133. The Wonderful World of Thuddy Impact Toys
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A listener wants to enter THE THUD ZONE *guitar solo* *flames* *monster truck* and Lina activates her Special Interest mode to outline what makes a toy thuddy, why masochists love them, what to buy, and how to use them safely. Lina & Mr. Dune’s Thuddy Recs: | | To share your kink journey, please send me an email at Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by...
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132. In Praise Of Pickiness
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When are we being too picky with our play partners? Listen, nothing is perfect, but if your ick is “doesn’t respect my boundaries” or “is unsafe” … time to yeet. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created,...
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131. Ugly Sex with Margeaux Feldman AKA Softcore Trauma
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joined me for a deep dive into their work around trauma, sexuality, chronic illness, and queerness. Get Margeaux’s upcoming book ’ at your local indie bookstore or wherever books are sold. Follow Margeaux: | Catch Margeaux on book tour in September and October! To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected] Go for information on how to record a voice memo Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | ...
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130. The Republican Dommy Mommy Archetype
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Today Lina reads a piece that’s popping off on her substack about the intersection of The Hunting Wives, Susan Sontag, fascism, and Leather aesthetics. Why are we horny for what scares us? Well step right up to the erotic kaleidoscope and peer in at Malin Akerman’s very Victoria’s Secret-coded thongs with me. Read the article | Get Elizabeth Rose Quinn’s book Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit...
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129. On Not Turning Your Daddy Into Your Dad
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A caller has gone no contact with her parents and wants to know how to be mindful with not projecting that trauma on her Daddy Dom. As a bit of an expert on this topic, Lina discusses the ins and outs of codependence versus interdependence, and caring for your inner child as revenge on . Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. JOIN ON THE “COLLAR CLUB + POSTCARD” LEVEL BEFORE 8/25 TO GET A POST CARD!! Submit...
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128. Is Everybody Frickin’ Poly Or What??
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It’s summer. It’s hot. It’s sexy. And what’s more hot and sexy than… endless scheduling and calendars? A caller wants to know how to stay sane while single and it seems that everyone in the dating pool is already partnered. Answer? Maybe some people need to take a hard look at their poly saturation point!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a...
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127. The Things You Cannot Unsee In Public Play Spaces (And Why You Should See *Some* Of Them)
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We got a write-in question from a Patreon member wondering how to prepare for a big public kink event like Folsom, and Lina gets into creating a plan for regulation, connection, and what to do when you get super horny seeing a human doggy peeing in the gutter (FOR EXAMPLE). | Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby...
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126. Quick Hits: Objectification, Romance Fiction, and The Skeezy Little Black Book
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Hey it’s the episode where you write in and ask about the light or deep kink questions that are on your mind! Today we’re talking about how being a human ottoman can activate your parasympathetic nervous system, how to build confidence as a bottom, and get into Lina’s deep-seated and probably problematic issues with romance novels. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. For Lina's spicy book recomendations go . Submit...
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125. The Clown Serenity Prayer with Gutter the Mod
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What do online privacy, sex work decrim, fire butt pix, and clowns have in common? Well they’re all special interests of our Deep Dive guest this month — Gutter! Gutter is one of our long time moderators of the Ask A Sub Discord community (a benefit of ask a sub patreon membership), and she joined me to talk community building, masochism, and more. Join us in a clown serenity prayer. For your filthy eternal soul. To get the full version of this episode at $11/month or at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as...
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124. Do You Have To Bring Your 35-Year-Old Boyfriend To The Olive Garden?
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Should we keep our friendships separate from our D/s dynamics? Should we merge all our relationships, friendships, and situationships into the world's largest cuddle puddle? What can we learn, aside from the latest scientific advances in filler technology, from reality television about the monogamy/polyamory divide? Lina tackles all that in this episode and more and because we were all good boys/girls/they/thems we get a special treat from a listener who shares their personal story about why they love pet play 🐶 Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our...
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