Bills, Bridesmaids, and Banter: Hotline Edition with Chrissy Rutherford
Release Date: 05/28/2024
Dating Trends of 2025 with Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria
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This week on Ask a Matchmaker, is joined by , a renowned dating coach who specializes in navigating the world of online dating. Together, they break down essential advice for making meaningful connections in 2025. Erika shares creative tips on rethinking your dating profile title—why calling yourself an "RN" or "hospitality professional" might spark more interest than the traditional job title approach. They also dive into the emerging trend of value-driven dating. But what does "values" actually mean in dating, and how does it stack up against chemistry? Erika and Maria explain why both...
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No More Situationships with Tara Jokes | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker Maria
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It’s a bittersweet episode as is joined one last time by her favorite guest co-host, comedian ! Together, they dive into one of Maria’s signature hotline episodes, packed with laughs, wisdom, and a little tough love❤️ This week, Maria and Tara tackle a Matchmaker Mail 💌 from someone struggling to voice her wants in a relationship. How do you express your needs without fear of coming across as too demanding—or worse, scaring someone off? Maria and Tara break it down step-by-step, offering practical tips on how to communicate clearly and confidently. “It’s not about being...
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Freeze For Your Future w Monica Matta & Tara Jokes | Ask a Matchmaker pod w Matchmaker Maria
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This week, Matchmaker Maria and comedian Tara Cannistraci , , are joined by special guest Monica, a founder of , a concierge service helping women navigate fertility options abroad In this heartfelt episode, Tara shares her personal story of freezing her eggs at 33—a decision she made during a time of uncertainty about wanting kids and focusing on dating. Monica sheds light on why more women are turning to international fertility treatments and how Conceivable Reproductive is empowering them to take control of their reproductive journeys. From navigating modern dating to making big...
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Marathon Dates vs. Coffee Dates w Ricky Liorti & Tara Cannistraci | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker Maria
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This week, Matchmaker Maria and comedian , AKA Tara Jokes are joined by , the man behind the viral "boyfriend application" that took the internet by storm! Despite receiving thousands of DMs from potential matches, Ricky never went on a single date—but now he’s here to talk all things dating in 2025. In this episode, Ricky shares his love for marathon first dates, insisting they should be extravagant, unforgettable, and last 7–8 hours. Matchmaker Maria fiercely disagrees, advocating for short and simple coffee dates (no more than 2 hours!) as the perfect way to build a...
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Year of Yes with Tara Cannistraci AKA TaraJokes | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker Maria
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Kick off 2025 with as she sits down with comedian , host of the Coffee Talk podcast, for an inspiring conversation about love, dating, and embracing new opportunities. Tara shares her journey of singlehood, celebrating her Bronx roots, and finding love in her late 30s during her transformative "Year of Yes." Maria and Tara explore the ups and downs of dating, the importance of shared cultural values, and how changing your mindset can lead to meaningful relationships. They also open up about stepping outside their comfort zones in dating and the unexpected paths that led them to love. This...
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How To Be Dateable Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker Maria
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Happy New Year! On this special episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by the dynamic duo behind the , and ! They're here to talk about their brand-new book, , and officially hitting shelves on January 28th 🎉 In this fun and insightful conversation, Maria dives into the origins of Julie and Yue’s decade-long podcasting journey, their mission to uncover the mysteries of modern dating, and what makes someone truly dateable. The authors share personal stories, defining moments in their friendship, and their thoughtful definition of what it means to show up...
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Christmas Calls w Edson Montenegro & Chris Welles | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker Maria
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Happy Holidays!! Matchmaker Maria is joined by returning co-host ,and special guest for a festive and heartfelt Christmas Eve hotline episode! The trio spreads holiday cheer with hilarious banter about relationships, family traditions, and even personal Santa sightings! While the holiday spirit is in full swing, the episode dives into some of the more serious listener dilemmas, including how to handle a surprising number of questions about divorce—whether it’s processing your own, supporting a friend, or navigating awkward announcements at networking events. From debating if Die...
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Non-Binary & Pronouns 101 w Edson Montenegro & Chris Welles | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker Maria
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Let's 👏 learn👏 This week, Maria is joined by comedian and guest co-host , who brought along their best friend, . Both Edson and Chris are non-binary, gay individuals who use they/them pronouns, and they’re here to share their personal experiences, perspectives, and humor on what it means to exist outside the gender binary. From lighthearted anecdotes about childhood moments to navigating conversations around pronouns, Maria asks the questions we all want to better understand. Edson and Chris break down the fluidity of gender identity, discuss finding authenticity, and explore how...
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How To Make a Friend w Aaron Karo & Edson Montenegro | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker Maria
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Matchmaker Maria is joined by her cohost Edson and special guest Aaron Karo to explore the fascinating world of friendships—what they mean, how they evolve, and why they matter. Aaron shares the story of his viral college newsletter Ruminations, how it shaped his early career, and how he and Maria turned a parasocial connection into a real-life friendship. They also dive into Aaron's annual "Man of the Year" tradition with his childhood friends, which has kept their bond strong for decades. The conversation takes a deeper turn as they discuss the "friendship recession," a...
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What's an Open Relationship? w Edson Montenegro | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker Maria
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It’s a special episode as Matchmaker Maria celebrates her milestone 40th birthday with this month's new co-host, comedian Edson! Between birthday hats, balloons, and confetti-free festivities, Maria and Edson dive into a lively conversation about love, connection, and the dynamics of open relationships. Edson shares his personal journey of being in an open relationship with his long-term partner, discussing how they set boundaries, explore new experiences, and maintain trust while navigating both emotional and physical connections. Along the way, Maria provides her signature...
info_outlineIn this week's episode, I'm thrilled to welcome my good friend Chrissy Rutherford to the show! Together, we dive deep into the ever-evolving world of dating and relationships. We'll kick things off with a lively debate on a classic dating dilemma: who should foot the bill on a date? From there, we'll unpack the dos and don’ts of bridesmaid etiquette, offering our insights on how to handle the common challenges and expectations that come with the role. Plus, we're spicing things up with some hilariously entertaining questions submitted by our listeners through our hotline. Don’t miss this fun, candid, and informative discussion full of tips, tales, and a good dose of laughter. Tune in to gain some fresh perspectives on these intriguing social customs!
Chrissy Rutherford is a fashion and social media expert with over 15 years of experience in the industry. Most notably, she worked as an editor at Harper’s Bazaar.com for almost 9 years, where she spearheaded the magazine’s Instagram account (garnering over 4 million followers and a 2019 ASME nomination), along with writing fashion and celebrity stories, styling, producing, TV appearances, and hosting their Youtube series “Heel Hunters.”
Now, she is a creative entrepreneur who has created content with coveted brands like J.Crew, Caudalie, JW Marriott Hotels, Net-a-Porter, DeBeers, Supergoop, Reformation, Theory, American Express, Samsonite, and many others. She is the founder of the FWD JOY (Forward Joy) newsletter, which is dedicated to the journey of self-discovery, self-care, and self-investment. She writes personal essays about her life alongside interviews with people she admires ranging from astrology to dating to overcoming addiction. Her mental health advocacy also led her to host two seasons of Maybelline’s mental health podcast, “I’m Fine, You?” where she interviewed mental health experts, influencers, and celebrities to help destigmatize anxiety and depression. In 2020, she co-founded the DEI consultancy 2BG Consulting with fellow editor Danielle Prescod to help fashion and beauty brands implement anti-racist strategies in their brand communication
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https://www.harpersbazaar.com/author/1644/chrissy-rutherford/
LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrissy-rutherford/
Maybelline podcast: I’m fine, you? Hosted by Chrissy Rutherford
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/im-fine-you/id1631179306
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