027 - The Need for Deep Healing and Initiation in Men w/ Micah McLaughlin
Release Date: 05/16/2023
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In This Episode
[0:01] Ritual initiation is vital to the well-being of men.
[4:58] Micah’s Journey of self-healing and self-growth over the last 15 years.
[7:43] Medicine, breathwork and the non-ordinary state.
[13:56] Breathwork is potent in allowing us to get into the body.
[17:26] What are bioenergetics?
[21:20] What is lifeforce and why is it so powerful?
[28:33] Connecting to the fire in the belly and the mission.
[36:35] The three levels of boyhood psychology.
[46:08] The importance of working with young men.
[1:02:08] The messiness of healing the masculine.
[1:05:11] How to heal the deep inner wounds.
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