Meet My Girlfriend Abby | Queer Dating, Love & Wellness
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Release Date: 08/21/2025
Iryna Zarutska & Charlie Kirk: Violence Isn’t the Answer
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
In this episode of Dear Bianca, I step away from our usual lighthearted conversations to reflect on two tragedies that captured national attention this week: the devastating death of Iryna Zarutska on the light rail and the fatal shooting of Charlie Kirk at Utah Valley University. As a queer podcast community, I know these events bring up complicated emotions — grief, anger, even conflicting feelings about justice. But one thing is clear: celebrating violence is not who we are. In this episode, I talk about what these moments reveal about America’s broken systems, why violence cannot be...
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Football Season Started and So Did My Injuries
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
September really said, “Let’s test her.” In one week, I collected a whole new friend group, blew through way too much money going out, and earned a solid “F” on my first fantasy football report card (thank you, apparently I suck at drafting). And because life loves balance, my 30s decided to show up with random knee pain every time I try to work out — cute. Add in football season officially here, fall vibes taking over, and whispers of an early winter, and honestly… we’re thriving. This is your fun, slightly unhinged, very sarcastic catch-up on how September is already giving...
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Taylor Said Yes… and So Did Every Lesbian in NYC
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are officially engaged — but the real chaos is happening in NYC, where an upcoming lesbian bar crawl has a guest list that’s spiraling out of control. Bianca also spills on her love for her new therapist and answers a heartfelt listener question about coming out as non-binary to their parents. If you love Dear Bianca, please follow, rate and review the podcast — it seriously helps the show grow. Follow me on Instagram & TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast Story idea or topic you want me to cover? Email me: xx B
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Meet My Girlfriend Abby | Queer Dating, Love & Wellness
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
This week on Dear Bianca, I’m joined by a very special guest — my girlfriend, Abby. It’s her first time on the podcast, and we’re sharing our queer love story: how we met, how she ended up breaking her single and celibate era for me (hehe), and Abby pokes fun at what it’s like dating me. We also chat about: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce and how Swiftie concerts have turned into full-on image and status parties, the mysterious case of our neighbor’s missing cat, and Abby’s professional wellness tips as a Physician Assistant: vitamin and supplement safety, skincare...
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The Power of a Stranger: Is Who You Meet a Coincidence?
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Ever had a random compliment from a stranger live in your head all week? Same. This episode dives into the power of a stranger—how micro-connections boost confidence, calm anxiety, and add a little magic. I share the moment that flipped my mood, no-cringe scripts to start a convo, how to give a great compliment, and when to set boundaries. Is who you meet really a coincidence…or something you called in? We have a quick chat about my unexpected Nashville night before a Vegas weekend. If you love Dear Bianca, please follow, rate & review the podcast—it seriously helps the show grow....
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What Not to Do If You’re Having an Affair
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Picture this: Coldplay hits the stage, the arena cameras sweep the crowd, and—boom—two people busy having an affair go full-PDA under 60,000 phones. In this week’s Dear Bianca I roast that Jumbotron-level misfire and wonder why anyone thinks “secret” and “stadium” belong in the same sentence. Meanwhile, I pulled a ten-hour “let’s just go to Italy” stunt—booked, realized I have too much going on, cancelled, and now I’m babysitting €1200 in cash. Next stop? Vegas. Almost four months alcohol-free and betting on mineral water instead of martinis. We also peel apart three...
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Healthier, Happier, Still Healing
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
I’m back — and life’s been lifing. After a few months away, we have lots to catch up on: I haven’t had a drink in 3 months, I’m deep in my healthy girl era (yes, I read every label now), and emotionally? Let’s just say… i'm working on it. In this episode, I open up about starting therapy and leaning into meditation. I also share the conversation that reignited my purpose for this podcast (spoiler: I missed you). Oh, and yes… we have to talk about Fletcher dating a man and JoJo Siwa’s new relationship. If you’re into personal growth, queer stories, real-life...
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Love, Loss, and My Best Friend Shannon
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
This episode means so to me. But before you hit play, do yourself a favor—grab a box of tissues, because I cannot keep it together. Today, February 21st, is my best friend Shannon’s birthday. She should be here celebrating, but instead, I’m honoring her memory. Shannon passed away at just 28 years old due to alcohol addiction, which led to acute kidney and liver failure. Losing her changed me forever. In this episode, I take you through the journey of our friendship—the laughter, the love, and the moments that still make me smile. But I also open up about the guilt I carry, the...
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How to Handle Friendship Changes in Your 30s
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Hi lovers! Friendships in your 30s are definitely a whole vibe—some stick, some fade, and some just look totally different. In this episode, I’m chatting about why friendships change as you grow and how to navigate those shifts without losing your mind (or your squad). Plus, I’ll mention that I’m getting yoga certified—because let’s be real, a little zen goes a long way when you're juggling it all. Whether you’re queer, figuring it out, or just looking for some guidance, this episode’s got you covered. So get comfy, and let’s chat :) Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast...
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Queer, Thriving, and The Struggles of Finding a Therapist in 2025
Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
Happy New Year, babes! We’re kicking off 2025 with a little self-love because what’s a new year without some fresh goals, a little therapy chat, and of course, queer vibes all around? In this episode, I’m diving into the wild world of therapist hunting (trust me, it’s a journey), what I look for in a therapist and why insurance makes it feel like we’re just trying to survive the system. Plus, I’ll share the deets on how I’m starting my yoga certification this month—yes, I’m getting even more zen—and finally, I’m revealing my words of the year to set my 2025 intentions. So...
info_outlineThis week on Dear Bianca, I’m joined by a very special guest — my girlfriend, Abby. It’s her first time on the podcast, and we’re sharing our queer love story: how we met, how she ended up breaking her single and celibate era for me (hehe), and Abby pokes fun at what it’s like dating me.
We also chat about: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce and how Swiftie concerts have turned into full-on image and status parties, the mysterious case of our neighbor’s missing cat, and Abby’s professional wellness tips as a Physician Assistant: vitamin and supplement safety, skincare do’s and don’ts, and more
It’s a fun, flirty, and real conversation with laughs, love, and Abby’s perspective — mixing queer dating and relationships with her insight into health and wellness.
Disclaimer: The medical information shared in this episode is for general educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult your own healthcare provider with questions about your health, supplements, or skincare.
If you love Dear Bianca, please follow, rate and review the podcast — it seriously helps the show grow.
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Story idea or topic you want me to cover? Email me: [email protected]
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