Awesome Marriage Podcast

Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for 53 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40 years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage and 14 Keys To Lasting Love. Dr. Kim is joined by co-host Lindsay Few, Content Director for Awesome Marriage. She has been married for 20 years. Her husband is a church planter, and they love ministering to married couples together. Tune in each week to hear practical ways on how to have an awesome marriage! This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.

Answering Porn Recovery FAQ: Betrayed Spouse | Ep. 652 11/19/2024

Answering Porn Recovery FAQ: Betrayed Spouse | Ep. 652 Today we’re answering listener questions about how to handle the pain of a spouse’s porn use. Unfortunately, this is a pretty common issue we hear about from couples, but the good news is that you CAN heal and move forward. So today we’re answering listener questions about healing and recovery from pornography in marriage. We’ll talk about the process for forgiveness, what to do if you just cannot forgive and move on, how to rebuild trust, and practical strategies to combat intrusive thoughts. Listen for practical ways to heal and recover your heart and your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: How to forgive and move forward when it feels impossible Changing your view if you can’t separate your spouse from the hurtful behavior The balance of feeling safe and willingness to be vulnerable Boundary setting to allow for healing Getting out of the comparison trap and starting to feel beautiful and desirable again *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: When your marriage is recovering from porn use, repentance is the first step. Forgiveness allows you to heal, and boundaries help facilitate marriage healing. You can rebuild your marriage even better than before. Questions to Discuss: What does your spouse do that helps you trust them? Are there any areas where you need to build or repair trust with your spouse? What can you do together to help that process? QUOTES “Until you forgive, you’re still giving a lot of power to what happened.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “One of the best prayers is asking God to help you see your spouse through His eyes.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “We want assurance that nothing will ever hurt us again, but that’s not possible.” Lindsay Few “Look for Jesus in your spouse. When you see that, things are probably going to be pretty good.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling This is not a hurdle to get through: this is a lifestyle change. - Dr. Kim Kimberling There’s nothing wrong with being accountable, not because you ‘have to,’ but because you love your spouse. - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You’ve got to be completely open and transparent with each other. You can’t have trust without that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Sign up for the Free to learn the steps you need to take to live a marriage undefiled and experience closeness and intimacy again Past podcast episodes on healing your marriage after porn: Has your marriage been damaged by the effects of porn? Not sure what’s next? Download the to learn your next steps to healing. /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33916102

Equip Your Kids to Fight Porn with Kristen Jenson | Ep. 651 11/15/2024

Equip Your Kids to Fight Porn with Kristen Jenson | Ep. 651 Are your kids protected from p*rn? Do they know how to fight back? What if they’ve already been exposed to it? So many parents do not know how to protect their kids from porn, or how to equip them with what to do if they are exposed to it. We are so pleased to hear from Kristen Jenson today on the podcast with the answers to your questions. Equip yourself so that you can equip kids well. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The hidden mental health dangers of p*rn The scripts parents need to discuss p*rn with their kids’ Tips for digital safety in today's technology-driven world. When should you start talking to your kids about p*rn? Which phones are safer for kids? Resources that will help you guide your kids or grandchildren The need for open conversations that can protect children's innocence. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Your kids & grandkids need a plan in place to protect them from the danger of porn exposure and addiction. Today’s episode will equip you to make that plan. Questions to Discuss: Have you taken the time to equip your kids with what to do if they are exposed to porn? Do you have a plan to resist the temptation of porn or explicit materials? If not, use the resources below to develop a plan today. QUOTES “If you’re worried about what to do with your kids about p*rn, this podcast is for you.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “P*rnography is fueling a huge rise in child-on-child harmful sexual behavior.” - Kristen Jenson “How do you talk to kids about it in a way that doesn’t scare them, doesn’t scare the parents and gives them a real plan?” - Kristen Jenson “We all need scripts for certain life situations. There are no scripts passed down for this problem.” - Kristen Jenson “We live in a world awash with addiction. We need to teach our kids how to protect their brains from addiction.” - Kristen Jenson “P*rnography is the tool of choice. If kids know what to do, they’re going to be that much safer.” - Kristen Jenson “We have an opportunity to say, no this isn’t normal. No, this isn’t healthy.” - Kristen Jenson MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: : Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids, Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr., and the Guidebook for Counseling Kids Learn about our the brand new curriculum Keep current From Defend Young Minds Use the instantly- to help you teach your child Follow Defend Young Minds on , , , & /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33915797

Answering Porn Recovery FAQ: Recovering Spouse | Ep. 650 11/12/2024

Answering Porn Recovery FAQ: Recovering Spouse | Ep. 650 If porn has damaged your marriage, healing is possible. And you are not alone…This is unfortunately a common issue we hear from couples about. So today on the podcast, we’re answering listener questions about healing and recovery from pornography in marriage. We’ll talk about the need for forgiveness, what to do when a spouse cannot forgive and move on, how to rebuild trust, and practical strategies to combat temptation. Listen for practical ways to engage in healing and recovery for you and your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: What to do if a spouse can’t forgive past porn use How to make a plan for dealing with temptation. Necessary steps in the trust-rebuilding process Help to understand the impact on a wife’s self-image How shame and isolation impact recovery *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Porn use can really damage the trust in marriage, but recovery is possible. Learn how and do what it takes to rebuild trust and does not Questions to Discuss: What are the areas of vulnerability in your marriage? How can you make a plan to protect your marriage where you need it most? Is there anything you need to come clean about with your spouse? Do it today. QUOTES “The things a spouse needs to do for recovery are good for them AND good for the marriage. It really works together.” Lindsay Few “Most men I talk to have no idea how devastating their p*rn use was for their wife.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “It’s so important to have a plan in place.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Remember that temptation itself is not sin. It’s what you do once you are tempted.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You can use temptation as a red flag to drive you toward things that are good for you.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “God doesn’t want us stuck in shame, but the enemy sure does.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Podcast episode: We mentioned this Other helpful episodes: Sign up for the Free to learn the steps you need to take to live a marriage undefiled and experience closeness and intimacy again /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33783452

Emotional Intimacy Do's and Don'ts | Ep. 649 11/05/2024

Emotional Intimacy Do's and Don'ts | Ep. 649 How is the emotional intimacy in your marriage? Do you feel safe telling your spouse anything? Do you feel loved, heard, and understood? Marriage is meant to be a refuge…a place where you each feel safe sharing deep personal feelings and confident you will be graciously received by your spouse. The problem is that many of us don’t talk about or even understand our own emotions. And if we can’t properly process our emotions, it will be very hard to build true emotional closeness in marriage. Tune in today to learn the Do’s and Don’t of emotional intimacy. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Surprising behaviors that may shut our spouses down emotionally What wives tend to get wrong about emotional intimacy What husbands often get wrong about emotional intimacy What we miss out on when emotional intimacy is missing in marriage *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Emotional intimacy is being able to share your thoughts, feelings, hopes, fears, and more with your spouse and be loved and accepted. It is a building block of great connection in marriage. Questions to Discuss: How safe do you feel sharing anything you need to with your spouse? What could you do to better accept your spouse as they are? What helps you feel emotionally close and connected? QUOTES Wives may experience more of the feeling of the lack of emotional intimacy. - Lindsay Few I promise you, after 54 years of marriage, that your spouse cannot read your mind. - Dr. Kim Kimberling A lot of times we think our spouse thinks like we think. Dr. Kim Kimberling Our assumptions really get us in trouble. - Lindsay Few Instead of thinking your spouse is a terrible person, realize they’re just different. They don’t see things the same way you do. - Lindsay Few God didn’t give feelings and emotions to women that He didn’t give to men. He gave us the same feelings and emotions. It changes your life when you get in touch with that. - Dr. Kim Kimberling We’re all emotional. We’re just not all in touch with them. - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Take the challenge to learn practical steps to growing emotional intimacy with your spouse. FREE Awesome Marriage Printable Heart-to-Heart is a game designed to deepen emotional intimacy and connection between you two. /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33672677

Building a Foundation of Spiritual Intimacy for a Marriage That Lasts with David & Meg Robbins | Ep. 648 10/29/2024

Building a Foundation of Spiritual Intimacy for a Marriage That Lasts with David & Meg Robbins | Ep. 648 We’re so happy to have David and Meg Robbins from FamilyLife joining us on the podcast today. The Robbins have been in ministry for many years and have learned so many important truths about what it takes to create a marriage strong enough to stand strong through the years. Today they share their wisdom and experience. You don’t want to miss this conversation, full of wisdom and practical application that will benefit you and your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The unique strengths of Gen Z when it comes to pursuing marriage The 3 threats every marriage faces The power of the Holy Spirit to stand strong Daily habits to fight the drift that busyness creates in marriage Scheduling habits to keep your marriage connected How to find an encouraging community of support - and why it matters *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Don’t neglect the health of your marriage: Keep short accounts when things need to be addressed between you, and cultivate supportive community. Questions to Discuss: Are you aware of the spiritual battle for your marriage? Are there any ways you’re viewing your spouse as your enemy, and neglecting to protect your mind and heart against the real enemy? Where would your life and marriage benefit from community? What step can you take today to nurture your friendships, mentorship and fellowship? QUOTES Younger generations are doing a lot of deep story work. - Meg Robbins We all have ingrained sin patterns that we bring into marriage. - David Robbins Vulnerability does involve risk. It’s not status quo. Yet vulnerability is the pathway to deeper intimacy. - David Robbins You have to take risky steps to take down the walls around your heart. - Meg Robbins With little things, we can be hard on ourselves. But when you spend time with other people, you realize these are normal things. - Meg Robbins Most people want to talk about their marriage, it just requires someone else to start the conversation. Anyone of us can crack open the conversation. - David Robbins A healthy marriage is one that’s repenting often. - David Robbins No marriage is going to naturally drift towards awesome oneness. - Meg Robbins MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Find marriage-building resources and events at www.FamilyLife.com Find and follow FamilyLife Utilize FamilyLife’s small group course . /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33586092

Using the 5 Levels of Communication & Avoiding Communication Breakdowns | Ep. 647 10/22/2024

Using the 5 Levels of Communication & Avoiding Communication Breakdowns | Ep. 647 Are you familiar with the 5 levels of communication and where they fit in your marriage? Do you use all 5 levels in your marriage? The basics of communication sound simple on paper, yet most couples are struggling to communicate effectively. And when communication falls short, your connection suffers, conflict ramps up, and marriage isn’t the partnership you hoped for. Today Dr. Kim shares these levels and how to use them, so you can access all 5 types of communication your marriage needs and avoid common communication breakdowns with your spouse. Tune in to learn more! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: 5 communication levels you and your spouse need Simple tips for avoiding common communication breakdowns Getting to deep communication with a less talkative spouse Common mistakes husbands and wives make with deeper communication How to respect your spouse’s personal communication style *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: When you talk, be mindful of communicating in ways that your spouse will be able to really hear you. When your spouse talks, listen well, and don’t neglect any of the 5 communication levels. Questions to Discuss: Which levels of communication come more naturally in your marriage? Which levels are harder to use? What is one thing you can do today to make sure you communicate in a way your spouse will be able to receive well? QUOTES “Communication is so essential. I don’t know if there's ever a couple that comes in for counseling and it’s not an issue.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “It sounds simple enough, but at the same time most couples are struggling with communication.” - Lindsay Few “It’s important that you pay attention to each other. That you value it and listen to each other.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “There are so many distractions in life. It’s important to tune in.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Instead of blaming our spouse because they’re not listening well, ask how well am I communicating with them?” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “We have a responsibility to grow in self awareness, and marriage is a beautiful way to do that.“ Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Turn to God and ask him to renew your mind with our NEW resource, is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here! on Instagram for more marriage tips! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33485422

Don’t Fight About the Wrong Things, Find Your Real Marriage Issue | Ep. 646 10/15/2024

Don’t Fight About the Wrong Things, Find Your Real Marriage Issue | Ep. 646 Are you truly resolving your marriage issues? Most couples experience recurring arguments that never truly resolve. This cycle leaves you with two problems: 1, You never solved the issue, and 2, now one or both are hurt and angry. Plus you’ve got some baggage around the issue, too. Today we’re going to help you learn how to resolve the actual issues. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: What NOT to do in a recurring argument Communication tips to help you prevent conflict Conversation hacks to prevent defensiveness The process to understand the REAL underlying issues *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: If you have recurring arguments (most couples do!) there’s probably a deeper issue you’re not aware of. Get under the surface to resolve the real issue. Questions to Discuss: On a scale from 1-10, how well do you and your spouse resolve your marriage conflict? Better communication helps you address the real issues you need to resolve. What is one step you can take to grow your communication today? QUOTES "Most couples have recurring arguments that never truly resolve" - Lindsay Few "Being vulnerable builds intimacy and trust." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Using 'I' statements takes ownership and responsibility." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Learning to resolve conflict in a healthy way is a gift to your marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is a printable resource to help you address conflict the healthy way. Grab the ! Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! Has infidelity damaged your marriage? Sign up for Dr. Kim’s webinar and learn what steps to take next. is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here! on Instagram for more marriage tips! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33389922

How to Choose Your Battles Well | Ep. 645 10/08/2024

How to Choose Your Battles Well | Ep. 645 How well do you choose your battles? If you struggle with recurring conflict in marriage, you might need to work on choosing your battles. On the other hand, if you’re feeling resentment but you’re not sure how to address it… you might need to work on choosing your battles. Today Dr. Kim is going to help you learn how to choose your battles well. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Knowing when to stand your ground vs. when to let go The underlying message in your recurring marriage issues How to balance love and grace with speaking the truth The path to build trust for open and honest feedback *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Some things are not worth arguing over! You can reduce the tension in your marriage by learning to choose your battles better. Questions to Discuss: What situations tend to end in recurring arguments in your marriage? Are any of those battles you can let go of, instead of fighting? Is there any resentment you need to let go of today? QUOTES Instead of being critical, learn to work together. - Dr. Kim Kimberling Stay faithful to agreements you’ve made. The things you agreed on affect one another. - Lindsay Few It doesn’t have to be a battle. - Lindsay Few Getting defensive just never works. - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is a printable resource to help you address conflict the healthy way. Grab the ! Has infidelity damaged your marriage? Sign up for Dr. Kim’s webinar and learn what steps to take next. is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here! What situations tend to end in recurring arguments in your marriage? Are any of those battles you can let go of, instead of fighting? Is there any resentment you need to let go of today? QUOTES Instead of being critical, learn to work together. - Dr. Kim Kimberling Stay faithful to agreements you’ve made. The things you agreed on affect one another. - Lindsay Few It doesn’t have to be a battle. - Lindsay Few Getting defensive just never works. - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is a printable resource to help you address conflict the healthy way. Grab the ! Has infidelity damaged your marriage? Sign up for Dr. Kim’s webinar and learn what steps to take next. is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33318007

How to Have Hope in the Darkest Times with Ken Guidroz | Ep. 644 10/04/2024

How to Build a Biblical Perspective in Marriage | Ep. 643 10/01/2024

How to Build a Biblical Perspective in Marriage | Ep. 643 Your mindset greatly impacts your day to day life. If you’re stuck in unhealthy or unhelpful thought patterns, both you and your marriage will suffer. But there are simple ways to unpack your thought patterns and replace the unhelpful with a biblical perspective. In today’s episode we’re looking at practical ways to adopt a gracious, life-giving perspective in marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Common perspective mistakes in marriage and what causes them Practical tips to resolve perspective issues and create a Biblical perspective What do secret sin and perspective have in common? Ways to communicate more effectively and seek to understand your spouse's perspective Tips to cultivate oneness and a spiritual foundation of unity *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Is your perspective of your spouse realistic? For most issues, a generous perspective and good communication can get you through it together. Questions to Discuss: Do you have any unrealistic expectations of your spouse today? If you’re not sure, check them out together. Are you and your spouse at odds over an issue? Take the time to learn what matters most to your spouse about their position on it. Do you have thought habits that are leading to bitterness or resentment in your marriage? QUOTES "It's hard to step into your spouse's shoes or take the time to do that, to have empathy for them." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "Resentment can be a huge thing and it's so dangerous because if we don't stop it, it continues to grow." - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Perspective is your lens on the world. If your lens is covered with smudges and you’re not seeing clearly, that’s not the world’s fault. You’ve got to clean your lens.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: If you are ready to have a better perspective – and a better marriage, then the biblically-based is for you! Turn to God and ask him to renew your mind with our NEW resource, is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here! Join the ! Because a world full of awesome marriages can change the world Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33207852

Essential Steps to Affair Recovery with Rick Reynolds | Ep. 642 09/27/2024

Essential Steps to Affair Recovery with Rick Reynolds | Ep. 642 An affair doesn’t have to mean the end of a marriage. At Awesome Marriage, we have seen so many marriages restored! Yet the recovery process will take time and working together to see the Lord heal the union. If you’ve experienced this pain, you need a guide to help you along the way. Rick Reynolds joins Dr. Kim today to share his story of marriage recovery, and how he’s used his own painful experience to help others through the process of rebuilding after infidelity. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: How to avoid common behaviors that can set you up for an affair How to rebuild a marriage after affair - better than before Why Christians need to be aware of their own vulnerability How to overcome the obstacles to recovering after infidelity Common mistakes in the affair recovery process *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: One of the best ways to protect your marriage from an affair is to realize you could be vulnerable to infidelity, and put boundaries in place. If your marriage has experienced infidelity, it can be restored much stronger than before. Questions to Discuss: What boundaries do you have in your life to prevent even baby steps toward an affair? Are you a safe place for your spouse to be completely honest and open? What would help make your marriage a safer place for honesty? QUOTES “When we fall, what’s important is what we do afterwards.” - Rick Reynolds “A lot of Christians don’t realize they’re vulnerable, so they don’t put constraints in place. Then they find themselves in a mess.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “What heals is empathy and emotional responsiveness.” - Rick Reynolds “The wayward spouse needs to understand that disclosure is the way that trust is reestablished.” - Rick Reynolds MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Learn more or sign up for the Hope Rising Conference at If you feel defeated about your marriage, or are considering divorce, our 90 Days to Save Your Marriage plan is for you. . /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33107792

Harness the Power of Having a Plan for Your Money with Dan and Kay Ockey | Ep. 641 09/24/2024

Harness the Power of Having a Plan for Your Money with Dan and Kay Ockey | Ep. 641 When costs keep rising, and earnings often don’t match, money stress is bound to invade your marriage. Most couples face additional tension around how to handle finances well – as well as how to handle them together. In today’s podcast, Dr. Kim talks with Dan and Kay Ockey about how to take control of your finances, even in times of financial uncertainty. Dan and Kay offer concrete and actionable advice on how to take the steps to get out of debt, make a realistic plan, and work together. Tune in for help to get your finances in order. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The action plan for how to start tracking finances Productive ways to handle the realities of inflation and financial uncertainty 2 keys for financial success in a marriage Use this reframing shift and fight over finances less *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES "The magic bullet doesn't exist, but being real about your numbers and not spending more than you make is key." - Dan Ockey “We’re finding that among a lot of people there’s an expectation you should have the life you want.” - Dan Ockey “We may not have the money to do all the things we want right now, and that’s ok. You’re not a failure - you can work toward that.” - Dan Ockey “Our money conversations were so painful. Then I realized that our unity was more important than my beliefs about money.” - Dan Ockey Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Unity in your marriage finances requires a team mindset, learning about each other, and learning the skills to handle money well. Questions to Discuss: What financial beliefs are keeping you from unity in your marriage? Are you working toward a common goal together today? If not, work together to set one. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Learn how to avoid the 4 common budgeting mistakes couples make when in the FREE Centsei Class. Get the budget conversation started with Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/33095407

Amazon Surprises & Online Money Issues | Ep. 640 09/17/2024

Amazon Surprises & Online Money Issues | Ep. 640 Show of hands: Are you an Amazon box hider? … or do you have your spouse break down the boxes for you? All joking aside, online shopping can be an issue that hinders couples’ closeness. Money management in general can be a hot topic, but the wide range of ways we can spend money online with just the click of a button can create some additional obstacles, and we hear about it from couples all the time. Today we’re equipping you to resolve this issue. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Red flags that you need to address online spending with your spouse. The role of trust in marriage money habits How to know when online shopping has become a problem The negative cycle of emotional triggers *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “When you look into what’s most important with money, you make a lot more progress more quickly.” - Lindsay Few "When you quit being a team, that's when it becomes a problem." - Dr. Kim Kimberling "If shopping is getting in the way of closeness with your spouse, then something needs to change." - Dr. Kim Kimberling Couple's Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: Money secrets do not serve your marriage well, so do what it takes to build trust with your spouse around finances. Questions to Discuss: Are there any money habits your spouse does not know about you? What areas bring out money tension for your marriage? What is one step that would help you work through that and build unity today? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Learn how to avoid the 4 common budgeting mistakes couples make when in the FREE Centsei Class. Get the budget conversation started with Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32993917

Finding Hope Through Our Failures with Becky Kiser | Ep. 639 09/10/2024

Tips for Care-Giving Spouses with Kristin & Todd Evans | Ep. 638 09/06/2024

Simple Budgeting Tips that Work | Ep. 637 09/03/2024

Simple Budgeting Tips that Work | Ep. 637 Reduce money stress in your marriage by making sure your money knows where to go! Don’t avoid talking about money with your spouse: Establishing a budget you can both stick to will certainly pay off long term. Today Dr. Kim shares several simple tricks that help him and Nancy to stress less and be intentional with their finances. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The basic starting point for building a budget The budget category Dr. Kim & Nancy would NEVER cut out The power of breaking a scarcity mindset and becoming generous Strategies to better money management How to get started if you’ve never budgeted *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “We felt like it was always important to have a date.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Make sure to build in your budget that you can go out somewhere each week and not have to worry about it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “God is so generous, and that’s really what we want to emulate.” - Lindsay Few “My lack of generosity was not the person I wanted to be.” - Lindsay Few Continue to ask, “What are our financial goals? How do we budget to make them work?” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “If you need help, get it. If you’re going to fight about money for 50 years, that doesn’t sound fun at all. ”- Dr. Kim Kimberling “When you tithe 10%, the 90% you have left goes a lot further than you thought the 100% would.” - Lindsay Few “I don’t know anyone personally who would say they regret tithing.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Get the budget conversation started with Learn how to avoid the 4 common budgeting mistakes couples make when in the FREE Centsei Class. Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32777642

Healthy Tech Habits For A Healthy Marriage with Arlene Pellicane | Ep. 636 08/30/2024

Healthy Tech Habits For A Healthy Marriage with Arlene Pellicane | Ep. 636 Do your habits online support your marriage? Or damage it? Fewer couples are getting married than ever. Tech is hitting marriages hard today. Yet research shows that marriage can provide a huge boost to personal happiness. Today’s guest Arlene Pellicane has written several books on how technology is impacting relationships, and today she shares tech habits that will help you and your marriage to thrive. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The 1 habit that leads to a 99% marriage success rate Simple to streamline your tech habits for more connection Why today’s tech affects relationships differently than before Research shows how marriage can impact happiness Parenting tips to break unhealthy tech habits and get your child back *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “If we seek God and His guidance, He’s always going to have an answer.” Dr. Kim Kimberling “Is technology bringing you closer together? Or causing you to grow farther apart.” - Arlene Pellicane “We're missing all these little times to connect. That’s why you feel disconnected.” - Arlene Pellicane “You have to prepare to be unpopular, because as a parent, it’s your job to protect your child.” - Arlene Pellicane MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: If you need help with family tech habits, DO NOT miss on the topic. National Marriage Week is each February 7-14th – and their great marriage building resources are available all year long! Learn more and support the mission , , or ! Learn more about what boundaries can do for your marriage in Dr. Kim’s free Building Healthy Boundaries Webinar. What could 1 intentional weekend do for you and your spouse? Find out when you take on our Click to learn more! Don’t let screens come between you: Use our free printable to get on the same page! Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. to learn more! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32777297

Tech Boundaries Your Marriage Needs | Ep. 635 08/27/2024

Help! My Marriage Feels Out of Control | Ep. 634 08/23/2024

Is it Too Late To Save My Marriage? | Ep. 633 08/20/2024

Is Everyone Else Happier Than Me? with Sarah Bragg | Ep. 632 08/16/2024

Is Everyone Else Happier Than Me? with Sarah Bragg | Ep. 632 We’ve all wondered at some point … is everyone else living a better life? It looks like they might be, and social media only seems to confirm it! That’s why we’re delighted to bring you Dr. Kim’s conversation with today’s guest, Sarah Bragg, of the Surviving Sarah podcast. In today’s episode, we’ll hear Sarah’s take on feeling “stuck” in life, how to become happier, and steps to overcome the idea that someone else’s life is better than yours. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Why we face the questions that keep us up at night Practical strategies for when you feel stuck in life How to deal with experiencing grief in midlife Guardrails to protect yourself from the effects of comparison Staving off the effects of unhappiness in your marriage Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode’s content. to get each week’s guide! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “We can look back and see where we’ve been. But when we look forward we don’t know what it’s going to look like.” - Sarah Bragg “When we keep it inside, it grows. It feels bigger than it really is.” - Sarah Bragg “We all grieve in different ways, over different things.” Dr. Kim Kimberling “It’s okay to just keep showing up and trying.” - Sarah Bragg “In this age of social media, it’s nothing but compare and compete.” - Sarah Bragg “Connection is the root of happiness.” - Sarah Bragg MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Order Sarah’s book, ? Listen to the and find more from Sarah on & on Instagram! Don’t let screens come between you: Use our free printable to get on the same page! Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode’s content. to get each week’s guide! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32282992

Why Get Married? The Health Benefits of Marriage | Ep. 631 08/13/2024

Why Get Married? The Health Benefits of Marriage | Ep. 631 Did you know that marriage can be good for you? Marriage is not always viewed as the gift from God that it actually is, but He has designed this relationship to provide some *amazing* benefits to both spouses. Today Dr. Kim is sharing several of the ways a healthy marriage supports health and wellness for you, your spouse and your family. Tune in to learn more! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The benefits of a good marriage for mental and physical health Health effects on kids and families The damaging effects of loneliness - even in marriage Steps you can take to combat loneliness Hidden benefits of the process of working on things you need to work on Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode’s content. To get each week’s guide ! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “There’s all kinds of incentives to work on your marriage, and this is one of them: If you have a healthy marriage, you have a healthier, longer life.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “We hear about so much depression; so much anxiety. Everybody’s under stress. Marriage can help your mental health.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I was out of my comfort zone, and any time you do that is uncomfortable, but on the other side there might be something really helpful.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Don’t let screens come between you: Use our free printable to get on the same page! Life’s unpredictable. Build a solid foundation for your marriage with Are you ready to oin the mission? Our Marriage Changers exist because a world full of awesome marriages can change the world! Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode’s content. To get each week’s guide ! We are here to help! Email any time. Our Healthy Self / Healthy Marriage Podcast Series goes deeper: /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32283232

Why Get Married? Biblical Purposes for Marriage | Ep. 630 08/06/2024

Why Get Married? Biblical Purposes for Marriage | Ep. 630 Does marriage still matter in this day and age? We say a resounding yes! Marriage was designed by God, and there are several purposes the Bible gives for why marriage matters. Today we’re digging into what Scripture says about the value of marriage. Tune in to learn God’s purposes for the marriage relationship, and why they matter in your marriage! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Dr. Kim’s list of biblical purposes for marriage Several ideas for what it means to “be fruitful” in marriage The power of a marriage model - and tips on how to find one The ripple effect of an intentional marriage Ways your marriage can be a light in our dark world Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode’s content. To get each new guide, ! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “No marriage is perfect. But if you’re a couple steps ahead, you’ve navigated some things that others haven’t.” - Lindsay Few “My dream for the marriage changers is that they’re learning, growing and passing that on.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Prayer has had such an impact on our marriage. When God answers prayer like He does, we want to tell everybody what He’s done!” - Dr. Kim Kimberling The things God calls us to do bring glory to God. They bring us joy, life and peace, and they also bring light and encouragement to others.” - Lindsay Few “Yes, it’s hard at times. Yes, there are things you have to work through. But the big picture result is worth it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Don’t let screens come between you: Use our free printable to get on the same page! Life’s unpredictable. Build a solid foundation for your marriage with We are here to help! Email any time. Are you ready to oin the mission? Our Marriage Changers exist because a world full of awesome marriages can change the world! Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode’s content. You’ll get each new guide when you ! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32283112

Hope for Marriage in Today's Culture with Gabrielle McCullough | Ep. 629 07/30/2024

Hope for Marriage in Today's Culture with Gabrielle McCullough | Ep. 629 Is it harder to live a faithful life today than in times past? Today’s world does provide some unique challenges that couples face, but there are also unique opportunities. Today’s conversation with Gabrielle McCullough sheds light on some of the ways today’s world can be deeply impacted by Jesus and the effects of our faith can have on marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Unique challenges and unique opportunities for faith in Gen Z 3 questions for biblical accountability A challenge to help you find your place in the local church The impact of following Jesus on every aspect of life Why the local church is still relevant and needed today *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “Following Jesus impacts every area of your life.” - Gabrielle McCullough “We follow Jesus because he has our hearts. There’s an obedience that is compelled that isn’t out of drudgery but out of true delight.” - Gabrielle McCullough “They want something that’s authentic. That excites me about my generation.” - Gabrielle McCullough There’s a beauty in asking, ‘how can I serve the church?’ instead of asking how others can serve me.” - Gabrielle McCullough “As Christians, our responsibility is to love people the way Christ loves them; with love and with truth.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “If marriages can be healthy and strong, what a testament to the world of who Jesus is and the way he fights for his Bride.” - Gabrielle McCullough MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Find Gabrielle on , and on The Christmas in July Sale is on at Awesome Marriage University and that means you get 30% ANY and ALL of our online marriage courses! our course offerings to find which one your marriage needs and use the code JULY at checkout! Our digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it’s our gift to you for your donation of any amount. /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32264357

Help for the Insecure Spouse | Ep. 628 07/23/2024

Help for the Insecure Spouse | Ep. 628 Has you or your spouse’s insecurity affected your marriage? We’re all insecure about something, and the way we see ourselves will end up spilling over into the way we relate to others. Nowhere is this more likely to happen than in marriage. In this episode Dr. Kim and Christina share ways to address your insecurity and your spouse’s insecurity, including a surprising way Dr. Kim has learned to turn his weaknesses to strengths. Tune in for wisdom and practical tips. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: How insecurity affects a marriage Advice if your spouse’s insecurity is weighing you down Advice if your OWN insecurity weighs you down Practical steps to overcome insecurity How to fight back against your insecurities *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “How you view yourself absolutely affects how you’re going to interact with others.” - Christina Dodson “I think the role of the spouse is to build each other up. Your marriage should be your safest place, next to your relationship with God.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Perfection is not what God expects from you, nor should anyone else be expecting it from you.” - Christina Dodson “You begin to believe the things God says about you and who you are in Christ, and that changes your countenance. You will look like a different person.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “There’s less holding you back if you’re not weighed down by your insecurities. There’s more joy, more abundance, freedom to enjoy life together. ” - Christina Dodson “One thing God does so well for us is he loves us right where we are. Our goal is to love our spouse right where they are.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You can’t take it over. You can’t fix it for them. But you can come alongside and do what God wants you to do.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “No one is thinking about you as much as you’re thinking about you. To me, that’s really freeing!” - Christina Dodson MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Our digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it’s our gift to you for your donation of any amount. The Christmas in July Sale is on at Awesome Marriage University and that means you get 30% OFF ANY and ALL of our online marriage courses! our course offerings to find which one your marriage needs and use the code JULY at checkout! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32103967

Deepen The Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage | Ep. 627 07/16/2024

Deepen The Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage | Ep. 627 Want better connection with your spouse? One thing we hear a lot from couples is that they don’t feel close to each other or that their relationship feels like it’s missing some depth. That’s why today we’re re-airing this episode from Dr. Kim and Christina that talks all about emotional intimacy and gives you ideas of practical ways to deepen the emotional intimacy in your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: What is emotional intimacy, and why does it matter? Warning signs you need to grow in this area Emotional intimacy killers to avoid Tips to start working on this - alone, and together *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “It is hard work knowing someone. You have to pay attention. It takes work to be intimate.” - Christina Dodson “Laziness and business are going to block your intimacy, so we have to fight against those things.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Give yourself opportunities to connect.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “It adds value to my marriage for me to have a relationship with my friends, just like it benefits our marriage that he has guy friends.” - Christina Dodson “You could have had the best childhood in the world and you still have baggage because we’re human. That’s okay, and you can deal with that.” - Christina Dodson “You can’t be emotionally intimate with your spouse if you aren’t aware of your own emotions.” - Christina Dodson MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Our digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it’s our gift to you for your donation of any amount. Your marriage can only be as healthy as the two of you are. The Bible says, “Let us examine our ways and test them and let us return to the Lord” (Lamentations 3:40). Our new will help you do just that! Print out this and use it to help you talk about your emotions. Our resource is a simple way to help build the closeness between you and your spouseAccountability is a biblical and helpful tool for growing in holiness. /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/32097087

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Love Your Spouse...As You Love Yourself? with Bryan Crum | Ep. 623 06/21/2024

Love Your Spouse...As You Love Yourself? with Bryan Crum | Ep. 623 Most of us deal with self doubt, regret, and feelings of not measuring up. But learning to love ourselves properly means learning to see ourselves as God does, and it allows us to love others more freely and graciously. Today, Bryan Crum will help you step away from nagging self doubts and into a solid biblical perspective. Give your marriage the gift of seeing yourself and your spouse through God’s eyes. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Unexpected lessons learned from people who are facing their mortality Why is it hard to accept loving and valuing ourselves properly? Rewriting negative messages we’ve learned Ideas to break away from self-doubt Why relationships are needed to help us learn to love ourselves *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “I’m on a mission to help people fall in love with God’s greatest creation; and that’s us.” - Bryan Crum “We all want to know our time on this earth means something.” - Bryan Crum “I’ve discovered 2 truths about living: 1. We’re priceless. 2. For some reason, we’ve forgotten that truth.” - Bryan Crum “We interact with people every day but we don’t always treat them like they are valuable.” - Bryan Crum “When we acknowledge the truth of what we’re worth, we’re acknowledging a truth heaven knows well.” - Bryan Crum “The first step is to stop comparing ourselves to each other.” - Bryan Crum “There's power in giving each other the benefit of the doubt.” - Bryan Crum “Giving each other grace is a small step that covers a lot of distance.” - Bryan Crum “Marriage is promising each other that we’re all-in. We’ve got to make the conscious choice to say, ‘I’m still here.’” - Bryan Crum MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: If your marriage is doing okay but could use a jumpstart, then this is for you! Find more from Bryan Order Bryan’s book, Neighbor, Love Yourself /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/31792937

How Does the Bible Say to Handle Conflict? With Donna Jones | Ep. 624 06/19/2024

How Does the Bible Say to Handle Conflict? With Donna Jones | Ep. 624 Conflict is no one’s favorite, but it is an inevitable part of life. And today Donna Jones teaches us why it’s nothing to be afraid of by busting some of the most common misunderstandings that lead to conflict avoidance, and providing a biblical roadmap to handle conflict in a healthy way. Tune in to learn more about approaching conflict in a healthy, biblical way. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The biggest mistakes most couples make in conflict The trick to de-escalate in the heat of the moment. The inner characteristics that build better conflict habits Help to break conflict patterns in your marriage The healthy way to apologize well *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out ! QUOTES “When we handle conflict in a healthy way, the outcome is peace. Peace between us and who we have conflict with; peace in our own souls.” - Donna Jones “When we are in conflict, it literally affects everything about us. We function, but on the inside, we’re torn to pieces.” - Donna Jones “The reason so many of us think conflict is bad, is that we never learned to see how conflict can turn out good.” - Donna Jones “When we have conflict, we tend to think it means 1 of 3 things: There’s something wrong with you; there’s something wrong with me, or there’s something wrong with us. But conflict doesn’t mean that.” - Donna Jones “No relationship can survive an atmosphere of disrespect over the long haul.” - Donna Jones “The most important thing is not an act, it’s an attitude: Humility.” - Donna Jones “If you want to know how strong a person really is, look for humility.” - Donna Jones MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Order Donna’s book today! Find Donna on , on Instagram or Facebook For more help to break the conflict cycle, sign up for Dr. Kim’s “” If your marriage is feeling a bit blah, the is the jumpstart you need to bring fresh life into your marriage! /episode/index/show/awesomemarriage/id/31812822

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