289: Blind Blaming: The Hidden Saboteur In Negotiations
Release Date: 12/15/2025
308: Negotiation Within: Creating Conditions For Your Preferred Outcomes
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
Before we ever negotiate with others, we are constantly negotiating within ourselves—our fears, desires, beliefs, and sense of worth. In this episode, Cindy Watson sits down with Roxanne Howe-Murphy to explore the powerful concept of Negotiation Within: Creating Conditions For Your Preferred Outcomes. As a best-selling author and pioneering thought leader, Roxanne has spent more than 25 years guiding individuals beyond surface-level living and into alignment with their true nature. Together, they dive into how the most impactful negotiations don’t begin externally—but within....
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307: Negotiating Justice When The System Is Stacked
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
The concept of "blind justice" frequently collides with the harsh reality of a system built for efficiency rather than equity behind the heavy oak doors of the courtroom. The scales feel bolted to the ground when the weight of the state is weighed against a single person. In this episode, your host Cindy Watson sits down with a legal powerhouse who has seen the courtroom from both sides of the aisle. Attorney James Porfido isn’t just a defense lawyer; he is a former prosecutor with over 30 years of experience and a prestigious certification from the Supreme Court of the State of New...
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306: Negotiating The Loss Of A Pet
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
Society often tells us it’s 'just a pet,' but for those who have felt that quiet void in a hallway or an empty spot on the rug, the grief is as real as any other. How do we negotiate the transition from presence to memory? How do we find the grace to appreciate the little things when a big part of our world is gone? Today, we’re exploring the heart of pet loss and the path toward healing with someone who has turned her own journey into a roadmap for others. In this episode, Cindy Watson will be interviewing Jean Alfieri, Cindy and Jean will be talking about Negotiating The Loss Of A...
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305: Negotiating Without Words: Lessons In Intuition, Silence, And Neurodiverse Communication
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
In a world that never stops talking, we often forget that the most profound negotiations happen in the silence. We’re taught that power lies in the perfect argument, the quickest wit, or the loudest voice. But what if our greatest strength is actually found in what isn’t being said? Today, we’re stepping into a different kind of conversation—one that transcends traditional speech to explore the deep, intuitive language of neurodiversity. It’s a lesson in presence, a masterclass in empathy, and a reminder that when we truly learn to listen with more than just our ears, we...
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304: Youth Truths And Feminine Power
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
We often talk about the "generational gap" as if it’s a vast, empty canyon, but what if it’s actually filled with truths we’ve simply forgotten how to hear? In a world that demands resilience but rarely teaches it, how do we move from merely surviving to truly thriving? In this episode, your host, Cindy Watson sits down with Carlamay Sheremata, they will be talking about Youth Truths And Feminine Power. Carlamay is a cancer survivor, an author, a single parent, and a fierce advocate for PTSD awareness. From the halls of our schools to the depths of the feminine spirit, it’s time to...
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303: The Shortcut To Magnificence
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
We often hear that the road to success is long, winding, and filled with inevitable detours. We’re told that greatness is reserved for the lucky few or those born with a head start. But what if there was a way to bypass the struggle and move directly into your power? In this episode, your host, Cindy Watson is joined by Chris Livezey. Chris Livezey is a living testament to the power of personal transformation. Despite facing significant challenges during his adolescence, Chris defied the odds and emerged as a remarkable success story. His life took a pivotal turn at the age of 16 when...
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302: Creativity, Heart, And Irreverence In Everyday Negotiations
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
We often think of negotiation as a series of rigid maneuvers performed in glass-walled boardrooms. We imagine sharp suits, legal jargon, and the clinical pursuit of "more." But what happens when you take the negotiation out of the boardroom and into the boiler room? In this interview, your host, Cindy Watson, is joined by Larry Weingarten, who views the world through a uniquely practical yet profound lens. Larry is the author of The Philosopher's Wrench; he got his general contractor's license in 1982, and Larry has been a member of the National Association of Corrosion Engineers (NACE)...
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301: Leading With Silence: How Deep Listening Unlocks Feminine Leadership
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
In a world that often rewards the loudest voice in the room, we’re exploring how the art of deep listening can actually be the ultimate "power move" in unlocking feminine leadership. Today, Cindy Watson sits down with double board-certified Naturopathic Doctor and Endocrinologist, Dr. Aumatma Simmons. With 15 years of experience and two best-selling books on the complexities of fertility. Cindy and Dr. Aumatma, together will be exploring the importance of deep listening, Leading With Silence: How Deep Listening Unlocks Feminine Leadership. In this episode, we explore: ...
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300: Negotiating Your Way Out Of Emotional Abuse
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
Emotional abuse is a negotiation where the deck is stacked and the rules are rewritten by the abuser. It isn't fought with shouted demands, but in the quiet spaces of the mind where self-doubt is traded for survival. To leave is to conduct the most high-stakes negotiation of your life—one where the currency is your own identity. In this episode, Cindy Watson sits down with Laurie Jacobson, author of Unexpected Awakening. Laurie shares her journey from the confines of a toxic relationship to the clarity of a Buddhist monastery, offering a roadmap for anyone ready to negotiate their...
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299: Breaking Barriers And Building Board Power
ART of Feminine NEGOTIATION
The boardroom has long been the ultimate fortress of corporate power—a room where the few decide the future for the many. But for women and underrepresented leaders, the door to that room has often been locked from the inside. In this episode, Cindy Watson and Keith Dorsey dive into the tactical blueprint for breaking those barriers, securing your seat, and—most importantly—transforming the boardroom once you arrive. Keith Dorsey, a powerhouse researcher, author, and advisor who has dedicated his career to optimizing governance through diversity. As the founder of The Boardroom...
info_outlineWe’ve all experienced moments in negotiation where something feels “off”—where tensions rise, misunderstandings grow, or progress stalls for reasons we can’t quite name. Too often, we chalk it up to the other person’s behavior, circumstances beyond our control, or the simple belief that “it shouldn’t be this hard.” But what if the real barrier isn’t external at all? What if the hidden force sabotaging our success is something we’re blind to within ourselves?
In today’s episode, Cindy Watson sits down with Kevin St. Clergy for a powerful and eye-opening conversation on Blind Blaming: The Hidden Saboteur in Negotiations. Kevin is a renowned breakthrough specialist, author, podcast host, keynote speaker, and the creator of the Blind Blaming Framework—a transformative approach that reveals how unseen narratives and unconscious patterns can derail even our best negotiation efforts. Together, Cindy and Kevin explore how recognizing and dismantling blind blaming can shift your outcomes, elevate your relationships, and empower you to negotiate with greater clarity and intention.
In this episode, you will discover:
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What is blind blaming and how do we come to identify it as a recurring pattern?
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What is supportive sabotage?
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How people misdiagnosed the issue of blind blaming
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Examples of blind blaming
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Growth vs fix mindset
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What is the RCD method (reflect, connect, decide)
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The ACT Formula
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And many more!
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