180. Chronic Kinkster Community In Action
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A caller has just gone through a breakup and is facing down a new chronic illness diagnosis all at once, and wants to know how to incorporate kink into life when everything feels like too much. Lina tag teams this question using the wisdom of the #chronic-kinksters channel on the Ask A Sub Discord server, focusing on how to curate an expansive mindset while still making sure you’re getting your needs met, tending to yourself, and being your own Daddy in hard times. Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing...
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179. Grey’s Journey Pt. 3: Break That Binary Open
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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week, we’re closing out Grey’s journey with some very exciting summer news, a scene that brought the educator within to the surface, and a manifesto for the future of Grey’s drag. Follow him at . Lina & Mr. Dune’s Pillion convo is available on and . Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of which are free, and...
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178. Grey’s Journey Pt. 2: The Duality of Being Known
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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week, we’re catching up with Grey as he heads out in the midst of a snowstorm, ready to be PERCEIVED. Where? Where else but a Heated Rivalry rave. The horny queers are out, and your boy is among them. Tune in to see what happens, and follow him at . Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of which are free, and several contain...
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177. Grey’s Journey Pt. 1: How Does an Adult Man F*ck?
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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week we meet Grey, a trans man at the beginning of his medical transition who’s seeking to answer the eternal questions in life — how do we take up space while still finding ourselves? How binary should gender even be? And, most importantly, how does an adult man fuck? Follow him at . Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of...
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176. Kinky Rejection… Worse Than Death? (Sources Say Yes)
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A caller wants to know why kinky rejection hurts more than any other rejection and wonders if maybe, possibly, there’s a way to avoid it?? Asking for a friend?? Lina gets into some solid reasons why the ouch is so ouch, how to make it ouch in a good way, and how to apply some time-honored strategies to healing the ouch. Say ‘ouch’ again…. Ouch. Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of which are free, and several contain bonus content. You can still get all our regular...
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175. M’s Journey Pt. 3: It’s That Slow Burn Bullshit
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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week, we hear the final installment of M’s journey, and learn about what roles softball, juggalos, and witchcraft have to play in a life well lived in a room of one’s own. Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of which are free, and several contain bonus content. You can still get all our regular bonus content in both those...
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174. M’s Journey Pt. 2: Sit With the Itch
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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week, we’re catching up with M a few months on from her first interview, to check in on her new life and cheer her on in her self care. Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of which are free, and several contain bonus content. You can still get all our regular bonus content in both those places, except Patreon has the...
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173. M’s Journey Pt. 1: The Worst Breakup Ever
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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week, we meet M as she navigates the wreckage of what is truly one of the worst breakups Lina has ever heard about. But in spite of the male audacity in this episode, we promise you’ll be inspired by M’s humor, witchy wisdom, and iconic penchant for cussing her way through self care. Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of...
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172. A Beautiful Evil Pouring Out Of Me with Miss Gold
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This month on the Deep Dive series, we’re graced with the presence of one of London’s preeminent kink queens — Dominatrix, photographer and creator of the iconic parties.. She shares with us how her SW career has influenced her photographic gaze, her specialty in *the kink* most people list as their hardest of hard limits, and her thoughts on mothering be it of humans or hand-reared kittens. In signature Ask A Sub style, this interview goes anywhere and everywhere and we know you’ll have fun keeping up. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our...
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171. You Can’t Step In The Same River Of Pee Twice
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A caller is doing trauma therapy and wants a good lens to explain the value of kink in their healing journey. In response, Lina checks in on how we’re interpreting the word ‘healing’ when it comes to kink (ableism — be gone!), gives some reflections on what kinds of messages our bodies give us in scenes, and somehow in the midst of that coined the phrase that is our episode title this week, once again making the English language just a little bit worse 🫶 You’re welcome. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium...
info_outlineA caller wants to know how to use their kinky toolkit to address a recently resurfaced memory of past trauma, and Lina gets into how kink, while not a panacea, can be supportive as we transform triggers into memories.
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Artwork by Kayleigh Denner
Music by Dan Molad