with Stefi Preiss   In this episode, I bring one of my dearest friends and mentors, Stefi Preiss, to discuss a practice that helped me step out of relationship anxiety and commit to my partner (now husband and daddy to my baby!) with my whole heart. We discuss what a polarity looks like, how it can create healing in ourselves, our families, and ultimately — the world (especially in this heatedly escalating political environment).   We'll be co-teaching this practice in our upcoming 6-week series for women, starting July 10th.   Discounts are...

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Hi podcast listener! I'm back with a fresh episode after having a baby boy. This episode includes my birth story (which went tremendously well), as well as some changes I'm making moving forward, including to the title of this podcast. Work with me 1:1: Join me on Patreon (special discounts + a monthly support call where you can ask me anything and source the community for help): Tension of Opposites - my next 6 week series for wishy-washy women ready to claim sovereignty in their lives and know themselves more fully - July 10 - http

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A question we’ve had come up in our self-study course and also in our DMs– what do you do if your partner watches porn or follows a bunch of hot women on social media? (This speaks mostly to a pattern I see coming from women in relationships with men, but as always, not always.) In this episode, I share some thoughts on (particularly the excessive use of) pornography … as always, take what empowers you, and discard what doesn’t. This conversation has lots of context and nuance I can’t possibly cover in one episode! Links:   Email List - Stay in touch I'm going on maternity leave...

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When you're experiencing relationship anxiety, hearing "trust your gut" or "listen to your intuition" can be one of the most triggering things you can hear. Is your intuition telling you to leave, or is it ROCD? Tune in with Chelsea Joy Horton, OCD specialist with her masters in dance movement therapy and counseling. Together we share the more accurate measurements of determining how to trust your decision about your partner.   Email List - Stay in touch I'm going on maternity leave in January! I'll be in touch via email for a while. Please subscribe! As thanks, I'll send you my free...

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This episode is for you if you perceive your partner doesn't care about you, or things in your relationship that you want them to care about— OR if your partner perceives YOU don't care. Either way, you'll have some new tools to work with to have better conversations!
 
Btw— happy 100th episode! Thanks for supporting this podcast. You guys are great.
 
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Email List - Stay in touch
I'm going on maternity leave in January! I'll be in touch via email for a while. Please subscribe! As thanks, I'll send you my free relationship anxiety meditation to help you snap out of ruminating. Get that here.
 
1:1 Mentorship Promo - Me in your back pocket
I'm offering a 1:1 promo through the month of November. 1-month intensive mentorship with 4 90-minute sessions, WhatsApp support, and my signature course Both Feet In. Get that here.
 
Both Feet In - Get help at your own pace
Get my signature program to help you pull your other foot out the door in your relationship, open your heart, and make a decision you feel proud of either way — all in your own time. PDFs, audio/video recordings, and support from other students. Get that here.
 
Patreon - Join my community
Lastly, if you love my work, please consider sponsoring me on Patreon! I appreciate it so much. I offer discounts, some exclusive content, and a monthly community support call on Zoom where you can ask me anything, for $5-9/month, cancel anytime. By the time you hear this, my November call will have already passed (but you can watch in retrospect), but our next one will be Saturday, December 14th at 9am PST. Become a patron here.