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EP 227: The Lie of 'Doing Whatever You Want': Real Masculine Power Starts with This Painful Truth

The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Release Date: 06/11/2025

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The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

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The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Why do most men lose their edge, play it safe, and quietly kill desire? In this powerful episode on The Dark Masculine, we explore why risk, raw primal energy, and reclaiming your untamed desires are the real keys to becoming a magnetic man. If you’re done being overlooked, learn how to embody true masculine presence and turn your life — and love — on.   KEY TOPICS:   ⭐The Dark Masculine Archetype ⭐Power and Shame in Men ⭐Sexual Shame and Genital Disconnection ⭐Nice Guy Syndrome and Boundary Collapse ⭐Reclaiming Sovereignty and Personal Power ⭐Embodiment Practices...

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In this powerful interview, world-renowned spiritual coach Kute Blackson reveals why the modern idea of freedom is failing men. Learn how the myth of “doing whatever you want” keeps you trapped in ego, disconnected from purpose, and afraid to surrender to your deeper truth.

 

KUTE BLACKSON is a beloved inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. He speaks at countless events he organizes around the world as well as at outside events including A-Fest, YPO (Young Presidents’ Organization), and EO (Entrepreneurs’ Organization). He is a member of the Transformational Leadership Council, a select group of one hundred of the world’s foremost authorities in the personal development industry. Winner of the 2019 Unity New Thought Walden Award, Blackson is widely considered a next generation leader in the field of personal development. His mission is simple: To awaken and inspire people across the planet to access inner freedom, live authentically and fulfill their true life’s purpose.




KEY TOPICS:

 

⭐ Where Do I Belong - Seeking Your Place Across Cultures

⭐ Witnessing Miracles As A Normal Experience

⭐ Wrestling With An Inherited Spiritual Role

⭐ How To Choose Authenticity Over Obedience

⭐ A Journey To Truth - Recognise Your Soul Calling

⭐ Experiencing The Pain Of Parental Disapproval

⭐ The Power Of Surrender & How To Embrace It

⭐ Let Go Of The Illusion Of Control

⭐ The Hard Questions About Fatherhood And Freedom

⭐ Transcending Spiritual Ego Through Honesty

 

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