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Don’t Outgrow Your Joy

Shark Theory

Release Date: 12/03/2025

Don’t Outgrow Your Joy show art Don’t Outgrow Your Joy

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Somewhere along the way, we stop letting ourselves be kids—yet the freedom we’re craving might be buried inside the parts of us we told ourselves to outgrow.


Show Notes — “Find Your Happy Meal”

In this episode, Baylor shares a hilarious yet profound moment sparked by McDonald’s new Grinch meal. One impulsive run to the drive-thru with his dog turned into an unexpected reminder of something adults forget far too often:

Joy matters. Impulse matters. Fun matters.

Baylor unpacks why so many people lose their spark as they get older, trading curiosity and excitement for seriousness and rigidity. He explains the neuroscience behind behavioral rigidity—the mental shift that happens as we age where the fear of losing what we have outweighs the excitement of chasing what we want.

This episode encourages you to reconnect with the childlike parts of yourself: the dreamer, the explorer, the person who believed anything was possible. Not because you should be childish, but because the energy, creativity, and imagination you abandoned might be exactly what you need to move forward again.

By revisiting the small things that used to bring joy—your metaphorical “happy meal”—you reconnect with a part of your identity that adulthood slowly pushed into hiding.

This is a reminder that growing up doesn’t mean growing dull.


What You’ll Learn

  • Why adults stop dreaming the way kids do

  • The psychology behind behavioral rigidity

  • How risk-of-loss thinking limits your potential

  • Why playful impulses are actually productive

  • How to rediscover creativity and curiosity

  • Why narrowing your life with “blinders” keeps you stuck

  • How revisiting old joys reignites motivation

  • A practical way to reconnect with what made you feel alive


Featured Quote

“You didn’t outgrow your joy — you just convinced yourself you had to.”