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170. Daddy Is A State Of Mind

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Release Date: 06/22/2026

174. M’s Journey Pt. 2: Sit With the Itch show art 174. M’s Journey Pt. 2: Sit With the Itch

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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week, we’re catching up with M a few months on from her first interview, to check in on her new life and cheer her on in her self care.  Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of which are free, and several contain bonus content. You can still get all our regular bonus content in both those places, except Patreon has the...

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173. M’s Journey Pt. 1: The Worst Breakup Ever show art 173. M’s Journey Pt. 1: The Worst Breakup Ever

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Introducing our new series, Kink Journeys, where each week we’ll follow a listener of pod as they go through a pivotal moment in their journey. This week, we meet M as she navigates the wreckage of what is truly one of the worst breakups Lina has ever heard about. But in spite of the male audacity in this episode, we promise you’ll be inspired by M’s humor, witchy wisdom, and iconic penchant for cussing her way through self care. Lina is currently on maternity leave! If you’re curious about all that, she has curated a series of written posts releasing every 1.5 weeks on and , many of...

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This month on the Deep Dive series, we’re graced with the presence of one of London’s preeminent kink queens — Dominatrix, photographer and creator of the iconic parties.. She shares with us how her SW career has influenced her photographic gaze, her specialty in *the kink* most people list as their hardest of hard limits, and her thoughts on mothering be it of humans or hand-reared kittens. In signature Ask A Sub style, this interview goes anywhere and everywhere and we know you’ll have fun keeping up. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our...

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A caller is doing trauma therapy and wants a good lens to explain the value of kink in their healing journey. In response, Lina checks in on how we’re interpreting the word ‘healing’ when it comes to kink (ableism — be gone!), gives some reflections on what kinds of messages our bodies give us in scenes, and somehow in the midst of that coined the phrase that is our episode title this week, once again making the English language just a little bit worse 🫶 You’re welcome. Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium...

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170. Daddy Is A State Of Mind show art 170. Daddy Is A State Of Mind

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In honor of U.K. father’s day we’re getting into ‘Daddy’ as an honorific, whether it always implies age play (Sometimes? Yes? No?) and how nobody has to do anything they don’t want to do but maybe getting curious is what saves us all from the shame monsters. Become a  member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune.  Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Get your slot at . Or to get an...

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A listener wants to know what to do about their well-meaning but vanilla therapist, and in response Lina earns her gold star Therapist’s Favorite badge by exploring the ins and outs of the therapeutic relationship, how to resource your therapist and yourself, and takes a weirdly polyamory-informed stance on getting your needs met.  Links:  | | Become a  member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune.  Submit questions for...

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This week we’re doing a refresher on flirting so Lina can assist you all into getting into more trouble to keep the questions coming for the pod — vertical integration!! That’s how that works, right?? Either way, we’re talking about flirting by zodiac sign (helpful even if you’re a grumpy Capricorn that doesn’t believe in astrology), flirting to bring forward your most authentic self, and flirting as a measure of compatibility. Now go look at people and talk to them!! Become a member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium...

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166. High Volume Orgasms: Blessing Or Curse? show art 166. High Volume Orgasms: Blessing Or Curse?

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A caller wants to know whether their miraculous gift of nonstop orgasms is hindering them from long term partnership — really goes to show one person’s dream scenario (Lina’s) is another person’s anxiety (this caller’s)! Lina talks about the joys of dating high-volume cummers, lists practical tips for Domming and topping these lucky ducks, and shares how the patriarchy infects all of us when we imagine the limits of what a submissive can be. Become a  member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as...

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165. Quick Hits: “Straight-Passing” Queer Couple Spring Is Here show art 165. Quick Hits: “Straight-Passing” Queer Couple Spring Is Here

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These week callers want to know how to welcome the springtime, how to enjoy/not enjoy the Met Gala, hack quiet sex, and, of course, see Lina lose it over exclusionary privileged queers being weird about who’s allowed to use the label. Pull up a chair to the burn sesh (with love).  Become a  member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune.  Submit questions for this podcast by going to and recording a voice memo. Get your slot at...

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In honor of U.K. father’s day we’re getting into ‘Daddy’ as an honorific, whether it always implies age play (Sometimes? Yes? No?) and how nobody has to do anything they don’t want to do but maybe getting curious is what saves us all from the shame monsters.

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Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad