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Dating After Divorce with Rachael James

Release Date: 07/18/2024

Summer of Me

In this empowering episode of "The Summer of Me," host Kendra Henderson delves into the concept of "Main Character Energy." Discover how to reclaim your identity and prioritize yourself amidst the demands of life. Kendra shares personal insights and practical tools to help you step back into your own spotlight, ensuring you don't lose yourself in the roles of caretaker, spouse, or parent. Tune in to learn how to assert your needs, embrace your individuality, and live life as the main character of your own story. #MainCharacterEnergy #SelfCare #IdentityResuscitation

Episode 43: Unlearning Survival Mode

Summer of Me

In this episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra delves into the journey of unlearning survival mode and embracing peace and safety. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, Kendra explores the challenges of retraining the body and mind to recognize safety, offering practical tools and hope for those seeking to transition from a state of constant alertness to one of calm and security. Tune in to discover how to reclaim your peace and thrive beyond survival mode.

Episode 42: My Hannah Montana Life

Summer of Me

The episode delves into what the host, Kendra, terms "Hannah Montana Syndrome," exploring the duality of life as a single parent. Kendra shares personal experiences and insights into the challenges and emotional complexities of living two separate lives: one as a parent and the other as an individual with personal interests and relationships. She discusses the societal perceptions and misconceptions about single parenting, the feelings of loneliness and purposelessness when children are away, and the struggle to balance personal desires with parental responsibilities. The episode emphasizes...

Episode 41: The Blueprint

Summer of Me

In this episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra shares her transformative journey from feeling lost in her identity to embracing empowerment and self-discovery. After navigating a life-changing divorce, Kendra realized the importance of prioritizing herself and created a blueprint to help other women do the same. Join her as she discusses the challenges and triumphs of reclaiming one's identity, the power of self-reflection, and the importance of supporting each other through life's ups and downs. Whether you're navigating motherhood, relationships, or personal growth, this episode offers...

More isn't a Dirty Word

Summer of Me

In this episode of 'The Summer of Me', Kendra discusses the societal pressures and guilt women often feel about wanting more in life beyond motherhood. She emphasizes that wanting more—whether it be in terms of career, personal growth, or self-identity—is not only acceptable but necessary for a fulfilling life. Kendra shares her personal experiences and insights on balancing motherhood with ambition, the importance of setting boundaries, and the generational guilt that often holds women back. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to embrace their desires for more and to model this expansion...

Episode 40: Erica Wright - Relationship Coach

Summer of Me

In this episode, Kendra Henderson and Erica discuss the transformative journey of relationship coaching, focusing on parts work therapy, self-awareness, and emotional healing. They explore the importance of understanding one's relationship to self, the role of body movement in processing emotions, and practical tools for navigating breakups and new relationships. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-work in fostering healthy relationships and the dynamic nature of attachment styles. Connect with Erica @thewrighterica

Episode 39: My Morning Detachment List

Summer of Me

In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson explores the concept of detachment, emphasizing the importance of letting go of expectations and outcomes to achieve greater happiness. She shares personal insights and practical techniques for practicing detachment, including visualization exercises, creating an alter ego, and embodying the emotions of abundance. Kendra encourages listeners to trust the process and believe that what is meant for them will come to fruition. takeaways Detachment from outcomes leads to greater happiness. Our thoughts can be controlled like choosing...

All About Me (and you!)

Summer of Me

In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra Henderson dives deep into the journey of self-discovery, encouraging listeners to explore their identities, passions, and personal values. She shares her own experiences of losing herself in relationships and the importance of returning to one's true self. Through various exercises, Kendra guides listeners to identify what they love, what they hate, their strengths, and their attachment styles, ultimately emphasizing the significance of self-worth and understanding one's motives in life.

Episode 37: STOP MAKING EXCUSES

Summer of Me

Episode 36: Detaching from Deep Feelings

Summer of Me

In this episode, Kendra returns to her podcast, sharing her journey of personal growth, motherhood, and navigating the complexities of dating as a single parent. She reflects on her past experiences, the challenges of feeling deeply, and the importance of detachment in managing emotions. Kendra also discusses coping mechanisms that help her navigate overwhelming feelings and embraces a hopeful outlook for the future.

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Getting back into the dating scene after divorce is intimidating! That’s why Kendra and Rachael are here to help out! Both having been married young and divorced in their 30s, they give REAL insight into overcoming the challenges of starting over. The pair share their personal experiences of first dates, the importance of female friendships and self-confidence, and Tinx’s “Box Theory.” From crafting the perfect dating app profile to what to wear on your first night out, this episode will help you get the ball rolling in the right direction. Tune in to hear their stories and get a few tips on making your dating experiences fun and fulfilling after major life changes.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction

00:22 Meet Rachel James

00:41 Shared Experiences: Divorces and Friendships

01:19 Navigating the Dating Scene Post-Divorce

03:29 First Dates and Dating Apps

07:16 Dating Adventures and Mishaps

09:58 Creating the Perfect Dating Profile

13:19 Tips for Getting Started with Dating Apps

16:03 Embrace Your True Self

19:03 Dressing for Confidence

20:32 Understanding the Box Theory