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#50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Release Date: 05/01/2024

#63 19 Orgasmic Blow Job Techniques to Make Your Man Explode with Samia Burton

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Oral sex is one of the most commonly performed sexual activities, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that it comes naturally to everyone! To talk about how to up your blow job game and teach you orgasmic techniques to make your man explode, we are joined by the incredible Samia Burton. Samia is a dynamic sexual educator with a proven track record of success backed up by tens of thousands of online followers. As the host of Not Just Another Sex Podcast and founder of Sexual Essentials, she takes an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands-on sex workshops, including...

#62 27 Hand Job Tips to Make Him Explode with Ashley Manta

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Hand jobs are often overlooked as an appetizer to sexual experiences when the truth is, they can lead to an incredible explosion of pleasure for anyone with a penis! In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, sex expert Ashley Manta joins us to share her . Tuning in, you’ll gain insight into Ashley’s extensive experience working as a sexual violence counselor, a phone sex operator, and even at a Planned Parenthood clinic. You’ll find out how she became passionate about helping people improve their sex lives and how she found an amazing connection between sex and cannabis before discussing...

#61 How To Control Your Gag Reflex, Swallowing & Deep Throating With Dr. Ianessa Humbert

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Struggling with your gag reflex during oral sex? You're not alone. Joining us today to explore the complexities of managing this reflex is Dr. Ianessa Humbert, an accomplished scientist, professor, and sought-after speaker specializing in swallowing and swallowing disorders. In this episode, Dr. Humbert breaks down the gag reflex and its triggers, before sharing her expert advice for . Join us as we unpack the various factors that can contribute to discomfort, from the sensory to the psychological, and explore practical methods for overcoming it, including calming self-talk and easily...

#60 Domination Tips from A Real-Life Dominatrix, Mistress Eva Oh

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Domination, bondage, discipline, and other sexual kinks are merely tools to aid in a story being told between sexual partners. In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, real-life dominatrix of 13 years, Mistress Eva Oh joins us to discuss all things domination and share her tips for women and couples interested in these pleasures. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how our guest became a dominatrix, how her career has helped her embrace her personality, what work is like day-to-day, and so much more! She shares (some unexpected) advice for women wanting to be more dominant sexually before...

#59 Ex-Porn Star Teaches How to Get & Stay Rock Hard PLUS The 10 Clit Commandments for Men with Erik Everhard

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Performance anxiety and the inability to make a woman reach orgasm are just some of the many issues so many men struggle with in the bedroom. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, seasoned porn star and sex coach, Erik Everhard joins us to share his 10 Clit Commandments and his . Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how Erik got into porn, how to manage performance anxiety, some strategies to get erect and stay erect (including Erik’s CRUSH Protocol), how sex affects masculinity, and so much more! Erik even breaks down the 10 Clit Commandments as he shares how to perform mind-blowing oral sex and get...

#58 31 Powerful Blow Job Tips & How To Ride Your Man Confidently With Tyomi Morgan

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

We are joined by Tyomi Morgan for a Masterclass on . Tyomi has been teaching her techniques for years and today she reveals more than 30 different methods you can use on your man tonight. We start the podcast talking about Tyomi’s background and talk a lot about . You’ll learn how to get into the right mindset so that you can enjoy giving oral sex and your partner can feel that enthusiasm. You’re also going to learn things you can do leading up to the blow job so that you’re teasing your man throughout the day, building tension, and having him crave you. Most importantly, Tyomi teaches...

#57 How To Start Swinging, How It Improves Your Relationship & Red Flags You Must Know With Dan & Lacy From The Swing Nation

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Have you ever been curious about what the might be like? Today we sit down with Dan and Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast to answer all your swinger-related questions. Tune in as we discuss everything, from figuring out whether the swinger lifestyle is right for you to the impact it could have on your relationship. Discover what drew Dan and Lacy to the lifestyle, their prior experiences with monogamy, and what they have learned from navigating this new world together. We discuss some of the best tips for exploring the swinger lifestyle, especially if you’re a beginner, before examining ,...

#56 Understanding & Healing Anxious Attachment with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Psychotherapist

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us through the different attachment styles and unpack how our early experiences shape adult connections. Tuning in, you’ll learn about the differences between anxious and avoidant attachment styles, why these types tend to be drawn to one another, and how you can support your partner if they are either of these...

#55 How To Build A Rock Solid Marriage - Nate & Kaley Klemp

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#54 Building Sexual Confidence and Enhancing Intimacy With Dr. Alison Ash

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

What does it really mean to be confident in the bedroom? On this episode, we are joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trained, Trauma-Informed Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of TurnON.love. Dr. Aly helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written books and articles on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer identities and experiences. Join us for an insightful conversation that touches on many different aspects of sexual relationships. From self-discovery and the co-creation process, to dealing with shame and distinguishing it from guilt, our conversation is a...

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Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship!

Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relationships. In this episode, you will hear all about how Venus was introduced to cuckolding, starting her cuckolding blog and podcast, the reality of cuckolding in a healthy relationship, how cucking can bring you closer to your partner, why it is a male-driven fantasy, and so much more!

Venus then shares some advice and steps for anyone wanting to try cuckolding before explaining the challenges of finding a bull (third partner) and safety recommendations. We even discuss cuckqueaning, hotwifing, fantasies that don’t involve sexual intercourse, whether or not size matters, sexual denial, and the ‘vanilla’ sex life of a cuckolding couple. Finally, Venus tells us why cuckolding is a bad idea if you think it will "fix" your relationship. This episode is filled with some amazing insights into the wonders of cuckolding so be sure to tune in now!

Key Points From This Episode:

• How Venus discovered cuckolding.

• Why she started a blog and podcast about cuckolding.

• What cuckolding is in reality for people in healthy relationships.

• Her first experience of ‘cucking’ her partner and how it deepened their connection.

• Why cuckolding is not cheating and why men may enjoy being cuckolded by their partner.

• What compersion is and how it ties into cuckolding.

• Venus shares advice for any couples wanting to try cuckolding and the steps to starting.

• The challenges of finding a third partner (a bull) for a cuckolding relationship.

• Venus gives us some safety recommendations when trying out cuckolding.

• Why creating too many rules that become hard to follow is problematic.

• Cuckolding versus cuckqueaning and what hotwifing is.

• How to fulfill your partner’s cuckolding fantasies without actually sleeping with another man.

• The impact of making a comment about size during a cuckolding experience.

• Venus tells us what her size preference is when it comes to sex.

• Sexual denial in cuckolding and how most cuckold couples have a robust sex life together.

• Why cuckolding is a recipe for disaster in a relationship already littered with problems.

Quotes:

“[Cuckolding] is not so much about just your partner watching you or listening [to] you sleeping with somebody else because that's what everybody thinks it is. It's actually really a kind of special loving relationship.” [0:05:20]

“[Cuckolding] is like art, you can sculpt it exactly the way that you want, and it does not need to look like somebody else's piece of art.” [0:11:54]

“The fun part about being the woman in a cuckolding situation is that you really do feel like you have the power and the ability to have this effect on someone that is profound.” [0:20:25]

Longer Quotes:

“If there are any new couples listening out there thinking of making this list of rules, it's okay to have them. But just keep in mind that it may not be realistic to have all of those rules. I think what's most important is that she's safe, and she's comfortable, and that she's enjoying herself. What that looks like should really be up to her.” [0:20:04]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Venus — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/

Venus Linktree — https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress

The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/the-podcast

Venus Connections — https://www.venusconnections.com/

Venus on X — https://twitter.com/CuckoldressV

Venus on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/venuscuckoldresspodcast

Dr. Justin Lehmiller — https://www.sexandpsychology.com/about-dr/

Tell Me What You Want — https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958/ref

‘Does Size Matter?’ Bad Girls Bible Survey — https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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