Episode 299: ‘Both My Vaginas’ (Sara Lederach)
Bawdy Storytelling
Is Sex one of your favorite ways to meet people? Sultry midwest feminist and sex-positive realtor Sara Lederach is a mother and wife who had squished herself small to serve others, but everything changes when she opens up her failing marriage, gets on Tinder, and meets the love of her life, Chuck. So when Sara reveals that she has fully functional diphallia, he rewards her bravery with the ultimate in fantasy fulfillment: a custom DP. Because isn't that what love is, really? Song: ‘Believe in Yourself’ (Shirley Gnome) About the Storyteller: Long time Bawdy listener,...
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Episode 298: ‘Gloryhole Virgin’ (Jeffrey Allen Hayes)
Bawdy Storytelling
In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and awkward world of Gloryhole etiquette with professional Game Master Jeffrey Allen Hayes. New to the world of anonymous sex, Jeffrey finds himself perplexed by an invite on the Scruff app. As he navigates the uncharted territory of Gloryholes, he wonders: Do you RSVP? Should you bring baked goods? And what exactly are the rules for touching? Join us as we explore the do’s and don’ts of this mysterious and unconventional experience as Jeffrey teaches us how to connect, despite barriers (Really, there’s a barrier there between them). ...
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Episode 297: ‘Strap-On Olympics’ (Tatyana Brown)
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My friend, has life gotten you so down that you’ve forgotten that you have Superpowers? Bay Area-based writer, performer, and educator Tatyana Brown is battling break-ups, job loss and the Sads; so should she really given up on sex at this young age? Hoping to jumpstart her libido, she heads to a play party and when a beautiful woman says “I could go for some strap-on sex,” Tatyana’s lightbulb moment happens. Before you can say Polyamorous Clown Car, she’s instigating a tournament where dozens of sexy badasses are competing in multiple heats for a naked audience. Sometimes you have...
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Episode 296: ‘A Stubborn of Queers’ (Kelli Dunham)
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When you’re incapable of an emotional connection, can hookups fill the gap? When Nonbinary Polyamorous Storyteller Nurse Comedian Ex-Nun Kelli Dunham loses multiple partners to cancer, she looks for community in a Brooklyn LGBT Grief Support Group, and ends up loafer-deep in anonymous sex among the scrubby pines of Fire Island. Plus, Dixie talks Sex Geek Summer Camp, Bawdy in Portland and her new How to Be Bawdy virtual workshop. #GriefSex “We must make love in between the bombs” - Paul Monette Song: ‘F*ck the Pain Away’ (Peaches) About the Storyteller: ...
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Episode 295: ‘Orgasm Leader Board’ (Kevin A. Patterson)
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Has a bad breakup ever made you think ‘the only way to get over someone is to get under someone else’? Author and Ethical NonMonogamist Kevin A Patterson is feeling a bit lost and confused, so he grabs his Bang bag and orchestrates his own gender non-specific traveling hand orgy. For one entire day, he schedules tag team handjob deliveries, because making people feel good, feels good. So much driving, so many g-spots and vaginas…and as the clock counts down, the competition is getting fierce. Who will rank #1 in orgasms on the dry erase board? Song: ‘Trophy’ (Charli...
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Episode 294: ‘First Nude, Last Nude’ (Dirty Lola)
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Have you ever cried because you hate the body you’re in? Netflix celebrity Dirty Lola gets onstage at Bawdy in Baltimore to tell the story of Sir, a kind Texan with a Southern Drawl who slides into her DMs to propose an arrangement. A fan of her Titty Tuesday posts, Sir suggests a year of virtual service, and quickly becomes Lola’s online Dom. Soon her submissive assignments begin to battle the negative self-talk imprinted on her by magazines, bullies, social media and family. What a difference a year - and being showered with love - can make to your self-esteem! And a recent PNW...
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Episode 293: ‘Man’s Country’ (Race Bannon)
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My God, that Leatherman is so hot - but why is he limping? In this vintage 70’s story, Leather & Kink Legend Race Bannon take you on a private tour of his first Gay Bathhouse, and this story is a doozy! Join us as we venture into Man’s Country, a private membership gay men’s club featuring 3 stories of wild adventure, including a theater, gym, restaurant, dance hall, sex shop, an orgy room, lockers, private suites for on-premises sex, and of course, its famous whirlpool and baths. In this story, 19 year old Race meets an muscular, smooth older man in leather vest and chaps and soon...
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Episode 292: ‘Dixie loves Wet Bread’
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Did you know that there’s an enclave of Bawdy SuperFans in Nashville, Tennessee? This episode is a Behind-The-Scenes story, the story behind the stories, if you will. For those who love the Dixie Ramble, get ready for a Puppet and Clown and Music Video filled birthday party (spoiler alert: wemay have broken the Birthday curse). Plus, the story of 2 talented Nashville musicians who were inspired to write sex-positive songs after listening to Every.Single.Episode of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast. Nashville was definitely a highlight of my recent Cross Country to East Coast Tour, and finally,...
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Episode 291: ‘Freaks Need Love, Too’ (Flora Goodthyme)
Bawdy Storytelling
Can you guess the best makeup remover? Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Flora Goodthyme grew up feeling the pressure of her family’s heteronormative expectations, and struggled with what commitment could look like (some family members were on their sixth marriage, and many cheated). So she moved her single gay ass to San Francisco, discovered the sex-positive, polyamorous world of open relationships and was hooking up happily - until she fell in love. Can Flora commit to just one man? Does a loving home and white picket fence have to preclude sex with multiple partners? I bet you know the...
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Episode 290: ‘Magic Trick’ (Scoby Goo)
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Is that a Magic Wand in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? Cuddle Party Facilitator and Intimacy Coach Scoby Goo feels like an outsider until she stumbles upon our little storytelling show, and its inclusive atmosphere changes everything for her. Obsessed, Scoby follows Bawdy from city to city, and becomes captivated with a Seattle magician and their tantalizing true tale of an orgy at a Magician’s Conference. And Before you can say ‘Fortune favors the Brave’, Scoby volunteers for their own kind of Hocus Pocus - and Abracadabra, Bawdy Gets You Laid! About our...
info_outlineIn this episode, we dive into the hilarious and awkward world of Gloryhole etiquette with professional Game Master Jeffrey Allen Hayes. New to the world of anonymous sex, Jeffrey finds himself perplexed by an invite on the Scruff app. As he navigates the uncharted territory of Gloryholes, he wonders: Do you RSVP? Should you bring baked goods? And what exactly are the rules for touching? Join us as we explore the do’s and don’ts of this mysterious and unconventional experience as Jeffrey teaches us how to connect, despite barriers (Really, there’s a barrier there between them).
Song: ‘Accept My Shaft’ (Ninja Sex Party)
About the Storyteller:
Jeffrey Allen Hayes has won Best of Bawdy multiple times. He holds an MA in Drama Therapy and works as a professional game master, facilitating games like Dungeons and Dragons with a focus on emotional growth and healing. Jeffrey is a beloved core member of the Bawdy family, and his stories are among our most requested.
Anonymous Sex l Gay l Gloryhole l Scruff l App l Vulcan Death Grip l Romantic l Hookup l Grindr l LGBT l Twink l Proximity l Invitation l Google l The Tap l The Knock l Condom l Brownies l RSVP l Texts l Dickslap l Ecstasy l Polite l Canadian l Castro l Thrust l Extra Credit l Curtain l Hole l Sensation l Power l Fear l Touch l Come Inside l Connection l Relationship l One Night Stand l Blank Sheet l Joy l
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Live Shows:
September 6th: CHICAGO, IL
Bawdy will on the Heath MainStage at the beautiful Den Theater on Friday, Sept 6th. Tickets at
https://bit.ly/BawdyChicago2024
September 10th: PHILADELPHIA, PA
I’m hosting First Person Arts’ SexFiles live event
7 PM EST at World Café Live
https://bit.ly/FPASexFilesDixie
October 18th: PORTLAND, OR
We’re returning to Curious Comedy Theater for both shows: our curated mainstage Bawdy Storytelling, followed by BawdySlam (where you can get onstage to win prizes).
Plus it’ll be Livestreamed!
https://bit.ly/BawdyPDXOct2024
November 1st: SEATTLE, WA
Bawdy comes to the gorgeous Century Ballroom
https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2024
WORKSHOPS:
’How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling - learn Dixie’s complete 5-Step System & Learn the Craft of Sexy, beautifully told Stories from Award-winning Story Coach and Professional Storyteller Dixie De La Tour.
Have you ever listened to a story at a live performance or on a podcast, and wished that you could share your own personal stories in such a well-crafted, relatable way? It's easy, if you have a System...and Dixie De La Tour has one. She’s taught thousands of new and experienced storytellers to tell their story at Bawdy Storytelling. And now YOU can learn her simple system, too.
Join Dixie for her all new workshop: 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling’. You'll engage in group & solo exercises in a sex-positive, community-based environment as you find & refine your own stories under Dixie's expert direction. Try out your own most intimate stories in a positive, supportive setting.
'How to Be Bawdy' includes special topics in sexuality, kink and gender-related storytelling, to help you articulate your stories clearly.
With live sessions, weekly office hours, best practices for NSFW stories, performance tips, storytelling-related neuroscience, a custom workbook, coaching from Dixie - and a final storytelling performance for you and your friends.
ONLINE: September 7th
I’ll be teaching my ‘How to Be Captivating’ 2 hour workshop for First Person Arts
More info at
https://bit.ly/HowToBeCaptivatingFPA
CHICAGO: September 8th
I’m offering a full day ‘How to Be Bawdy’ storytelling Intensive on Sunday, Sept 8th - In Chicago, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at
https://HowToBeBawdyChicago.eventbrite.com
ONLINE:
Sept 16 - Oct. 21st
A 6 Week Online Storytelling Workshop, where we’ll come together to work on our Bawdy stories - plus I’ve added optional Office Hours so that you can work with me and get custom coaching each week.
WHEN: Mondays, Sept 16th - October 21st
Time: 5:30 - 7:30 PM PDT (8:30 - 10:30 PM EDT)
PLUS
Wednesdays, 5:30-7:30 PST
With Optional weekly hours for custom coaching, Q&A, story advice & more)
WHERE: Online, so that you can attend from anywhere in the world
Register now at
https://HowToBeBawdyVirtual.eventbrite.com
PORTLAND: October 20th
I’m offering a full day ‘How to Be Bawdy’ storytelling Intensive on Sunday, October 20th - In Portland, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at
https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyPortlandOR
SEATTLE: November 3rd
I’m offering a full day ‘How to Be Bawdy’ storytelling Intensive on Sunday, November 3rd - In Seattle, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at
https://bit.ly/HTBBawdySeattle
Other Links:
The Dixie Ramble: My Substack ’The Dixie Ramble’ is starting next week. Substack is a great way to receive audio, video and written work from me. You can subscribe to The Dixie Ramble at
https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour
Ongoing Support for the Podcast:
Folks, I’m still considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. That means there’s just a couple of episode left. If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. This decision will affect both of us. And if you listen, please make a One-time or Ongoing Donation to keep the Podcast going.
Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.
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Private Coaching with Dixie:
Sexuality and Kink Coaching: I’m available for sexuality and kinky coaching, and story coaching. If you’ve always wished that you had someone to talk to openly, I’m here to support you (and give advice, if you want it - you decide what role I play. I’m a great listener, and a coach with many years of experience in this world.
Story Coaching: I’d love to work with you on your personal story, because Storytelling is essential to your work, dating and social life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, storytelling for job interviews, etc). I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, landing your dream job, and discovering what makes *you* tick - storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you.
Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, opening up your marriage, embracing a new identity or finding your way to a new, more authentic life, I can help.
Email me at [email protected]
and let’s make it happen.
Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it’s getting rave reviews!
You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There’s also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It’s sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it.
Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise
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Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Podcast Discussion group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/
Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!
Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith
Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney
Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour
& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!
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