A Lesbian's Journey into Surrogacy
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Release Date: 09/05/2024
Iryna Zarutska & Charlie Kirk: Violence Isnāt the Answer
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
In this episode of Dear Bianca, I step away from our usual lighthearted conversations to reflect on two tragedies that captured national attention this week: the devastating death of Iryna Zarutska on the light rail and the fatal shooting of Charlie Kirk at Utah Valley University. As a queer podcast community, I know these events bring up complicated emotions ā grief, anger, even conflicting feelings about justice. But one thing is clear: celebrating violence is not who we are. In this episode, I talk about what these moments reveal about Americaās broken systems, why violence cannot be...
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Football Season Started and So Did My Injuries
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
September really said, āLetās test her.ā In one week, I collected a whole new friend group, blew through way too much money going out, and earned a solid āFā on my first fantasy football report card (thank you, apparently I suck at drafting). And because life loves balance, my 30s decided to show up with random knee pain every time I try to work out ā cute. Add in football season officially here, fall vibes taking over, and whispers of an early winter, and honestlyā¦ weāre thriving. This is your fun, slightly unhinged, very sarcastic catch-up on how September is already giving...
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Taylor Said Yesā¦ and So Did Every Lesbian in NYC
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are officially engaged ā but the real chaos is happening in NYC, where an upcoming lesbian bar crawl has a guest list thatās spiraling out of control. Bianca also spills on her love for her new therapist and answers a heartfelt listener question about coming out as non-binary to their parents. If you love Dear Bianca, please follow, rate and review the podcast ā it seriously helps the show grow. Follow me on Instagram & TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast Story idea or topic you want me to cover? Email me: xx B
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Meet My Girlfriend Abby | Queer Dating, Love & Wellness
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
This week on Dear Bianca, Iām joined by a very special guest ā my girlfriend, Abby. Itās her first time on the podcast, and weāre sharing our queer love story: how we met, how she ended up breaking her single and celibate era for me (hehe), and Abby pokes fun at what itās like dating me. We also chat about: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce and how Swiftie concerts have turned into full-on image and status parties, the mysterious case of our neighborās missing cat, and Abbyās professional wellness tips as a Physician Assistant: vitamin and supplement safety, skincare...
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The Power of a Stranger: Is Who You Meet a Coincidence?
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Ever had a random compliment from a stranger live in your head all week? Same. This episode dives into the power of a strangerāhow micro-connections boost confidence, calm anxiety, and add a little magic. I share the moment that flipped my mood, no-cringe scripts to start a convo, how to give a great compliment, and when to set boundaries. Is who you meet really a coincidenceā¦or something you called in? We have a quick chat about my unexpected Nashville night before a Vegas weekend. If you love Dear Bianca, please follow, rate & review the podcastāit seriously helps the show grow....
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What Not to Do If Youāre Having an Affair
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Picture this: Coldplay hits the stage, the arena cameras sweep the crowd, andāboomātwo people busy having an affair go full-PDA under 60,000 phones. In this weekās Dear Bianca I roast that Jumbotron-level misfire and wonder why anyone thinks āsecretā and āstadiumā belong in the same sentence. Meanwhile, I pulled a ten-hour āletās just go to Italyā stuntābooked, realized I have too much going on, cancelled, and now Iām babysitting ā¬1200 in cash. Next stop? Vegas. Almost four months alcohol-free and betting on mineral water instead of martinis. We also peel apart three...
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Healthier, Happier, Still Healing
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Iām back ā and lifeās been lifing. After a few months away, we have lots to catch up on: I havenāt had a drink in 3 months, Iām deep in my healthy girl era (yes, I read every label now), and emotionally? Letās just sayā¦ i'm working on it. In this episode, I open up about starting therapy and leaning into meditation. I also share the conversation that reignited my purpose for this podcast (spoiler: I missed you). Oh, and yesā¦ we have to talk about Fletcher dating a man and JoJo Siwaās new relationship. If youāre into personal growth, queer stories, real-life...
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Love, Loss, and My Best Friend Shannon
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
This episode means so to me. But before you hit play, do yourself a favorāgrab a box of tissues, because I cannot keep it together. Today, February 21st, is my best friend Shannonās birthday. She should be here celebrating, but instead, Iām honoring her memory. Shannon passed away at just 28 years old due to alcohol addiction, which led to acute kidney and liver failure. Losing her changed me forever. In this episode, I take you through the journey of our friendshipāthe laughter, the love, and the moments that still make me smile. But I also open up about the guilt I carry, the...
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How to Handle Friendship Changes in Your 30s
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Hi lovers! Friendships in your 30s are definitely a whole vibeāsome stick, some fade, and some just look totally different. In this episode, Iām chatting about why friendships change as you grow and how to navigate those shifts without losing your mind (or your squad). Plus, Iāll mention that Iām getting yoga certifiedābecause letās be real, a little zen goes a long way when you're juggling it all. Whether youāre queer, figuring it out, or just looking for some guidance, this episodeās got you covered. So get comfy, and letās chat :) Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast...
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Queer, Thriving, and The Struggles of Finding a Therapist in 2025
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Happy New Year, babes! Weāre kicking off 2025 with a little self-love because whatās a new year without some fresh goals, a little therapy chat, and of course, queer vibes all around? In this episode, Iām diving into the wild world of therapist hunting (trust me, itās a journey), what I look for in a therapist and why insurance makes it feel like weāre just trying to survive the system. Plus, Iāll share the deets on how Iām starting my yoga certification this monthāyes, Iām getting even more zenāand finally, Iām revealing my words of the year to set my 2025 intentions. So...
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"The egg donor is a lesbian. I am a lesbian. They're gay. And the first woman that I slept with in that threesome...she's delivering the baby." | Lindsay Perrin returns to the show! Since her last appearance, Lindsay's been traveling the world, job-hunting (and avoiding OnlyFans), and....becoming a surrogate for two gay men who have waited two years for this moment.
How did she get here? What does it take to become a surrogate? Oh, and the best part? The baby is being delivered by a woman Lindsay had a threesome with a few years agoācan't make this shit up.
On top of that, Lindsay spills the tea on her chaotic love life, including the 11 women who canceled their first dates with her. ELEVEN. How. She's also been trying really hard to match with her new crush, Olympic rugby star Ilona Maher.
Sit back and relax - Welcome to Dear Bianca š
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