Ask a Matchmaker

Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying!

Are You in Love or Just Addicted to the Chase? ft Amanda McCracken 03/24/2026

How Do I Work With an Ex Who Cheated on Me? ft Chloe Radcliffe 03/17/2026

What JFK Jr. & Carolyn Bessette’s Proposal Taught Us And MORE Dating News 03/10/2026

How Jeffrey Epstein Impacted Modern Dating ft Ileana Justine 03/03/2026

How to Have Hard Conversations Early in Dating ft. Colette Fehr 02/24/2026

Immigrant Parents vs Your Relationship ft Dr. Rosette Elghossain 02/17/2026

Immigrant Parents vs Your Relationship ft Dr. Rosette Elghossain Dating across cultures, first-generation identity, and family pressure in relationships take center stage on this episode with Matchmaker Maria and licensed clinical psychologist to unpack how immigrant upbringing, enmeshment, and early family dynamics shape adult dating choices. They dive into navigating parental expectations, setting emotional boundaries, dating outside your culture, and what to do when your family doesn’t approve of your partner. You’ll also hear practical advice on values-based dating, dealing with guilt, and how to advocate for your relationship without abandoning your roots. A must-listen for anyone balancing love, identity, and modern dating! Dr. Rosette Elghossain is a licensed clinical psychologist and first-generation Lebanese-American. In her private practice, she focuses on relational and trauma work to help people navigate cross-cultural dating challenges, family pressures, relationship patterns, and the journey to a fulfilling life on their own terms. Check her out👇 on Instagram for info about therapy Listeners can use discount code MARIA100 to download this for free! ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out Maria's Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40133180

Can AI Replace Matchmakers? 02/10/2026

Can AI Replace Matchmakers? Dating apps, AI matchmaking, modern love, Valentine’s Day dating, and real relationship tips collide in this solo episode as breaks down the rise of AI matchmakers and what they actually get wrong about human connection. From chatbot dating coaches to algorithm-driven matches, Maria explores why faster swiping doesn’t equal better relationships, and why real matchmaking has always been about community, accountability, and growth. She shares behind-the-scenes insight from the dating industry, explains how AI can help (and hurt) your love life, and calls out the difference between validation and true compatibility. Plus, practical dating tips for 2026, how to expand your social circle, and what to do if you’re single this Valentine’s Day (hint: it involves dive bars and courage). If you’re navigating dating apps, dating fatigue, or wondering whether tech can replace chemistry, this episode is your fun, honest, and deeply human reality check! Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out Maria's Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/40054215

Can Long Distance Dating Work When You Don't Really Know him? ft Anna Roisman 02/03/2026

Can Long Distance Dating Work When You Don't Really Know him? ft Anna Roisman It's a fun hotline episode with Sex and the City impressions, dating long distance advice, and knowing that marriage isn't for you! Matchmaker Maria is joined by hilarious stand up comedian for a hotline episode packed with dating advice, love, and real-life dilemmas. Maria even gets to hear Anna’s spot-on Steve from Sex and the City impersonation as they break down relationships, commitment, and modern dating expectations. Callers ask tough, emotional questions, including whether long-distance dating can work when you barely know someone, how to rebuild confidence and flirt again, and how to navigate a relationship after cancer treatment and infertility. Maria and Anna also play a voicemail from a listener dating after the death of a spouse at 50, and what starting over can really look like. With expert matchmaker insight and comedian honesty, this episode delivers practical advice, empathy, and laughs for anyone dating through uncertainty, loss, or big life changes. Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out Maria's Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39974285

Are You in Perimenopause and Don’t Know It Yet? ft Lauren Tetenbaum 01/27/2026

Are You in Perimenopause and Don’t Know It Yet? ft Lauren Tetenbaum Women menopause and perimenopause take center stage as Matchmaker Maria sits down with therapist and women’s health advocate , author of Millennial Menopause, to talk about what’s really happening in the body and why most of us were never taught this. They break down the truth that menopause is technically one day, while perimenopause can last years and affect mood, sleep, libido, brain fog, and vaginal health. Lauren explains why medical education around menopause is still limited, what treatment options actually exist, and why pain, rage, or exhaustion should never be brushed off. The episode also gives clear advice for partners on how to support women going through perimenopause without minimizing or mocking their experience. A must-listen conversation about women’s health, intimacy, mental health, and preparing for a major life transition before it catches you off guard. To work with Lauren and learn more about her psychotherapy practice, visit thecounseLaur.com. Her book, Millennial Menopause: Preparing for Perimenopause, Menopause, and Life's Next Period, is available at and wherever books are sold. Visit Lauren at a book tour event () or follow her on Instagram 👉 Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out Maria's Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39890015

Divorce Is Not a Failure, It's a Transition ft Oona Metz 01/20/2026

Divorce Is Not a Failure, It's a Transition ft Oona Metz Divorce, emotional healing, lonliness in divorce, and dating after divorce are explored as therapist joins Matchmaker Maria for an honest conversation about why divorce is not a bad word. This episode covers the 5 top reasons for divorce, why the opposite of love is not hate, why you are not alone in your divorce, and how divorce can be a powerful life transition instead of a failure. Oona shares insights from her bestselling book and explains the emotional stages of divorce, including heartbreak, grief, letting go, and moving forward. Maria and Oona discuss finding the strength to transition into divorce, releasing shame, and rebuilding identity after marriage ends. They talk about divorce as a process of healing, growth, and self-trust, especially for women navigating co-parenting, dating again, or choosing peace over pressure. This episode reminds listeners that divorce can be the beginning of a healthier, more honest life and encourages anyone going through it to pick up Unhitched as a guide through the journey. is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, Certified Group Psychotherapist, and author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, bringing 30 years of experience supporting women through major life transitions. Her book focuses on the emotional side of divorce, offering practical tools, relatable stories, and guidance to help women move through separation, co-parenting, and life after marriage with clarity and strength. Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out Maria's Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39792640

The Truth About Ethical Non-Monogamy: Debunking Swinger Myths ft Victoria Joseph & Ryan Hicks 01/13/2026

The Truth About Ethical Non-Monogamy: Debunking Swinger Myths ft Victoria Joseph & Ryan Hicks In this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria dives into the world of ethical non-monogamy with guests Victoria Joseph and her husband Ryan, professional ENM matchmakers who are married and also swing. Together, they break down what ENM actually means, including the differences between open relationships, swinging, and polyamory, and explain how ethical non-monogamy differs from consensual non-monogamy. Victoria and Ryan share how they entered the lifestyle, common misconceptions about the swinger community, and why communication, consent, and respect are essential. The conversation also explores jealousy, safety, dating norms, and how matchmaking works within non-monogamous communities. Victoria runs , an exclusive concierge-style service for individuals seeking ENM, polyamorous, and lifestyle-focused relationships, where authentic connection and transparency aren’t just welcomed, they’re celebrated check out more 👉 ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out Maria's Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39710910

How to Go No Contact After a Breakup ft Allora Dannon 01/06/2026

How to Go No Contact After a Breakup ft Allora Dannon In this Hotline episode, Matchmaker Maria is joined by author and late-bloomer expert Allora Dannon to deliver no-nonsense dating advice rooted in clarity, confidence, and tough love! They tackle real listener dilemmas, starting with a woman struggling to finally break up and whether going no contact is the only way to heal. They revisit an update from the woman who discovered her boyfriend on a dating app. Does she break it off with him, or are they still together? A gay man calls in after successfully using the 12-date rule and asks how to move from dating to exclusivity without getting ghosted. Plus, Maria & Allora address a woman worried about meeting someone who checks every box on paper but sparks zero physical attraction, and whether “the whole package” is enough! Don't miss this juicy hotline episode! ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out Maria's Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39621455

Dating Lessons We’re Taking Into 2026 12/30/2025

Are Phones the Third Person in Your Relationship? ft Randy Ginsberg 12/23/2025

Are Phones the Third Person in Your Relationship? ft Randy Ginsberg What happens to connection when we put our phones away? Matchmaker Maria sits down with Randy Ginsberg, founder of , to unpack phubbing (phone snubbing), modern dating burnout, and why being truly present has become one of the most underrated relationship skills. Together, they explore how intentional, phone-free spaces create deeper conversations, stronger chemistry, and real opportunities for both romantic and platonic connection. This is not a singles event and it’s not networking. It’s an evening designed to help you unplug, talk like a human again, and experience what dating and socializing feel like without doomscrolling, distractions, or performative small talk. Expect thoughtful prompts, honest dialogue, and a room full of curious, emotionally available people who are actually worth putting your phone down for. Come for the connection. Leave with clarity, community, and a reminder that presence is still the most attractive quality in the room. ☀️get yourself a last minute holiday gift and go to use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: https://www.askamatchmaker.com/ 💖Agape Match Website: https://agapematch.com/ 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realmatchmakermaria 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria 💖Agape Match Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agapematch/ 💖Agame Match Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AgapeMatch 💖Agape Match Twitter: https://www.x.com/AgapeMatch 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - https://www.venetiageras.com/ Twitter - https://X.com/venetiaageras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/venetiaageras/ 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39513045

What Happens After Ending an Engagement? ft Caitlin Peluffo 12/16/2025

What Happens After Ending an Engagement? ft Caitlin Peluffo Comedian and writer returns to Ask a Matchmaker for an honest catch-up with matchmaker Maria after a major relationship shake-up. Caitlin opens up about calling off a long engagement, what it taught her about passion, independence, and settling, and why starting over in her 30s has been unexpectedly empowering! Together, they dive into dating while living alone, long-distance relationships, marriage timelines, and redefining partnership. The episode also tackles listener questions, including navigating city life versus farm life and whether staying friends with an ex-with-benefits ever really works. A candid, funny, and deeply relatable conversation about choosing yourself and dating with intention! ☀️ https://agapeescapes.com/ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: https://www.askamatchmaker.com/ 💖Agape Match Website: https://agapematch.com/ 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realmatchmakermaria 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria 💖Agape Match Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agapematch/ 💖Agame Match Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AgapeMatch 💖Agape Match Twitter: https://www.x.com/AgapeMatch 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - https://www.venetiageras.com/ Twitter - https://X.com/venetiaageras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/venetiaageras/ 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39420905

Love Without Limits: Dating With a Disability ft. Emily Goodson 12/09/2025

Love Without Limits: Dating With a Disability ft. Emily Goodson This week, Maria talks with author and speaker about her new book Emily shares her experiences dating with a disability and how working with an intimacy coach helped her break patterns of shame and self-protection. They discuss visible and invisible disabilities, the social barriers disabled people face, and why representation in dating and media matters. This conversation is full of insight for anyone looking to date with confidence, empathy, and self-awareness. Pick up Dating Disability wherever books are sold and follow Emily for more stories about love and identity! Dating Disability, Emily Goodson's debut book, invites readers into fifteen intimate stories from her life, exploring love, confidence, and what it means to embrace difference in a world that often asks us to hide it. It’s available online and in bookstores today! 👉 ☀️ https://agapeescapes.com/ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: https://www.askamatchmaker.com/ 💖Agape Match Website: https://agapematch.com/ 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realmatchmakermaria 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria 💖Agape Match Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agapematch/ 💖Agame Match Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AgapeMatch 💖Agape Match Twitter: https://www.x.com/AgapeMatch 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - https://www.venetiageras.com/ Twitter - https://X.com/venetiaageras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/venetiaageras/ 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39334240

Your Family’s Dream Isn’t Your Dating Plan ft. Tega Orhorhoro 12/02/2025

The New Rules of Posting Your Partner Online ft. Nayeema Raza 11/25/2025

The New Rules of Posting Your Partner Online ft. Nayeema Raza Maria sits down with journalist and podcast host Nayeema Raza for a sharp, funny, deeply insightful conversation about the rise of AI dating companions, why posting your partner now feels embarrassing, and how Zohran Mamdani’s love story gives real hope for dating in NYC! Maria and Nayeema talk about the rise of AI dating companions and how many young adults are turning to emotional relationships with AI instead of real people. They share why this worries them and what they think a real modern date night should look like if people want to reconnect offline. They also react to the Vogue UK article about women posting their partners less and why social media now makes people feel embarrassed to show their relationships. They explain how this trend affects dating, independence, and the pressure to look chill online. Finally, they talk about Zohran Mamdani’s love story and why his simple coffee date proves there is still real hope for dating in NYC. Nayeema Raza is a journalist, filmmaker, and podcast host whose work has appeared in The New York Times, New York Magazine, and at Tribeca Film Festival. Nayeema is also the creator and host of Smart Girl Dumb Questions, a show where she interviews big thinkers using simple, curious questions! Follow Nayeema: Instagram: @nayeemaraza Podcast: Smart Girl Dumb Questions (available on all platforms) ☀️ https://agapeescapes.com/ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: https://www.askamatchmaker.com/ 💖Agape Match Website: https://agapematch.com/ 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realmatchmakermaria 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria 💖Agape Match Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agapematch/ 💖Agame Match Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AgapeMatch 💖Agape Match Twitter: https://www.x.com/AgapeMatch 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - https://www.venetiageras.com/ Twitter - https://X.com/venetiaageras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/venetiaageras/ 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39159495

How Can You Fall In Love With Your AI Companion? ft Vasant Dhar, Ph.D 11/18/2025

How Can You Fall In Love With Your AI Companion? ft Vasant Dhar, Ph.D Maria sits down with NYU professor and AI pioneer Vasant Dhar for a grounded, eye-opening conversation about how artificial intelligence is reshaping our lives! They break down the rise of AI companions, the risks of sharing personal information with chatbots, and why these systems can feel human while still lacking empathy. Maria and Professor Dhar explore how modern AI “knows a little about everything” and what that means for dating, decision-making, and emotional attachment in 2025. They also dive into how kids and adults alike should be learning to “think with machines,” not rely on them as a crutch. It’s a fascinating, practical guide to navigating love, relationships, and identity in the age of AI. Be sure to pick up Professor Vasant's book today! Vasant Dhar, Ph.D. — , AI Researcher, , and Host of the . His forthcoming book, “” releases on Nov. 18th! ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/39072130

Confusing Chemistry for Compatibility ft Rebecca Marcus 11/11/2025

We Were Never Meant to Date Alone 11/04/2025

We Were Never Meant to Date Alone Matchmaker Maria dives deep into why modern dating feels harder than ever, and why it’s not your fault! Maria explores how convenience culture has stripped away connection and offers practical, no-nonsense ways to rebuild your “dating muscles.” From reclaiming third places to embracing real-world friction, Maria shares how to create opportunities for love instead of waiting for them. If you’re ready to date with intention and confidence, this episode is your blueprint for finding genuine connection in a disconnected world! Here’s a script you can literally copy and paste into a text📲 “Hi friends! I’m hosting a potluck on [date]. Bring a dish you love and also bring one friend I don’t know yet. Just let me know what you’re bringing so we don’t end up with ten pasta salads. Can’t wait to see you!” ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38902050

I’m Having a Baby Without a Partner ft Jenny Zigrino 10/28/2025

Dated the Far Right. They Didn't Believe Her ft. Vera Papisova 10/21/2025

Dated the Far Right. They Didn't Believe Her ft. Vera Papisova Award-winning journalist Vera Papisova returns to Ask a Matchmaker to continue the conversation about her viral undercover investigation, dating men on the far right in New York City. In this episode, Maria and Vera unpack how politics, media, and morality are shaping modern dating culture and the values we bring to relationships. They explore how misinformation spreads through “independent media,” why so many people lack basic media literacy, and what that means for who we trust and how we love. From online outrage to real-world consequences, this is a must-listen for anyone navigating love in a divided world. check out Vera's substack 👉 ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 https://www.matchmakermaria.com/ ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38685010

How to Start Dating When You Never Have ! with Allora Dannon 10/14/2025

How to Start Dating When You Never Have ! with Allora Dannon At 32, writer and self-proclaimed late bloomer Allora Dannon had never been kissed, never been asked out, and had never been on a date. Then one cuffing season changed everything 💛 This week on Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria sits down with Allora, author of the new memoir Who Is She: A Late Bloomer’s Survival Guide, to unpack what it means to start dating later in life. They talk about growing up as the oldest of ten, learning to prioritize yourself after years of caretaking, breaking through embarrassment, and finding confidence (and community) as an adult beginner in love! Whether you’re navigating your first real relationship or just learning to date with more intention, this heartfelt conversation will remind you that it’s never too late to bloom 🌷 🎧 Follow Allora and grab her new book! ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s , follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38573190

When No Means Nothing 10/07/2025

When No Means Nothing In dating, rejection is part of the process, but when ‘no’ isn’t acknowledged, it can lead to heartbreak, harm, and even tragedy. In this solo episode, Matchmaker Maria addresses two recent cases in New Jersey that underscore the real-world consequences of ignoring boundaries and consent. She outlines the stories of Maria Notis, Isabella Salas, Dr. Lauren Semanchik, and Tyler Webb to highlight patterns of stalking, harassment, and institutional inaction. The episode examines how systems and communities fail to respond when warnings are raised. Maria shares practical steps individuals and policymakers can take to improve safety and accountability. This episode calls for greater awareness, stronger protections, and meaningful policy change. Letter to State Representatives: Dear [Representative’s Name], I am writing to you as a constituent who is deeply concerned about the safety of women and families in our community. Recent tragedies in New Jersey, including the murders of Maria Notis, Isabella Salas, Dr. Lauren Semanchik, and Tyler Webb, highlight the urgent need for stronger protections against stalking, harassment, and domestic violence. I am asking you to prioritize funding for domestic violence shelters, victim advocacy services, and mental health programs. I am asking you to ensure that reports of harassment and stalking are taken seriously and acted upon immediately. No family should have to bury their child or loved one because boundaries were ignored, reports were dismissed, or resources were underfunded. Please take action now to protect your constituents. Sincerely, [Your Name] _________________________________________________________________________________ Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s , follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙌 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38489720

Does Success Hurt Your Dating Life? Off with Dr. Mel | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria 09/30/2025

Does Success Hurt Your Dating Life? Off with Dr. Mel | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria Matchmaker Maria is joined by clinical psychologist to tackle the myth that women are “too successful” to find love. Together, they unpack how flawed studies and outdated media narratives have fueled this idea while sharing what modern research actually tells us about love, marriage, and divorce. Dr. Mel also opens up about how our parents influence who we choose as partners and why it’s crucial to find someone who can walk with us through life’s hardest moments. The conversation highlights how success can strengthen relationships, why financial stability matters, and how to rethink the “shoulds” we place on ourselves about marriage and timelines. Whether you’re single, dating, or partnered, this episode offers no-nonsense insights into love, resilience, and building the kind of relationship that truly supports you. Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s , follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙃 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38402270

Gen Z Divide on Marriage Children and the Meaning of Success with Rachel Janfaza | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria 09/23/2025

Gen Z Divide on Marriage Children and the Meaning of Success with Rachel Janfaza | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria This week Matchmaker Maria is joined by Rachel Janfaza, founder of The Up and Up, to explore the growing divide between Gen Z men and women. They discuss how social media, algorithms, and traditional expectations shape attitudes toward marriage, children, and career success. The conversation also dives into the impact of the #MeToo movement, gender dynamics, and the pressures young adults face in dating and relationships. Rachel shares insights from her research and writing on Gen Z, including her theory of The Two Gen Zs and what young people really want from connection and conversation. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the cultural and technological forces influencing modern dating and relationships. Rachel Janfaza is the founder of The Up and Up and writer of and , where she shares her latest insights on Gen Z. Check out her newsletter [here] and be sure to also read her Washington Post article, " for her take on modern generational trends. Be sure to use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s , follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙃 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38318495

The Truth Behind Indian Matchmaking with Matchmaker Radha Patel | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria 09/16/2025

The Truth Behind Indian Matchmaking with Matchmaker Radha Patel | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria This week on Ask a Matchmaker, Maria sits down with fellow to explore the world of South Asian matchmaking. They dive into how cultural traditions, family expectations, and modern dating values intersect for singles from Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan, and West Indian backgrounds. Radha shares how her work balances heritage with today’s dating challenges, from navigating parental involvement to helping clients define compatibility beyond caste or astrology. Together, Maria and Radha unpack what makes South Asian love unique while also tackling listener questions about sparks, expectations, and dating within friend groups. This insightful episode shines a light on how modern relationships are shaped by both cultural identity and personal values. Use the promo code: roundtable50 to join Maria’s community or submit your own dating question! 👉 ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s , follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙃 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! #matchmakermaria #askamatchmaker #datingadvice #datingprofilereview #podcast /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38234015

How Young Love Lasts | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria 09/02/2025

How Young Love Lasts | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria On this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Maria reflects on wrapping up her summer solo series and challenges listeners to reconnect with three people they haven’t spoken to in a while. She dives into the male loneliness epidemic and the ways modern dating apps can fuel disconnection, expanding on ideas from her recently viral Substack article. Maria also shares insights from her time in Greece, where she compared experiences of loneliness and community with those in the U.S. Later, she sits down with her brother-in-law, Yanni, who opens up about meeting and marrying Maria’s sister at a young age, navigating long distance, and building a strong marriage over 12 years. Don’t forget to check out Maria’s Substack for her full article, , ! ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s , follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙃 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! #matchmakermaria #askamatchmaker #datingadvice #datingprofilereview #podcast /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/38053660

The Secret to Love : Shared Reality | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria 08/26/2025

The Secret to Love : Shared Reality | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria This week on Ask A Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her sister and fellow matchmaker Chrisoula for a special anniversary episode recorded in Crete. Chrisoula shares the story of her 12-year marriage and what it takes to grow with a partner you met at 19. The sisters talk about communication, setting boundaries, and how generational trauma impacts conflict resolution. They reflect on growing up with unresolved fights at home and how they now model healthier habits by showing their kids what conflict resolution really looks like. Listener questions include how to handle a breakup over text, when to swipe based on core values, and whether to date someone who already has children. Tune in for real dating advice, personal stories, and practical tips for building a long-lasting, healthy relationship! Take the self sabotaging quiz mentioned in today's episode 👉 ✨ Don’t forget to order Maria’s , follow us on social, and leave a review if you’re feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙃 💖Podcast Website: 💖Agape Match Website: 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: 💖Matchmaker Maria Instagram: 💖Agape Match Instagram: 💖Agame Match Facebook: 💖Agape Match Twitter: 🙋‍♀️Our Producer Venetia AKA V Website - Twitter - Instagram - 🎥 by WTF Media Studios Website - https://www.wtfmediastudios.com/home ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗 Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! #matchmakermaria #askamatchmaker #datingadvice #datingprofilereview #podcast /episode/index/show/askamatchmaker/id/37956440

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