123. The ENM Jealousy Thrill Ride
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ISN’T BEING AN OPEN-HEARTED AND EVOLVED HUMAN SO FUN??? HAHA Well this week we’re talking about what to do when your partner is in love, not forcing yourself to feel compersion before you’re ready, and some hot takes on boundaries (sometimes they can control the behavior of others?? Are we backsliding into toxicity on the AAS pod or innovating?? You be the judge) PLUS stick around till the end of the episode for a BRAND NEW ONGOING SEGMENT called SCENE STORIES!!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and...
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122. With Pride this June We Take it Up the Butt 🫡
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The first brick at Stonewall. The repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”. Obergefell v. Hodges. What better way to commemorate these extremely profound and meaningful moments in the history of the struggle for LGBTQ+ rights than by chaotically (but helpfully!) talking about… butt stuff. In this chaotically good June Pride Month episode, we revisit a classic podcast answer where Lina went deep, we’re talking reaaaaallll deep, into all things anal. Come away educated, excited, enlivened, and relaxed. (In the butthole) Read Dan Savage’s beautifully written and juicy Thirst Inventory Get...
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121. Quick Hits: On The Mic In A Ball Gag
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How do we advocate for our desires the same way we advocate for our limits? How do we see ourselves as valid even if we’re bedroom-only? How can a safe word be heard through a ball gag? Lina has practical answers to all of the above, including a (ASMR?) demonstration for one of them…. you’ll never guess which!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a...
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120. When Threesome Fantasies Become Threesome Icks
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A caller wants to know what to do when a threesome fantasy about a friend becomes a sudden turn-off. Lina does some Ick Forensics™️ on what could be bothering them, and breaks down the realities of being your own Threesome BFF. Also a bonus pep talk for bi girls who are afraid of other girls — tl;dr if the world is burning you better be kissing someone about it so help me god. Read on substack. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina...
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119. Should Doms sub? Should subs Dom? Should chaos reign supreme?
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Today Lina answers one of life’s age old questions, one that’s debated frequently in a public forum much like the God question or origins of the universe — should Doms be subs before they Dom? Together we’ll weigh the benefits of gaining that empathetic perspective while also balancing the hot take that nobody should do anything sexually they don’t want to do. Also — a bonus discussion of Lina in a room with power advocating for sexuality creates online! Thanks to you! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of...
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118. Sydney Baloue Is A Daddy Enthusiast
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is a writer, performer, event producer and advocate for racial, social, and gender justice, LGBTQ+ rights, and for trans-masculine visibility in voguing, boxing and in the film and television industry. He opened up with us about the gay male rumspringa he had after transitioning, and how he’s found refuge in the wildest of places — gay male saunas and in the arms of various Daddies to name a few. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to...
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117. Break Glass for Instant 24/7 Starter Kit
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A long-married caller wants to know how to jumpstart a 24/7 dynamic with a partner who may have some reservations. Lina validates that your 24/7 dynamic is supposed to breathe with you, not suprise choke unwanted breath play on you. Something like that. Use code FIRST50 for 50% off your first . Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, ad-free podcast feed, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and...
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116. Escaping Neurospicy Perfectionism
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Ok so I’ve brought you into my basement, tied you to a chair, fixed a single lightbulb on you, put my spiky boot between your legs, leaned in real close, and now I’m gonna scream “YOU’RE PERFECT AS YOU ARE!!!!!!” Ok with that out of the way let’s get into some practical skills for doing kink while neurodivergent and some strategies you can implement today to ease the burden on yourself!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with...
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115. Quick Hits: Vetting Q’s & Power Struggles
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In this new monthly series Lina is answering quick text-based q’s from paid members and bringing them to the public feed! This month we’re talking about vetting questions to identify inexperienced Doms and subs, what to do about Dom4Dom chaos, and how making prints out in the sun is a metaphor for growth (isn’t everything around here??) Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by...
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114. Kink In The Tarot with Michelle Tea
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Activist and writer Michelle Tea joined me this month to vulnerably discuss the places magic intersects with lineage, life, and sex. We transitioned into a bit of a slumber party tee-hee-ing about the archetypes of the tarot and how many of the famous figures of the major arcana could be Doms or subs. It’s fun! Get in here! To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected] Go for information on how to record a voice memo Get 20% off...
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