Confessions of the Higher Desire Wife with J. Parker Ep. 699
Release Date: 10/14/2025
Wider Lens: All Things Together: Apprenticeship to Jesus in a Fragmented World with Heath Hardesty
Awesome Marriage Podcast
In this episode, Dr. Kim talks with author and pastor Heath Hardesty about his new book, All Things Together. Heath shares how his time apprenticing under his earthly father became a living picture of what it means to be an apprentice of our Heavenly Father. They discuss what it looks like to live as image bearers in a fragmented world, why discipleship is more than “extra credit,” and how God redeems, not erases, our humanity. Together, they unpack how to see with wonder again, order our imagination around Christ, and live a whole, beautiful life that reflects Him. Episode...
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Is there a Place for Pride in Marriage? Ep. 724
Awesome Marriage Podcast
We’ve all heard the proverb that pride comes before the fall—but is there a place for pride in our relationships at all? Today, Dr. Kim takes an honest look at pride in marriage: its roots, its power, and its ability to divide even the strongest relationships. You’ll be encouraged to recognize where pride may be creeping in, what it’s actually revealing about your own heart, and practical ways to get it under control. Dr. Kim also addresses how to love and set healthy boundaries with a spouse who is struggling with pride—without enabling, escalating conflict, or losing yourself in...
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Tried and True with Dana Che: What Biblical Marriages Teach Us About Ours Ep. 723
Awesome Marriage Podcast
Marriage has a way of bringing our imperfections to the surface—and if we’re honest, that can feel frustrating, discouraging, and even isolating at times. But what if those struggles aren’t something to hide…what if they’re actually where God’s grace shows up most? In this episode, we’re talking about how the imperfect stories we see throughout Scripture mirror our own and remind us that we’re not alone in the mess. We’ll unpack what it really looks like to build intimacy through vulnerability, why accepting each other’s brokenness matters more than having it all together,...
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Guardrails in Marriage with Jim Ramos Ep. 722
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Most couples are unintentionally at risk of making one decision that can change their marriage forever. Jim Ramos shares the powerful guardrails that protect and strengthen your marriage, drawing from personal stories, biblical wisdom, and decades of ministry experience. His insight will challenge everything you thought you knew about love, trust, and biblical fidelity—showing you how to avoid costly mistakes and build an unbreakable, joy-filled partnership. You’ll discover: Why most problems in marriage boil down to one choice and how guardrails can save you The crucial boundaries...
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Addressing Narcissistic Patterns in Marriage Ep. 721
Awesome Marriage Podcast
We’ve explored the spectrum of narcissism, now it’s time to dive into what you can do when those patterns show up in your marriage. Dr. Kim shares how to discern when to speak up and when to self-reflect, how to cultivate an atmosphere for healthy conversation, and why boundaries are essential for meaningful connection. Episode Takeaways: Forgiveness is not pretending something didn’t happen. Trust has to be built consistently over time. Being a good christian spouse does not mean absorbing pain. When you see the same behaviors repeatedly, it’s time to do...
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Wider Lens: Free Me from Me: Escaping the Maze of Self-Centeredness by Embracing a God-Centered Life
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Are you caught in a maze and don’t even know it? Today, Dr. Kim is joined by Ryan Wekenman to talk about the maze of self-centeredness we all have to navigate. When we begin living for applause, appreciation, or validation, we can easily drift out of sync with the Lord and into a life focused on serving ourselves—the exact opposite of what God calls us to. In this powerful conversation, Ryan and Dr. Kim challenge us to recognize the pull toward self-focus and invite us to shift our attention back where it belongs: fully on Jesus. We pray this episode encourages you to take the focus off...
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Navigating Bad Days Without Making Them a Bad Marriage Ep. 719
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Lightbulb Moments in Marriage with Emerson Eggerichs Ep. 718
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What if your marriage isn’t falling apart, but just missing a key insight? In this powerful conversation, we explore “Light Bulb Moments”- the sudden realizations that can transform a relationship almost instantly. Emerson Eggerichs, author of Light Bulb Moments in Marriage and the bestselling Love and Respect, shares how couples who feel miles apart are often just inches away from breakthrough. You’ll learn how understanding gender differences, taking responsibility for your responses, and applying a faith-centered perspective can lead to deeper connection and lasting change. ...
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Narcissism, Selfishness, and the Human Heart Ep. 717
Awesome Marriage Podcast
We are quick to label selfish or defensive behavior as “narcissism,” but what if the issue runs deeper than personality? In this episode, we explore how disordered desires, our need for control, comfort, or validation, shape the way we relate to others and quietly erode connection. This conversation unpacks the difference between healthy self-awareness and self-absorption, why freedom begins when we stop defending ourselves, and how real change doesn’t come from trying harder—but from surrendering deeper. You’ll be challenged to look beneath behavior and consider what your heart is...
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Making Blended Families Work with Ron Deal Ep. 716
Awesome Marriage Podcast
Blended families are beautiful—but they’re also complex. When two lives, two histories, and often two sets of kids come together, figuring out what “family” looks like can feel overwhelming. From divided loyalties and differing parenting styles to navigating ex-spouses, finances, and faith, blended families face unique challenges that many couples aren’t prepared for. In this episode, we’re joined by Ron Deal, director of FamilyLife Blended and author of The Smart Stepfamily. Ron shares practical wisdom, biblical insight, and deep encouragement for couples navigating stepfamily...
info_outlineMismatched sex drives in marriage? You're not alone—and it's not a problem to fix, but an opportunity to grow together.
Most couples (up to 90%!) will experience periods where their sexual desires don't line up perfectly. It's completely normal—and it's a chance to build deeper understanding, communication, and compassion in your relationship. Getting honest about differences means you can meet each other where you are, as a team.
This conversation is full of encouragement for the couple (or the spouse) who is feeling the disconnect from the different drives. Join Dr. Kim and J. Parker as they talk about normalizing this topic and making your marriage (and sex life) awesome.
Episode Highlights:
Majority of couples face the struggle of mismatched sex drives.
It’s important that the lines of communication are open when talking about desire, frequency and expectation.
Open, ongoing communication is key to building intimacy.
The way we think about intimacy is often shaped by cultural messages, church teaching, or our upbringing.
Quotes from Today’s Episode:
Mismatched sex drives aren't the exception—they're the norm.
Instead of seeing it as a sign something's wrong, view it as an opportunity to communicate, show compassion, and navigate intimacy as a team.
The old script that ‘men want sex and women want romance' sells everyone short. You can crave both romance and intimacy, regardless of who in your marriage has the higher desire.
A thriving sex life isn't automatic—it's something you cultivate over time, through learning, honesty, and growth together.
Sometimes a gap in desire isn't about your relationship at all, but about real-life pressures.
There are times when speaking up isn't nagging—it's partnership. Express what you need, but do it out of love and with respect, seeking to connect and understand, not just correct.
Questions for Reflection:
- When was the last time you and your spouse had a conversation about frequency?
- Do you feel comfortable telling your spouse what you need in regards to physical intimacy?
- What’s one small step you could take this week to communicate more openly about your needs and create healthier intimacy together?
Mentioned in this Episode:
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Achieving Awesome Sex in Marriage online course with Dr. Kim and J. Parker
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If you are the lower drive spouse, consider taking our Think Sex Challenge. Our brain is a powerful sex organ and sometimes we have to take the time to “think sex”.
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Want an opportunity to dig into God’s Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Fight the chaos of culture and keep your marriage grounded in Biblical truth. Check out 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth.
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