Ep 143 - Is There Ever a Time When You Shouldn’t Use a Charism That You Have Been Given?
Charisms for Catholics with Jill Simons
Release Date: 09/18/2025
Charisms for Catholics with Jill Simons
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info_outlineIn this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons dives into a listener mailbag question: "Is there ever a time when I shouldn’t use a charism that I’ve been given?"
Jill unpacks the different types of charisms—immediate, resource-based, and long-term commitment gifts—and explores when and why it might be wise to hold back. She shares practical advice on discerning God’s timing, protecting yourself from burnout, and recognizing the difference between healthy boundaries and a scarcity mindset. Whether you’re a coach, spiritual director, or just curious about your spiritual gifts, this episode will help you integrate your charisms with balance and joy.
Plus, learn more about the Charism Coaching Certification Program for professionals looking to deepen their ministry!
00:29 – Enrollment opens for the Charism Coaching Certification Program, designed for professional coaches and spiritual directors, including new presenter training.
1:33 – Jill shares a listener’s mailbag question: Should there ever be times not to use a charism God has given you? She lays out the framework for the episode’s advice on this topic.
2:36 – Jill explains three main causes of burnout: self-reliance, doing things not assigned by God, and being overly attached to outcomes—and how this relates to whether to use your charism in a given situation.
5:55 – She breaks down how different charisms require different levels of discernment—immediate use (like healing or intercession), resource-based (like giving or pastoring), and long-term commitment (like leadership or missionary work).
9:49 – Jill emphasizes boundaries: God doesn’t want to build the church by burning out its members. It’s vital to respect your real needs and vocation, and it’s okay to discern that something isn’t for you.
Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at https://manypartsministries.com.