Ep 25: Rebuilding after it all falls apart: Finding Mental Resilience w/ Andrew Jenkins

🎧 Episode Summary:

In this profoundly moving episode, Dr. Jeremy Bettle sits down with Andrew Jenkins, a former elite rugby player turned inspirational speaker, who shares his journey from a devastating car accident to finding renewed purpose and vitality in founding "Strength In You". Andrew opens up about the struggles of identity loss, emotional suppression, and the long road to mental and emotional healing. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating grief, trauma, or major life transitions, and seeking the courage to rewrite their story.

 

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👤 Guest Bio:

Andrew, a finalist on the BBC reality sensation "The Traitors" and a living embodiment of resilience! At just 21, he faced a life-altering car accident that left him in a coma for four weeks, with doctors declaring he may never walk, talk, or recognize his loved ones again. But Andrew refused to be defined by his circumstances. He defied the odds, not only regaining his ability to walk but also reigniting his passion for life after losing his dream of playing rugby for Wales.

For nearly 24 years, Andrew battled his mental health in silence, but he eventually found the courage to share his struggles with family. Through deep reflection and self-discovery, he emerged stronger than ever. In a powerful reunion in 2022 with the doctor who saved his life, Andrew was dubbed a "miracle patient," inspiring him to turn his story into a beacon of hope for others.

Now, as the founder of "Strength In You Ltd," Andrew is on a mission to shatter the stigmas surrounding mental health, failure and vulnerability. He delivers electrifying motivational talks and dynamic workshops, empowering individuals to rise above their challenges. With ambitious plans, Andrew is determined to leave an indelible mark on the world, proving that with heart, grit, and determination, anyone can overcome adversity and find their strength.

 

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🔗 Connect with Andrew Jenkins:

• Website: www.andrewjenkins.co
  
  

• Instagram: @andrewjenkinsofficial
  
  

• LinkedIn: Andrew Jenkins

 

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✅ Three Actionable Items:

1. Practice Daily Self-Compassion – Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding as you would a friend.
   
   

2. Get Outside in Nature – Take a 20-minute walk in a natural setting to boost serotonin and clear your mind.
   
   

3. Start the Day with Intent – Avoid screens first thing in the morning; instead, begin with meditation or a walk to set a positive tone.
   
   

 

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🔑 Key Takeaways:

• Suppressing emotions can lead to long-term psychological harm, especially in high-masculinity cultures like sport.
  
  

• Identity loss, such as the end of a sports career, often triggers grief that many don’t recognize or process.
  
  

• Trauma is not the end of the story—post-traumatic growth can create deeper purpose and service to others.
  
  

• Healing often begins with opening up—to friends, family, or professionals.
  
  

• Societal and familial expectations can cloud personal fulfillment—find and follow your own path.
  
  

• Breaking generational cycles of emotional suppression can lead to healthier, more open family dynamics.
  
  

• Mental health and physical health are deeply interconnected; one cannot thrive without the other.
  
  

• Simple lifestyle practices like walking, mindful breathing, and a nourishing diet significantly impact well-being.
  
  

• The current model of reactive healthcare and mental health needs to shift toward prevention and early intervention.
  
  

• Vulnerability is a form of strength, not weakness.
  
  

 

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