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Wired to Connect: The Science of Love, Lust & Fidelity with Kinsey Institute Director Dr. Justin Garcia

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Release Date: 05/12/2026

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Why is Gen Z having less sex?  Kinsey Institute Executive Director   returns to discuss the new including why 50% of Gen Z respondents haven't had sex recently or ever, and why 34% of young men say porn completely satisfies their sexual desires.  and Dr. Garcia also explore how money, living with your parents, and economic uncertainty affect sex lives, plus the importance of consent and sex education.  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors! Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists & mental health...

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Stand-up comedian joins for a hotline episode!! The two first talk about Daniela's recently new relationship, starting out long-distance, and how she and her boyfriend first connected on Snapchat and sexted before dating. They get into what actually makes a green flag, why Daniela loves her boyfriend’s work ethic, and where strip clubs fit into the “red flag or not?” conversation. Plus, they answer a listener’s question about whether you should tell the person you’re dating that you’re also going on dates with other people. We said, NO but curious your takes!

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kicks off Season 7 with a wild update: after being featured in the New York Times and making headlines in Greece, her matchmaking company, Agape Match, was impersonated by a scam center targeting single men on Telegram. She shares how the scammers stole photos of her real employees, created fake dating profiles, charged victims everything from $50 activation fees to $25,000, and even used AI generated women to make the scam look real. It's a scary story that you need to listen to so you can be sure you're not next!!   Support the podcast by supporting our sponsor! Connect with quality...

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joins to break down VALUES and what your core values can reveal about dating, compatibility, marriage, and the life you actually want. They get into why values (not personality) can make or break a relationship, the “divorce values” to watch for, why place and “belovedness” can be major dealbreakers, and whether couples really need to share the same top values. Also, Suzie shares what happened when her daughter and her fiance took the Values Bridge and discovered their top six values were exactly the same! Check out the  code MATCHMAKER today and comment your top 5 in...

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Maria Avgitidis sits down with Justin Garcia, PhD of the Kinsey Institute to break down the science behind modern dating, ghosting, dating apps, attraction, AI in dating, hookup culture and relationships. Maria and Justin get into why over 70% of singles have fallen for someone they usually wouldn’t think they’d be attracted to and why Gen Z says they value authenticity yet nearly 50% of them are using AI in their dating lives. They discuss whether first-date chemistry is overrated, why ghosting may actually may come from fear of rejection and conflict, and the difference between social monogamy and sexual monogamy. Plus, Justin shares the Kinsey Institute’s research on emojis, sexting, hookup culture, pair bonding, and why “the grass is greener where you water it” may be the most important dating advice singles need right now!

📚Check out Justin's new book, The Intimate Animal, today!

 

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