The Secret to Love : Shared Reality | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria
Release Date: 08/26/2025
Are Phones the Third Person in Your Relationship? ft Randy Ginsberg
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What happens to connection when we put our phones away? Matchmaker Maria sits down with Randy Ginsberg, founder of , to unpack phubbing (phone snubbing), modern dating burnout, and why being truly present has become one of the most underrated relationship skills. Together, they explore how intentional, phone-free spaces create deeper conversations, stronger chemistry, and real opportunities for both romantic and platonic connection. This is not a singles event and it’s not networking. It’s an evening designed to help you unplug, talk like a human again, and experience what dating and...
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What Happens After Ending an Engagement? ft Caitlin Peluffo
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Comedian and writer returns to Ask a Matchmaker for an honest catch-up with matchmaker Maria after a major relationship shake-up. Caitlin opens up about calling off a long engagement, what it taught her about passion, independence, and settling, and why starting over in her 30s has been unexpectedly empowering! Together, they dive into dating while living alone, long-distance relationships, marriage timelines, and redefining partnership. The episode also tackles listener questions, including navigating city life versus farm life and whether staying friends with an ex-with-benefits ever really...
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Love Without Limits: Dating With a Disability ft. Emily Goodson
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This week, Maria talks with author and speaker about her new book Emily shares her experiences dating with a disability and how working with an intimacy coach helped her break patterns of shame and self-protection. They discuss visible and invisible disabilities, the social barriers disabled people face, and why representation in dating and media matters. This conversation is full of insight for anyone looking to date with confidence, empathy, and self-awareness. Pick up Dating Disability wherever books are sold and follow Emily for more stories about love and identity! Dating...
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Your Family’s Dream Isn’t Your Dating Plan ft. Tega Orhorhoro
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This week, Maria talks with creator and political strategist Tega Orhorhoro bout growing up in a Nigerian household, dealing with constant pressure to “reach the next milestone,” and learning to date on her own terms. Tega shares how reading Ask a Matchmaker changed how she approaches apps and why small updates to her profile completely shifted who she matches with. They also talk about Tega’s rise online, her mix of accents, and how she built a relatable voice by telling the truth about culture, college, and identity. The episode explores family expectations, dating clarity, and finding...
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The New Rules of Posting Your Partner Online ft. Nayeema Raza
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Maria sits down with journalist and podcast host Nayeema Raza for a sharp, funny, deeply insightful conversation about the rise of AI dating companions, why posting your partner now feels embarrassing, and how Zohran Mamdani’s love story gives real hope for dating in NYC! Maria and Nayeema talk about the rise of AI dating companions and how many young adults are turning to emotional relationships with AI instead of real people. They share why this worries them and what they think a real modern date night should look like if people want to reconnect offline. They also react to the Vogue UK...
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How Can You Fall In Love With Your AI Companion? ft Vasant Dhar, Ph.D
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Maria sits down with NYU professor and AI pioneer Vasant Dhar for a grounded, eye-opening conversation about how artificial intelligence is reshaping our lives! They break down the rise of AI companions, the risks of sharing personal information with chatbots, and why these systems can feel human while still lacking empathy. Maria and Professor Dhar explore how modern AI “knows a little about everything” and what that means for dating, decision-making, and emotional attachment in 2025. They also dive into how kids and adults alike should be learning to “think with machines,” not rely...
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Confusing Chemistry for Compatibility ft Rebecca Marcus
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Matchmaker Maria sits down with therapist Rebecca Marcus to explore how millennial women can break toxic dating patterns and build meaningful, healthy relationships. They discuss attachment styles, nervous system regulation, and how urgency and anxiety can shape who we choose and why. Rebecca shares how slowing down, building self-trust, and practicing emotional awareness can transform your dating life long before you meet someone. If you are ready to date with clarity, confidence, and intention, this episode will show you what secure love actually feels like!
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We Were Never Meant to Date Alone
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Matchmaker Maria dives deep into why modern dating feels harder than ever, and why it’s not your fault! Maria explores how convenience culture has stripped away connection and offers practical, no-nonsense ways to rebuild your “dating muscles.” From reclaiming third places to embracing real-world friction, Maria shares how to create opportunities for love instead of waiting for them. If you’re ready to date with intention and confidence, this episode is your blueprint for finding genuine connection in a disconnected world! Here’s a script you can literally copy and paste into a...
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I’m Having a Baby Without a Partner ft Jenny Zigrino
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Comedian and writer Jenny Zigrino returns to Ask a Matchmaker to talk with Maria about grief, growth, and her decision to have a baby without a partner. Jenny opens up about freezing her eggs, navigating identity changes after weight loss, and finding humor in the hardest parts of life. They discuss her one-woman show Afterbirth and how loss inspired her to rebuild on her own terms. It’s an honest, funny, and deeply human conversation about rebirth, resilience, and redefining family. ☀️ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code:...
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Dated the Far Right. They Didn't Believe Her ft. Vera Papisova
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Award-winning journalist Vera Papisova returns to Ask a Matchmaker to continue the conversation about her viral undercover investigation, dating men on the far right in New York City. In this episode, Maria and Vera unpack how politics, media, and morality are shaping modern dating culture and the values we bring to relationships. They explore how misinformation spreads through “independent media,” why so many people lack basic media literacy, and what that means for who we trust and how we love. From online outrage to real-world consequences, this is a must-listen for anyone navigating...
info_outlineThis week on Ask A Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her sister and fellow matchmaker Chrisoula for a special anniversary episode recorded in Crete. Chrisoula shares the story of her 12-year marriage and what it takes to grow with a partner you met at 19. The sisters talk about communication, setting boundaries, and how generational trauma impacts conflict resolution. They reflect on growing up with unresolved fights at home and how they now model healthier habits by showing their kids what conflict resolution really looks like. Listener questions include how to handle a breakup over text, when to swipe based on core values, and whether to date someone who already has children. Tune in for real dating advice, personal stories, and practical tips for building a long-lasting, healthy relationship!
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Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully, gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying!
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