Ask a Matchmaker
Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying!
info_outline
What I Wish Every Single Person Knew About Romance Scams
09/15/2026
What I Wish Every Single Person Knew About Romance Scams
kicks off Season 7 with a wild update: after being featured in the New York Times and making headlines in Greece, her matchmaking company, Agape Match, was impersonated by a scam center targeting single men on Telegram. She shares how the scammers stole photos of her real employees, created fake dating profiles, charged victims everything from $50 activation fees to $25,000, and even used AI generated women to make the scam look real. It's a scary story that you need to listen to so you can be sure you're not next!! Support the podcast by supporting our sponsor! Connect with quality therapists & mental health experts who specialize in you at #rulapod #ad
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42906937
info_outline
The Angry Dad Theory: Is Your Dad Affecting Who You Date? ft Nadine Ahmed
09/08/2026
The Angry Dad Theory: Is Your Dad Affecting Who You Date? ft Nadine Ahmed
Matchmaker Maria sits down with licensed therapist to unpack the “angry dad theory,” how growing up with emotionally unavailable or angry parents can affect our relationships, and why learning to apologize to your kids can break the cycle.!Then, Maria and Nadine answer Hotline Questions from YOU! From listeners waiting three years for a proposal, whether you should stay friends with an ex who is dating someone you once worried about, and if you should be engaged before moving in together. They also get into destination weddings, financial compatibility, renting out your NYC apartment, and why dirty socks and dishes might actually be about respect and compatibility! Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors! Get 25% off Cowboy Colostrum with code MATCHMAKER at
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42822140
info_outline
How Many Dates Does It Take to Know If You Like Someone?
09/01/2026
How Many Dates Does It Take to Know If You Like Someone?
Matchmaker Maria and Louie Felix tackle dating after divorce, including how a single mom with two young kids can find a serious relationship and why the six-date rule can help. They also get into the ultimate couple fight: dirty dishes, different cleaning habits, and what those little conflicts can reveal before marriage. Plus, they break down what to do when someone’s actions don’t match their words and how much lifestyle compatibility really matters.
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42637960
info_outline
Why Your “Type” Could Be Keeping You Single ft Nina Kharoufeh
08/25/2026
Why Your “Type” Could Be Keeping You Single ft Nina Kharoufeh
, matchmaker, comedian, and former Match Me Abroad host, joins to talk about what really happened when Americans went to Morocco looking for love. It didn't end in finding a “trophy wife” like one man thought! They then discuss why daters are rejecting second dates over tiny things, and why height, weight, and other physical preferences can keep you from meeting someone great. They get into hotline questions, answering a listener whose friend is hiding a former sugar baby arrangement from her fiancé, and give advice to a woman dating while working in a male dominated industry. Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors! Get 40% off select Lola Blankets products at by using code MATCHMAKER at checkout. Experience the world’s #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. #ad
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42546170
info_outline
Can Your Values Make or Break a Relationship? ft Suzy Welch
08/18/2026
Can Your Values Make or Break a Relationship? ft Suzy Welch
joins to break down VALUES and what your core values can reveal about dating, compatibility, marriage, and the life you actually want. They get into why values (not personality) can make or break a relationship, the “divorce values” to watch for, why place and “belovedness” can be major dealbreakers, and whether couples really need to share the same top values. Also, Suzie shares what happened when her daughter and her fiance took the Values Bridge and discovered their top six values were exactly the same! Check out the code MATCHMAKER today and comment your top 5 in the comments!
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42469490
info_outline
How Long Should a First Date Actually Be? ft Lauren Davis
08/11/2026
How Long Should a First Date Actually Be? ft Lauren Davis
Comedian, joins for a fun conversation about red flags, marathon first dates, dating app lies, and why a 2 hr date might be better than spending 10hrs together! They discuss the best first date activities, from walking and museums to bowling, and answer a listener question about dating in Spain at 62. It's a fun episode you don't want to miss! Check out Lauren's travel themed digital show 👉 ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Visit Maria’s website or submit your own dating question: 👉 ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42386765
info_outline
Are Smartphones Contributing to the Birth Rate Crisis? ft Christine Emba
08/04/2026
Are Smartphones Contributing to the Birth Rate Crisis? ft Christine Emba
Could your smartphone be affecting your dating life and even the birth rate? talks to writer and cultural critic about research linking smartphones to declining fertility and how scrolling may be replacing the time people once spent meeting, flirting, and connecting. They also get into porn, AI, dating apps, and algorithms that are changing how men and women see relationships. Follow Christine’s work in The New York Times and subscribe to her for more of her writing and ideas. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42310065
info_outline
Can Grief Show You You're With the Wrong Person? ft. Gus Constantellis
07/28/2026
Can Grief Show You You're With the Wrong Person? ft. Gus Constantellis
Comedian joins to talk about turning his late mother's recipes into a cookbook that became a heartfelt memoir about grief, family, and finding joy again. They dive into how losing a parent changed the way Gus looked at love, why his mom's advice to "come up for air" ended a five year relationship, and what it was like watching his dad start dating again just weeks after her passing. Plus, they answer whether it's a red flag if your date can't cook, debate a fourth date that skips dinner, and reveal the Greek meal that might just make someone fall in love! Check out his book here 👉 Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors! Get 40% off select Lola Blankets products at by using code MATCHMAKER at checkout. Experience the world’s #1 blanket with Lola Blankets
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42237615
info_outline
The 4 Dating Personality Types That Predict Compatibility
07/21/2026
The 4 Dating Personality Types That Predict Compatibility
breaks down what compatibility really means and why finding the right partner has nothing to do with shared hobbies or a Myers-Briggs label. She explains the four dating personalities, why your lifestyle is really about how you value your time and money, and the questions every good dater should be asking. Plus, hear the surprising story of the woman who thought she wanted an adventurous partner until one personality test changed everything and led her to her husband. If you've ever wondered why your relationships keep missing the mark, this episode is your roadmap. Check out this test today! 👉https://theanatomyoflove.com/relationship-quizzes/helen-fishers-personality-test/personality-test-1/ ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42158380
info_outline
Why Feeling "Too Much" Is Actually a Strength ft Alison Leiby
07/14/2026
Why Feeling "Too Much" Is Actually a Strength ft Alison Leiby
Comedian and author joins to talk about her new essay collection and why every version of ourselves deserves a seat at the table. They discuss different identities, only-child life, surviving a near death experience, chronic back pain, stand up comedy, and how those experiences shape dating and relationships. Plus, the two answer a listener who feels like she's lost herself after ignoring red flags in a relationship and wants to learn how to trust herself again. If you've ever wondered who you are outside of dating, this episode is for you! ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/42063725
info_outline
Should One Bad Joke End a Date? ft Jourdian Fisher
07/07/2026
Should One Bad Joke End a Date? ft Jourdian Fisher
Comedian joins for a hilarious hotline episode about dating, love, and learning when not to "fix" your partner's problems. Go check out his comedy special, , today!! They break down whether weed is a real deal breaker, if one bad joke should end a relationship, and what it really means when someone says they're "going through something." Plus, Jordan shares how Bumble led him to love, why he used to fear commitment, and the relationship lesson every boyfriend needs to hear: sometimes "Wow, that sucks" is enough. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41958870
info_outline
Practical Optimism Can Save Your Dating Life ft Dr. Sue Varma
06/30/2026
Practical Optimism Can Save Your Dating Life ft Dr. Sue Varma
Psychiatrist and couples therapist joins to explain why optimism isn't something you're born with, it's a skill you can build. They break down the difference between healthy realism and catastrophizing, why overthinking keeps people single, and how "maximizers" sabotage dating by chasing endless options. Plus, they answer a listener question about a boyfriend who's afraid to take the next step toward marriage and whether it's your job to fix your partner's fears. If dating has started to feel hopeless, this episode shares practical ways to change your mindset without falling into toxic positivity. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41901615
info_outline
Jared Freid Explains the Different Types of SINGLE
06/23/2026
Jared Freid Explains the Different Types of SINGLE
is back on Ask a Matchmaker to talk about his new book, , and why most dating advice completely misses the average guy's perspective. Jared and Maria dive into the "types of singles," why family setups may be better than dating apps, the difference between "main street" and "alleyway" dating, and whether social media is making dating harder than it needs to be. They also debate TikTok dating rules, the taxi cab theory, Snapchat requests, Uber expectations, and why "if he wanted to, he would" might be terrible advice. Plus, Jared plays a rapid-fire round of "Walking Red Flag or Overthinking It?" and gives his take on some of the internet's favorite dating debates. Support the sponsors, support the show! Get 25% off Cowboy Colostrum with code MATCHMAKER at ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41735985
info_outline
Should You Go On A Second Date Without Chemistry? ft Amy Chan
06/16/2026
Should You Go On A Second Date Without Chemistry? ft Amy Chan
, author of joins to break down why so many people feel burned out by dating and what they're getting wrong! They discuss Amy’s "dating funnel," why a lack of chemistry on a first date shouldn't always be a dealbreaker, and how doomscrolling, TikTok, and dopamine overload may be sabotaging your love life. Plus, a listener from Miami asks how to stay hopeful after disappointing dates, and Amy shares her favorite pre-date ritual to create better connections. If you're tired of dating apps, chasing sparks, or wondering why first dates never go anywhere, this episode is for you. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41658930
info_outline
Is Dating Your Friend's Ex Ever Okay? A Summer House Debate with Chrissy Rutherford
06/09/2026
Is Dating Your Friend's Ex Ever Okay? A Summer House Debate with Chrissy Rutherford
sits down with writer and mental health advocate to discuss the Summer House drama behind her essay, From dating a friend's ex to the complicated realities of interracial dating, Chrissy explains why Ciara's experience struck such a nerve with so many black women. They dive into fetishization, friendship loyalty, codependent relationships, and the emotional impact of feeling desired but not chosen. support the show, support the sponsors! Go to and use promo code MATCHMAKER at checkout for $35 off. Minimum purchase may apply. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41582175
info_outline
Heated Rivalry Reveals the Reality of Avoidant Dating
06/02/2026
Heated Rivalry Reveals the Reality of Avoidant Dating
What can a steamy hockey romance teach us about attachment styles, situationships, and emotional vulnerability? This week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her sister and fellow matchmaker, , to break down the hit series Heated Rivalry through the lens of dating psychology. They unpack why Shane and Ilya's 7 year push-pull dynamic feels so familiar, explore fearful avoidant vs. dismissive avoidant attachment styles, and compare the show's emotional tension to Normal People, Bridgerton, and classic Jane Austen romances. Plus, they dive into the art of yearning, why women LOVE slow-burn love stories, and reveal which character they'd actually choose for a healthy relationship. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41503925
info_outline
Doing Chores Literally Saved My Marriage ft. Jordan Carlos
05/26/2026
Doing Chores Literally Saved My Marriage ft. Jordan Carlos
Comedian and author joins to talk about the surprisingly sexy secret to saving a relationship: doing the chores without being asked! From “invisible labor” and executive function to a grabbing some milk, they get into why a clean kitchen can actually improve your sex life! This episode gets hilariously real about marriage, gender roles, and modern dating. Jordan opens up about hitting a rough patch 10 years into marriage, realizing he’d become a bit of a man child, and how learning to truly co-parent changed everything at home. Maria agrees saying women notice the missing top sheet immediately, and the small habits actually make someone more attractive. If you’ve ever wondered whether buying extra coffee creamer counts as romance… this episode says YES! Support the sponsors, support the show! Ask A Matchmaker fans get 20% off Bleume liquid plant food with code MATCHMAKER at
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41419795
info_outline
Why Ambitious Women Get Rejected More ft Stefanie O'Connell
05/19/2026
Why Ambitious Women Get Rejected More ft Stefanie O'Connell
Can ambition ruin a relationship? Matchmaker Maria sits down with author and journalist to unpack why ambitious women are still being labeled “too much” in dating, work, and marriage. They discuss the research behind men pulling away when women out-earn them, why women still do more household labor even when they make more money, and how “provider mentality” can sometimes really mean control. Maria also shares what she’s seeing in modern dating, from men wanting “ambitious women” until they actually meet one, to the rise of trad wife content and 27-year-olds panicking over finding a husband. Plus, they answer a listener question from a NYC finance executive whose boyfriend admitted he was intimidated by her career success. Check out Stefanie's new book! 👉 Support the sponsors, support the show! Ask A Matchmaker fans get 20% off Bleume liquid plant food with code MATCHMAKER at Get 25% off Cowboy Colostrum with code MATCHMAKER at ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41343330
info_outline
Wired to Connect: The Science of Love, Lust & Fidelity with Kinsey Institute Director Dr. Justin Garcia
05/12/2026
Wired to Connect: The Science of Love, Lust & Fidelity with Kinsey Institute Director Dr. Justin Garcia
sits down with of the Kinsey Institute to break down the science behind modern dating, ghosting, dating apps, attraction, AI in dating, hookup culture and relationships. Maria and Justin get into why over 70% of singles have fallen for someone they usually wouldn’t think they’d be attracted to and why Gen Z says they value authenticity yet nearly 50% of them are using AI in their dating lives. They discuss whether first-date chemistry is overrated, why ghosting may actually may come from fear of rejection and conflict, and the difference between social monogamy and sexual monogamy. Plus, Justin shares the Kinsey Institute’s research on emojis, sexting, hookup culture, pair bonding, and why “the grass is greener where you water it” may be the most important dating advice singles need right now! 📚Check out Justin's new book, , today! Support the sponsors, support the show! Ask A Matchmaker fans get 20% off Bleume liquid plant food with code MATCHMAKER at Go to and use promo code MATCHMAKER at checkout for $35 off. Minimum purchase may apply. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41260185
info_outline
How to AVOID Situationships Early in Dating
05/05/2026
How to AVOID Situationships Early in Dating
is back with a hotline episode tackling the dating questions everyone is actually thinking about. She breaks down why shows like Heated Rivalry, Bridgerton, and Grey’s Anatomy have women hooked, and why vulnerability in men is the real turn-on. Then, a 37-year-old man asks how to follow the 12 Date Rule without killing the chemistry, and Maria explains how to show attraction without rushing into sex or creating a situationship. She also answers a listener wondering if their urge to flirt means they’re non-monogamous or just not choosing the right partner. From emotional connection to the reality of long-term love, this episode gets honest about what dating really takes. Connect with quality therapists & mental health experts who specialize in you at #rulapod #ad ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41152250
info_outline
Why Gen Z Is Having Less Sex? ft Dr. Carli Blau
04/28/2026
Why Gen Z Is Having Less Sex? ft Dr. Carli Blau
Gen Z is having less sex! And THIS episode breaks down exactly why! Matchmaker Maria sits down with sex therapist to talk about the “sex recession,” including stats like 1 in 3 men under 30 not having sex and people waiting longer for their first experience. They get into how dating apps, fear of rejection, and growing up online are making real-life connection harder, plus why hyper-sexual messages like “do you like butt play?” are replacing normal conversation! Dr. Carli explains why many cases of painful sex are driven by anxiety and fear, not just physical issues. Plus, real advice on how to build your social muscle, meet people in real life, and stop over-filtering your dating pool. Ask A Matchmaker fans can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off additional pairs at Use our link to support the show! #WarbyParker #ad ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/41041785
info_outline
Your Frictionless Life Is Ruining Your Dating Life! ft Rachel Williams
04/21/2026
Your Frictionless Life Is Ruining Your Dating Life! ft Rachel Williams
Dating burnout, dating app fatigue, and lack of motivation to go out are becoming the MAIN problems in modern dating, and Matchmaker Maria breaks down exactly why! We're joined this week by comedian for a Hotline episode that tackles how a “frictionless” lifestyle filled with apps, delivery, and convenience is making dating feel harder than ever. A 32-year-old caller shares her struggle with feeling hopeless after quitting dating apps, and Maria explains why simply going out is a win and how weekly routines like classes or events can rebuild momentum. They also dig into family dynamics and red flags, including how to tell if your mom is right about your boyfriend or projecting her own issues. Plus, a real talk on exclusivity without labels and whether “right person, wrong time” actually exists. Sometimes they do! Connect with quality therapists & mental health experts who specialize in you at #rulapod #ad ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40948445
info_outline
Can Better Friendships Improve Your Dating Life? ft Shari Leid
04/14/2026
Can Better Friendships Improve Your Dating Life? ft Shari Leid
What if friendship is the real key to finding love? This week, Maria sits down with author and connection coach , who shares the unbelievable story of being found as a baby in a cardboard box and how that shaped her mission to fight loneliness and seek connection. After a recent divorce and cross-country move, Shari reveals how traveling to all 50 states to share meals with strangers led to her “Flip the Box” philosophy: turning isolation into connection. They break down her 3 connection power tools , plus real-life icebreakers that actually work at events! Then, they tackle a listener question from a 33-year-old in Chicago feeling left behind by married friends and give practical advice on building a new social circle from scratch! Check out her book by today! support the show, support the sponsors! 👉 Go to and use promo code MATCHMAKER at checkout for $35 off. Minimum purchase may apply. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40866160
info_outline
Can This Age Gap Survive Long Term? She’s 39, He’s 24!
04/07/2026
Can This Age Gap Survive Long Term? She’s 39, He’s 24!
It's a Hotline episode 👏 This week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by CEO of Agape Escapes, Amalia Kalogridakis, for a rapid-fire dating advice episode! They cover: money, friendship, and age gap relationships! They discuss whether $100,000 in credit card debt is a dating dealbreaker, how to rebuild your social life when your boyfriend is your only friend, and if a 39-year-old woman dating a 24-year-old man is headed for heartbreak or just harmless fun. Plus, they also invite listeners to their Greece retreat and cruise this August, make some new friends with Amalia, Maria, and Chrisoula! ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40754035
info_outline
I Miscarried Quadruplets and the Hospital Bill Was Insane! ft Elena Nicolaou
03/31/2026
I Miscarried Quadruplets and the Hospital Bill Was Insane! ft Elena Nicolaou
Matchmaker Maria is joined by TODAY.com senior editor for a powerful conversation on miscarriage, partner support, and the reality of navigating women’s healthcare. Elena shares the emotional story of finding out she was pregnant with quadruplets, miscarring, and then having to face a $41,000 medical bill after surgery! They also get into what grief looks like inside a marriage, how to know if your partner can handle real life stress, and why dating should be about more than just chemistry. Plus, they respond to a listener struggling after miscarriage when her husband seems ready to move on too fast. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40675615
info_outline
Are You in Love or Just Addicted to the Chase? ft Amanda McCracken
03/24/2026
Are You in Love or Just Addicted to the Chase? ft Amanda McCracken
Limerence, obsessive dating thoughts, and why you can’t stop checking your phone? Matchmaker Maria sits down with journalist and author , whose writing on relationships has been published in the New York Times, Guardian, and Vogue, to break down the psychology of intense romantic infatuation. Amanda shares how she dated over 100 men, struggled with “anchormen” from her past, and realized she was addicted to longing, not love. They unpack dopamine hits from texting, why intermittent responses keep you hooked, and how purity culture and hookup culture can wire you for obsession. Plus, what to do when your mood depends on a text back, why “butterflies” can be anxiety, and the exact mindset shift that helps you stop chasing unavailable people. If you’ve ever reread texts, stalked Instagram, or felt addicted to someone after 4 dates, this episode is your wake-up call. Be sure to pick up a copy of today! ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40601220
info_outline
How Do I Work With an Ex Who Cheated on Me? ft Chloe Radcliffe
03/17/2026
How Do I Work With an Ex Who Cheated on Me? ft Chloe Radcliffe
Comedian joins Matchmaker Maria for a dating advice hotline episode about modern dating, relationships, dating apps, and finding a serious partner. They help a listener figure out how to work with an ex-boyfriend who betrayed her but still wants the breakup kept secret at their workplace. Another caller asks how to balance casual dating and having fun at 29 while still wanting to find a husband before her aging parents pass away. Maria and Chloe also talk about how to improve a Hinge profile to attract men who want marriage and family, and why you may need to swipe on the “6s and 7s” instead of only the “10s.” Chloe also shares the unique “processing time” parenting method her mom used growing up to help her face emotions directly, and how having a visible birthmark shaped her experience with confidence and dating! Check out Chloe on the road 👉 ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40508190
info_outline
What JFK Jr. & Carolyn Bessette’s Proposal Taught Us And MORE Dating News
03/10/2026
What JFK Jr. & Carolyn Bessette’s Proposal Taught Us And MORE Dating News
JFK Jr. and Carolyn Bessette’s relationship, the viral “Alpine Divorce” dating trend, religious values in modern matchmaking, and the viral Hinge baker experiment are all part of today’s dating conversation. In this solo episode, Matchmaker Maria reacts to the TikTok trend where partners abandon each other on hikes and explains why selfish behavior in relationships is often a pattern. She also breaks down American Love Story and the relationship lesson behind Carolyn Bessette not immediately saying yes to John F. Kennedy Jr.’s proposal. Plus, Maria shares surprising trends she’s seeing in her matchmaking office, including singles converting to Roman Catholicism and the rise of AI matchmaking. And finally, she weighs in on the viral woman giving men sourdough bread from Hinge as a low-pressure way to meet and vibe check potential dates! ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40377485
info_outline
How Jeffrey Epstein Impacted Modern Dating ft Ileana Justine
03/03/2026
How Jeffrey Epstein Impacted Modern Dating ft Ileana Justine
Did millennial women grow up inside a system designed by powerful men? In this episode, Maria is joined by journalist to unpack how mall culture, Victoria’s Secret, JUICY sweatpants, low-rise jeans, and dress code “fingertip rules” shaped millennial body image, and how the Jeffrey Epstein era exposed who held the power behind those brands. They break down the male gaze vs. the female gaze, trad wife influencers, the “provider” debate in modern dating, GLP-1 skinny culture, and how shows like Grey’s Anatomy changed women’s dating standards. Plus, a listener asks how to date confidently after major surgery, weight changes, and visible scars. This is a deep dive into cultural conditioning, patriarchy, body image, and how it all affects who we choose to love. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off. ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40290555
info_outline
How to Have Hard Conversations Early in Dating ft. Colette Fehr
02/24/2026
How to Have Hard Conversations Early in Dating ft. Colette Fehr
Hard conversations in relationships, attachment styles, anxious vs avoidant dynamics, and emotional disconnection are at the center of this week’s Ask A Matchmaker. Matchmaker Maria sits down with therapist and author to explain why couples fight about small things like Duolingo, texting back, or Valentine’s Day flowers when the real issue is feeling unheard or unimportant. They break down how to stop people pleasing, how to say “that hurt me” clearly, and why serious conversations should never happen over text. Colette shares tools from her book , including her emotional Mad Libs method for speaking up without pushing your partner away. They also tackle anxious and avoidant attachment patterns and whether separate bedrooms, like Keke Palmer suggested, can actually work in a healthy relationship. ♥️JOIN MARIA’S COMMUNITY + SUBMIT A QUESTION ❓ Ready to date with intention? 💌 Join Maria’s Roundtable community or submit your own dating question: 👉 Use promo code ROUNDTABLE50 for $50 off. ✈️ TRAVEL WITH AGAPE ESCAPES Make new friends. Travel the world. ☀️ Check out upcoming trips: Use code ESCAPES150 for $150 off early bird pricing. 📚 ORDER MARIA’S BOOK + FOLLOW ALONG ✨ Order Maria’s book 👉 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast ⭐ Leave a 5-star review if you’re feeling lovable and likable 🌐 CONNECT WITH MARIA Everything: Instagram: TikTok: Agape Match IG: Facebook: Agape Match: 🎙️ CREDITS Producer: Venetia Geras Studio: WTF Media Studios
/episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40210285