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353 | 8 Steps to Reclaim Your Dark Feminine Energy in Your 40s

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

Release Date: 08/09/2025

379 | The Real Reason You’re “Not Inspired” — And What Successful Women Do Anyway

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

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378 | The Female Brain, Empathy, and the Power of Curated Environments

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

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377 | The 5 Feminine Boundaries Every Woman Needs to Grow Her Business, Brand & Bank Account

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

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376 | From Hiding to Iconic: The Spiritual Power of Personal Style in Your Glow-Up Era

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

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375 | The Femininity Formula for Turning presence into income through vulnerability and visibility

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

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374 | How to Find Your Brand Archetype and Shift from Influencer to Icon

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

What if the reason your content doesn’t feel magnetic has nothing to do with strategy—and everything to do with embodiment? In this episode, I’m sharing a deeply intuitive conversation about creativity, identity, and what actually makes a personal brand powerful, recognizable, and sustainable. We explore the difference between being an influencer and becoming an embodied creator—someone whose presence feels like comfort, whose content feels grounding, and whose message lands because it’s lived, not performed. And that’s exactly what most creators are missing online. In this...

373 | Your Ego Is Killing Your Business (Here’s How to Fix It)

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

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372 | 10 Powerful Truths: Why Your 40s Are the Beginning of Your Online Creator Era

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

Why Women Are Meant to Create & Why This Is Our Time There comes a moment in a woman’s life — especially in midlife — when something inside her begins to stir. Not because her life is broken. Not because she’s behind. But because something within her wants to be born. In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful conversation inspired by The Art of Creating by Joseph Nguyen — and why creation is not a luxury for women, but a biological, emotional, and spiritual need. We talk about why so many women feel restless, anxious, or disconnected… and how that feeling is often the result of...

371 | 10 Life Cheat Codes I Learned This Year That I Wish Every Woman Knew

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

This year didn’t change me in loud or dramatic ways. It changed me quietly — through integration, embodiment, and lived wisdom. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 life cheat codes I learned this year that I truly wish every woman knew. These aren’t hacks or hustle strategies. They’re lessons that come from lived experience, nervous system regulation, feminine–masculine balance, and choosing alignment over pressure — especially in midlife. We talk about what it really means to: protect your peace detach without collapsing become a decisive woman start before you feel ready ...

370 | Journal Talk: 4 Lists You Need To Make So You Can Get Your Sh*t Together

Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

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If you’ve been feeling the pull to stop playing small, own your desires without apology, and step into your most magnetic, unapologetic self — this episode is your guide.

After my episode 6 Habits to Awaken Your Dark Feminine Energy became my most downloaded episode ever (with three times more downloads than any other), I knew we had to go deeper. And in our 40s, the dark feminine isn’t just an archetype — it’s an initiation.

In this episode, I’m sharing 7 powerful steps to help you reclaim your dark feminine energy as you transition into your most sovereign era. We’ll explore:

✨ What dark feminine energy really is — beyond the TikTok trend, and why it’s so potent in midlife
✨ How to acknowledge your shadows so they empower you instead of controlling you
✨ Why your desires are divine instructions (and how to stop apologizing for them)
✨ An innovative practice called Energy Draping to consciously choose the frequency you radiate each day
✨ How to use your Lilith placement in astrology as a map to your unique dark feminine blueprint
✨ The role of mystery, boundaries, and bold action in becoming magnetic
✨ My top book recommendations to deepen your embodiment of this energy

Whether you’re brand new to the concept of the dark feminine or you’ve been walking this path for years, these steps will help you fully embody your power — not in a way that’s aggressive or performative, but in a way that’s deeply rooted, magnetic, and unapologetically yours.

Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

📚 Books to Explore

Women Who Run With the Wolves — Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Pussy: A Reclamation — Regena Thomashauer
Set Boundaries, Find Peace — Nedra Glover Tawwab
The Art of Seduction — Robert Greene
Sacred Woman — Queen Afua

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