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#62 27 Hand Job Tips to Make Him Explode with Ashley Manta

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Release Date: 01/29/2025

#63 19 Orgasmic Blow Job Techniques to Make Your Man Explode with Samia Burton

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Oral sex is one of the most commonly performed sexual activities, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that it comes naturally to everyone! To talk about how to up your blow job game and teach you orgasmic techniques to make your man explode, we are joined by the incredible Samia Burton. Samia is a dynamic sexual educator with a proven track record of success backed up by tens of thousands of online followers. As the host of Not Just Another Sex Podcast and founder of Sexual Essentials, she takes an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands-on sex workshops, including...

#62 27 Hand Job Tips to Make Him Explode with Ashley Manta

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

#61 How To Control Your Gag Reflex, Swallowing & Deep Throating With Dr. Ianessa Humbert

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Struggling with your gag reflex during oral sex? You're not alone. Joining us today to explore the complexities of managing this reflex is Dr. Ianessa Humbert, an accomplished scientist, professor, and sought-after speaker specializing in swallowing and swallowing disorders. In this episode, Dr. Humbert breaks down the gag reflex and its triggers, before sharing her expert advice for . Join us as we unpack the various factors that can contribute to discomfort, from the sensory to the psychological, and explore practical methods for overcoming it, including calming self-talk and easily...

#60 Domination Tips from A Real-Life Dominatrix, Mistress Eva Oh

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Domination, bondage, discipline, and other sexual kinks are merely tools to aid in a story being told between sexual partners. In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, real-life dominatrix of 13 years, Mistress Eva Oh joins us to discuss all things domination and share her tips for women and couples interested in these pleasures. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how our guest became a dominatrix, how her career has helped her embrace her personality, what work is like day-to-day, and so much more! She shares (some unexpected) advice for women wanting to be more dominant sexually before...

#59 Ex-Porn Star Teaches How to Get & Stay Rock Hard PLUS The 10 Clit Commandments for Men with Erik Everhard

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Performance anxiety and the inability to make a woman reach orgasm are just some of the many issues so many men struggle with in the bedroom. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, seasoned porn star and sex coach, Erik Everhard joins us to share his 10 Clit Commandments and his . Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how Erik got into porn, how to manage performance anxiety, some strategies to get erect and stay erect (including Erik’s CRUSH Protocol), how sex affects masculinity, and so much more! Erik even breaks down the 10 Clit Commandments as he shares how to perform mind-blowing oral sex and get...

#58 31 Powerful Blow Job Tips & How To Ride Your Man Confidently With Tyomi Morgan

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

We are joined by Tyomi Morgan for a Masterclass on . Tyomi has been teaching her techniques for years and today she reveals more than 30 different methods you can use on your man tonight. We start the podcast talking about Tyomi’s background and talk a lot about . You’ll learn how to get into the right mindset so that you can enjoy giving oral sex and your partner can feel that enthusiasm. You’re also going to learn things you can do leading up to the blow job so that you’re teasing your man throughout the day, building tension, and having him crave you. Most importantly, Tyomi teaches...

#57 How To Start Swinging, How It Improves Your Relationship & Red Flags You Must Know With Dan & Lacy From The Swing Nation

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Have you ever been curious about what the might be like? Today we sit down with Dan and Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast to answer all your swinger-related questions. Tune in as we discuss everything, from figuring out whether the swinger lifestyle is right for you to the impact it could have on your relationship. Discover what drew Dan and Lacy to the lifestyle, their prior experiences with monogamy, and what they have learned from navigating this new world together. We discuss some of the best tips for exploring the swinger lifestyle, especially if you’re a beginner, before examining ,...

#56 Understanding & Healing Anxious Attachment with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Psychotherapist

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Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us through the different attachment styles and unpack how our early experiences shape adult connections. Tuning in, you’ll learn about the differences between anxious and avoidant attachment styles, why these types tend to be drawn to one another, and how you can support your partner if they are either of these...

#55 How To Build A Rock Solid Marriage - Nate & Kaley Klemp

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If you’ve been struggling to achieve a perfectly equitable marriage, you’re not alone. Research shows that even couples who prioritize equality often find themselves fighting about fairness in their relationship. That was the experience of today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp, two high-achieving individuals, who started their marriage believing in a model of fairness, only to discover that, in reality, that balance was virtually impossible to achieve. It was out of this frustration that they developed what they call The 80/80 Marriage, a model rooted in radical generosity and shared...

#54 Building Sexual Confidence and Enhancing Intimacy With Dr. Alison Ash

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

What does it really mean to be confident in the bedroom? On this episode, we are joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trained, Trauma-Informed Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of TurnON.love. Dr. Aly helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written books and articles on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer identities and experiences. Join us for an insightful conversation that touches on many different aspects of sexual relationships. From self-discovery and the co-creation process, to dealing with shame and distinguishing it from guilt, our conversation is a...

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Hand jobs are often overlooked as an appetizer to sexual experiences when the truth is, they can lead to an incredible explosion of pleasure for anyone with a penis! In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, sex expert Ashley Manta joins us to share her hand job tips. Tuning in, you’ll gain insight into Ashley’s extensive experience working as a sexual violence counselor, a phone sex operator, and even at a Planned Parenthood clinic. You’ll find out how she became passionate about helping people improve their sex lives and how she found an amazing connection between sex and cannabis before discussing how to unlock your dirty talk voice. Ashley goes on to share some incredible hand job tips; from posture to foreplay, using two hands, why lube is essential, and much more, her tips will blow your mind! Hear all about the importance of consent and feedback, learn some amazing techniques like the “pepper grinder” and the “waterfall,” and find out how you can “bring it home" to help your partner achieve an explosive orgasm. You won’t want to miss this episode, so be sure to tune in now!

Key Points From This Episode:

Ashely’s early career; from sexual violence counselor to Planned Parenthood.
What it was like to work as a phone sex operator.
How Ashley came to teach people about combining sex with cannabis.
Advice for unlocking your dirty talk voice and gaining confidence in it.
Why someone may opt to give their partner a hand job instead of a blow job.
What inspired Ashley to perfect her hand job technique (and how she did it).
How to prepare your hands for a hand job, plus some foreplay tips.
The kinds of lube Ashley reaches for when she gives a hand job.
Why a two-handed hand job is game-changing and what the “pepper grinder” is.
The importance of feedback during a hand job and some great spots to focus on.
Ashley describes her waterfall, bottle rocket, and lemon juicer techniques.
Being dynamic and fluid when focusing on your partner’s sexual pleasure.
Why Ashley doesn’t only focus on the penis during a hand job.
Consent for perineum stimulation and preparing for anal stimulation.
Some position and location suggestions to give your partner a mind-blowing hand job!
How eye contact can enhance a hand job and how to bring it home.

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Ashley Manta — https://www.ashleymanta.com/

Ashley Manta on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/ashleymanta/

Ashley Manta on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/cannasexual/

Ashley Manta on X — https://x.com/TheCannasexual

Elevated Intimacy — https://www.elevatedintimacy.com/

Sex: How Cannabis, CBD, and Other Plant Allies Can Improve Your Everyday Life — https://www.amazon.com/Merry-Janes-CBD-Solution-Cannabis/dp/1452177910

Betty Martin: The Wheel of Consent — https://bettymartin.org/videos/

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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