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53. What If I Don't Have Hard Limits?

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Release Date: 12/08/2023

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A caller wants to know if straight people are ruining kink, and Lina gets into the history of gentrification in the kink world and how well-meaning straights can use their kink for good. Also a diatribe on how Fake Doms have class-traitor vibes. Sorry it had to be said!! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted,...

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Ever wondered how to drop the news of some of your less mainstream kinks in a relationship? You know… the really head-turning ones that would shock polite company? The ones that keep you up at night googling really specific gear? The ones that pop up in your head even as you’re trying to write the description of your podcast?? Well this week Lina is sharing an actionable formula for introducing your new partner to what you want, and also laying down a new Ask A Sub commandment — no dragging Doms into Dominance. Now back to those kinks… To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub...

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Looootttttaaaaaa feelings about gender this week, huh folks? We’re discussing the “gender wars,” how you can assist in the political apocalypse, and how to embrace one’s identity as a male submissive. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends,  starting at $6/month! Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support...

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A caller wants to know how to use their kinky toolkit to address a recently resurfaced memory of past trauma, and Lina gets into how kink, while not a panacea, can be supportive as we transform triggers into memories. Send in your q’s at  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected] Get 20% off your order at with code LINADUNE | | CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina...

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C'mon guys, a tale as old as time. We’ve all been there - your Dom is seeing other subs, and your jealousy and the Social Media Demon have twisted the situation to be unbearable. How can we break jealousy down into more manageable components, and negotiate whether we want to deal in the first place? Lina shares from her own experience and has some ideas to tend to your tender feels. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $6/month! Subscribe to the subby substack . See the paid post archive . Submit questions for this podcast as...

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Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

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Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad