EP 223: The Emotional Impact of Family Separation on Fathers: A Deep Dive Into Men’s Mental Health Featuring Ben Hine
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
Release Date: 05/14/2025
Weekly Mini Episode: 8 bits of Sh*t Dating Advice That Makes Me Angry
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
In this week’s mini-episode, I go on a bit of a rant—because some of the dating advice out there is downright terrible. From “don’t chase women” to “you’ll just know when it’s the one,” I break down why so much of the advice circulating online is oversimplified, lacks nuance, and actually keeps people stuck. I dissect popular phrases like “be yourself,” “don’t ever settle,” and “if they wanted to, they would”—and show you why they’re misleading or even harmful when taken at face value. If you’ve been confused by modern dating advice or find yourself not...
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EP 233: Is The Fear of Being Seen Holding You Back? Shame, Visibility & Reclaiming Your Voice
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
Reuben Christian is an award-winning edutainer with over 20 years of experience as a host, speaker, coach, and comedian. He’s worked with global brands like Samsung, BBC, Channel 4, and Deutsche Bank, bringing energy and empathy to events and workshops worldwide. Through engaging talks and interactive sessions, Reuben helps teams grow in areas like communication, creativity, and mental well-being. He’s also the founder of Dream Rehab and co-host of the What Is This Behaviour? podcast, empowering people to unlock their potential through community and storytelling. ⭐Fear of Being...
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Weekly Mini Episode: Men: Why You Still Feel Stuck After Therapy & Keep Repeating Old Patterns — 3 Ways to Get Unstuck Now
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
In this week's mini-episode, I dive into why therapy alone isn’t always enough to break the cycles keeping men stuck. From intellectual insight with no emotional change to the absence of real-time feedback and challenge, I break down why many men stay trapped in old patterns—despite doing the “inner work.” I also reveal what actually moves the needle: embodied practice, nervous system regulation, accountability, and being witnessed by other men in a safe space. If you’ve done the work but still feel stuck, this is for you. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:
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EP 232: Magnetic Femininity, Masculine Containment and Why Your Relationship Feels Dead & Your Sex Life Is Dying!
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
Robyn Linn is a mysitc thought-leader, author, and speaker with 24 years dedicated to uncovering the origins of alchemy. Having studied and lived with Buddhist monks, she combines ancient wisdom with extensive personal and professional experience. As the founder of several multimillion-dollar brands and a consultant to entrepreneurs for over two decades, Robyn's unique approach transforms challenges into opportunities for authentic self-renewal and presence for developing awareness amd sovereignty. She is also the host of the self-development podcast "OG Mastery," available on Spotify. KEY...
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Weekly Mini Episode: 3 Reasons Why Men’s Growth Stalls (And 6 Things That Actually Work)
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the hidden reasons so many men get stuck in their personal growth—and how to finally break through. From going it alone to obsessing over self-help content without real change, I break down the subtle ways men avoid the deeper emotional work that truly transforms relationships and self-worth. If you’ve hit a plateau in your healing journey, this episode will show you what actually works—and why you don’t have to do it alone. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:
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EP 231: Boys on Sex, Love & Being ‘A Man’: What They Never Say Out Loud
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
What do boys really think about sex, love, and what it means to be “a man”? In this raw conversation, we unpack the hidden rules shaping young men’s desires, fears, and silent struggles — from money obsessions to why they reject affection. If you want to understand the truth boys never say out loud, this episode will change how you see masculinity forever. Nathaniel Cole is a writer, researcher and workshop facilitator working across masculinity, mental wellbeing, relationships & sex education, as well as the co-founder of the community swimming group, Swim Dem Crew. Bio (for...
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Weekly Mini Episode: Why High-Achieving Men Struggle in Relationships
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways high-achieving men unknowingly sabotage their relationships. From avoiding emotional conversations to bringing a business mindset into love, I break down how success at work doesn't always translate to success in intimacy—and why deep connection requires a completely different set of skills. If you're a man who's great on paper but struggling in love, this one’s for you. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:
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Ep 230: The Dark Masculine: Why Risk, Raw Desire & Becoming a Magnetic Man
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
Why do most men lose their edge, play it safe, and quietly kill desire? In this powerful episode on The Dark Masculine, we explore why risk, raw primal energy, and reclaiming your untamed desires are the real keys to becoming a magnetic man. If you’re done being overlooked, learn how to embody true masculine presence and turn your life — and love — on. KEY TOPICS: ⭐The Dark Masculine Archetype ⭐Power and Shame in Men ⭐Sexual Shame and Genital Disconnection ⭐Nice Guy Syndrome and Boundary Collapse ⭐Reclaiming Sovereignty and Personal Power ⭐Embodiment Practices...
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Ep 230: The Dark Masculine: Why Risk, Raw Desire & Becoming a Magnetic Man
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
Why do most men lose their edge, play it safe, and quietly kill desire? In this powerful episode on The Dark Masculine, we explore why risk, raw primal energy, and reclaiming your untamed desires are the real keys to becoming a magnetic man. If you’re done being overlooked, learn how to embody true masculine presence and turn your life — and love — on. KEY TOPICS: ⭐The Dark Masculine Archetype ⭐Power and Shame in Men ⭐Sexual Shame and Genital Disconnection ⭐Nice Guy Syndrome and Boundary Collapse ⭐Reclaiming Sovereignty and Personal Power ⭐Embodiment Practices...
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Weekly Mini Episode: Is It Okay to Have Doubts in a Relationship?
The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers
In this week's mini-episode, I dive into the doubts that quietly haunt even the most committed relationships. From perfectionism and fear of heartbreak to anxious overthinking and avoidant thought-finding, I break down the hidden beliefs that fuel uncertainty—and how to tell the difference between normal doubt and real red flags. If you've ever asked yourself, "Is this the right person?" this episode will help you slow down, get clear, and stop sabotaging connection before it starts. Instagram: Website: For Coaching: Newsletter:
info_outlineIn this powerful and eye-opening conversation, David Chambers speaks with Professor Ben Hine—psychologist and researcher at the University of West London—about the deep emotional toll family breakdowns have on fathers. From the overlooked role of dads in the family court system to the systemic biases men face during separation and divorce, this episode uncovers the hidden truths about fatherhood, emotional well-being, and societal expectations.
If you're a father, know a father, or work with families, this is a conversation you don't want to miss. We explore mental health, parental alienation, masculinity, child attachment, and the impact of societal and cultural stereotypes on men's lived experiences.
Ben received his BSc and PhD from Royal Holloway, University of London in 2010, focusing on the gender-typing of prosocial behavior in youth. Since 2014 at the University of West London, his work in applied gender and forensic psychology has grown. He has investigated gender in the criminal justice system, including rape myth impact on case progression (with MOPAC), and collaborated with SafeLives and The Mankind Initiative on domestic violence victim needs, including LGBTQIA+ and male survivors.
More recently, he explores post-separation abuse, particularly Parental Alienation, a professional interest stemming from his own parents' divorce in 2020. This personal experience has led to collaborations with various charities, organizations, and parents, as well as reflective writing on family breakdown, abuse, PA, and family court involvement.
KEY TOPICS:
⭐ Why Are Fathers Marginalised in Custody And Court Systems
⭐ Emotional Fallout From Family Breakdown For Separated Fathers
⭐ The Stereotypes Of The Absent Or Unnecessary Father
⭐ Biological And Neurological Changes In Active Fatherhood
⭐ How Prejudice And Bias Shape Legal Outcomes
⭐ Weaponising Allegations Against Fathers In Family Court
⭐ Children’s Long-Term Psychological Impact From Parental Alienation
⭐ The Empathy Gap Toward Men’s Emotional Experiences
⭐ Why School Systems Fail To Support Boys Equally
⭐ Class, Culture, And Race In Fatherhood Stereotypes
⭐ Challenging The Traditional Masculinity Through Vulnerability And Involvement
⭐ Reframing Men’s Issues As Human, Not Just Gendered Problems
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