Surviving the Unthinkable: Lolita Jackson’s Journey Through 9/11
Release Date: 09/10/2024
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Ask A Matchmaker is Coming Back! In this gripping and deeply emotional episode, Matchmaker Maria brings you the extraordinary story of Lolita Jackson, a woman who not only witnessed history but survived its darkest days. Lolita’s journey is not just one of survival; it’s a testament to the strength of the human spirit, the power of resilience, and the courage it takes to rebuild a life after unimaginable loss. Lolita Jackson was a high-achieving chemical engineer turned Wall Street professional, working at Dean Witter, which later merged with Morgan Stanley, in the World Trade...
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In this gripping and deeply emotional episode, Matchmaker Maria brings you the extraordinary story of Lolita Jackson, a woman who not only witnessed history but survived its darkest days. Lolita’s journey is not just one of survival; it’s a testament to the strength of the human spirit, the power of resilience, and the courage it takes to rebuild a life after unimaginable loss.
Lolita Jackson was a high-achieving chemical engineer turned Wall Street professional, working at Dean Witter, which later merged with Morgan Stanley, in the World Trade Center’s South Tower. In this special rebroadcast, Lolita recounts her harrowing experiences on two of the most pivotal days in modern history: the 1993 World Trade Center bombing and the 9/11 attacks in 2001. Through her vivid storytelling, Lolita takes us back to the moments when the unthinkable happened—not once, but twice—and how she navigated through chaos, fear, and the physical and emotional challenges of escaping from a crumbling tower.
Lolita shares intimate details of what it was like to be at the heart of these tragedies, from the eerie silence that followed the first explosion in 1993 to the shockwaves that rocked her building on 9/11. You’ll hear about the crucial decisions she made in seconds that ultimately saved her life, including the split-second choices to take different stairwells, her near-misses with falling elevators, and the intense willpower it took to remain calm amidst panic and devastation.
As Lolita reflects on her survival, she delves into the profound impact these events had on her life. She opens up about the PTSD that followed, the struggle to find a sense of normalcy, and the often-overlooked experiences of the survivors who walked away from the towers that day. Lolita also discusses the incredible support systems she leaned on, the community of fellow survivors, and the personal growth that emerged from her trauma.
But this episode is not just about recounting the past. It’s about Lolita’s inspiring decision to pivot her life towards joy and fulfillment, redefining her own success on her terms. After leaving Wall Street, Lolita found new ways to make a difference, dedicating herself to causes that align with her values and bring her peace. Her story is a powerful reminder that even in the face of overwhelming darkness, we have the choice to choose happiness, to find purpose, and to rebuild.
Join Matchmaker Maria for this unforgettable episode that explores themes of resilience, the power of choice, and the relentless pursuit of happiness after the unthinkable. Lolita Jackson’s journey through 9/11 is not just a story of survival; it’s an inspiring blueprint for how to live boldly, authentically, and with unwavering hope in the face of life’s greatest challenges. Whether you’ve experienced personal loss, trauma, or are simply seeking a reminder of the strength of the human spirit, this episode will leave you moved, inspired, and ready to face your own battles with renewed courage.
Listen now to “Surviving the Unthinkable: Lolita Jackson’s Journey Through 9/11” and discover how one woman’s story of survival can inspire us all to find light, even in the darkest of times.
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