The Hard Truths Every Struggling Agent Has to Hear w/ Alex Zoltan Szinegh
Release Date: 03/18/2025
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Most agents think their stress comes from slow months, inconsistent clients, or a market that refuses to cooperate. But every time we peel back the layers, we find something far more honest and far more uncomfortable: most people don’t actually know where they stand with themselves. They’re building their entire business on an internal foundation they’ve never paused long enough to inspect. The real work isn’t lead gen, time blocking, or even skill-building. It’s answering one deceptively simple question: Am I okay? Not “am I productive?” Not “am I where I thought I’d...
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Everyone talks about mindfulness like it means meditation or slowing your breathing. But for real estate agents, mindfulness isn’t about calm. It’s about controlling your emotions when clients ghost you, staying focused when the market shifts, and maintaining self-worth when deals don’t close, leads don’t convert, or someone else gets the listing. This industry puts constant pressure on performance. We’re expected to be available, confident, productive, and emotionally bulletproof, even when we’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or questioning whether we’ll hit our goals. But if...
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When it comes to having a stable real estate business, everyone wants the magic system. The checklist, the automation, the plug-and-play strategy that keeps their pipeline full. But here’s the truth: this is the job. Relationship building isn’t something you squeeze in between deals or delegate to a CRM. It’s the foundation of your reputation, your repeat business, and your referrals. Most agents want a connection without the emotional labor it takes to build it. But that’s not how trust works. You can’t shortcut care, and you can’t systematize sincerity. What separates top...
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Most agents think loyalty is earned once a deal closes. But here’s the truth: past service doesn’t guarantee future business. You can do everything right, deliver a flawless transaction, communicate perfectly, and still never hear from that client again. The data proves it. Most clients say they’d use their agent again, but only a fraction actually do. Not because they didn’t love the service, but because by the time they’re ready to move again, they’re simply no longer in flow with you. Someone else showed up first, connected better, or just stayed in touch. Real estate isn’t a...
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Most of us in real estate know we’re “supposed” to stay in touch with our database. That’s why we send newsletters, set up drip campaigns, and let the CRM fire off reminders. We want to be so consistent with it that we automate as much of the contact as possible. But here’s the problem: some of us might be so automated in our communication that we’re actually losing the relationship altogether. The truth is, automation will never replace authenticity. A system can remind you to make a call, but it can’t make someone feel cared for. A drip campaign might keep your name in...
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Most agents are stuck in a cycle of chasing strangers. Cold calls, internet leads, Zillow ads, you name it. It feels productive, but the truth is, it’s a treadmill: exhausting, unsustainable, and guaranteed to burn you out. What actually builds a long-term, stress-free business isn’t scripts or lead gen hacks. It’s relationships. The agents who thrive aren’t chasing; they’re cultivating. They’re remembered, referred, and trusted because they’ve shifted from being just another salesperson to being a true advisor. Here’s the uncomfortable truth: if your business resets to zero...
info_outlineThere are 3 types of real estate agents: the willing and able, the willing and unable, and the unwilling and unable. The first group knows what they need to do and they get it done. The second group might not know what to do, but at least they are coachable.
The third group is a different story.
When an agent is unwilling and unable, this business might not be right for them. Maybe they use the market conditions as an excuse, or they don’t do the activities that lead to success. Either way, some of the struggles they face in business might have more to do with them than the economy.
Winning in real estate is just a matter of systems, strategies, scripts and your schedule. If you lack these things, you won’t be able to accomplish anything, but you can correct it before it’s too late.
How do you use scripts to solve any problem in your real estate business? What systems are critical to your success? In this episode, we’re joined by legendary real estate agent, bestselling author, speaker and coach, Alex Zoltan Szinegh. He shares how he built a big real estate business and some hard truths struggling agents need to hear.
Three Things You’ll Learn In This Episode
- How to timeblock for success
We can’t manage time but we can manage what we do with it. What activities guarantee success in real estate?
- The pain of discipline vs. the pain of failure
Some agents won’t do what leads to success until they have had enough of being stuck. How do you take action before it’s too late?
- The market is between your ears
It’s easy to blame the market when we’re struggling in our businesses, but could we be to blame?
Guest Bio
Alex Zoltan Szinegh is a legendary real estate agent, investor and developer, bestselling author, trainer, speaker and performance coach. With over 40 years in real estate and over 3600 properties sold, Alex has established himself as a trusted and knowledgeable expert in the industry. His career spans residential, commercial, and investment properties, where he has successfully guided clients through a variety of real estate transactions, from first-time homebuyers to seasoned investors. Known for his integrity, dedication, and deep understanding of market trends, Alex brings a personalized approach to each client’s unique needs. Throughout his career, Alex has built a reputation for achieving record-breaking sales and fostering long-term client relationships. His exceptional negotiation skills and innovative marketing strategies ensure that sellers maximize their property value while buyers secure the best possible deals. In addition to his hands-on work with clients, Alex is also a passionate mentor and entrepreneur. He has led teams of agents and offers coaching to those looking to thrive in the real estate business. Connect with Alex on LinkedIn.
About Your Hosts
Your co-hosts are Brandon Roberts, founder of Signature Real Estate Group, and Chris Bishop, General Manager. Signature Real Estate Group was founded in 2013 and has grown to 600+ agents in multiple states. Collectively Brandon and Chris have trained and coached real estate brokers and agents all over the country, including helping agents become multi-million dollar producers in their first year. Signature has become known for its family atmosphere even as it grew and expanded from Las Vegas into multiple offices in Nevada, Utah and beyond.
Christopher Bishop is a seasoned real estate professional with over two decades of industry experience. He currently serves as the General Manager at Signature Real Estate Group, where he leads a top-performing team of agents and brokers, helping them achieve exceptional results in the competitive Las Vegas market. Christopher’s career includes a prestigious role as the President of the Nevada Association of REALTORS in 2020, where he worked to advance the real estate profession across the state. His dedication to the industry was recognized in 2021 when he was named REALTOR of the Year by the Greater Las Vegas Association of REALTORS. In addition to his leadership roles, Christopher has coached and mentored brokers and agents nationwide, helping them build successful real estate careers through his proven strategies and insights. Christopher’s commitment to excellence and passion for real estate have made him a respected leader and influential figure in the industry.
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