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How to go from Burn Out to Boss Bitch without feeling overwhelmed

Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Release Date: 06/18/2025

Consistency Without Burnout - Missing Link For Midlife Women show art Consistency Without Burnout - Missing Link For Midlife Women

Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Staying consistent with your health and fitness in your 40s and 50s isn’t about “discipline” - it’s about the plan. If you’ve been stuck in the all-or-nothing grind, burning out, or wondering why what worked in your 20s no longer works, this episode of Boss Bitch Radio is for you. I’m Diane Flores, retired IFBB pro, trainer of 20+ years, and now your midlife hype girl. I’ll walk you through: Why burnout is so common for women in midlife The problem with training like a man in a woman’s body Why the “go hard or go home” mindset backfires after 40 Small wins that...

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Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

If you’re over 40 and wondering why your workouts don’t feel like they’re working anymore, you’re not alone. I’ve been coaching women for over 20 years, and I’m living this midlife shift myself at 47. In this episode, I’m breaking down why the routines that worked in your 20s and 30s don’t cut it anymore and what you should focus on instead! We’ll talk about: Why bootcamps, spin, and endless cardio backfire in midlife The real science of training and nutrition for women over 40 How hormones, stress, and recovery play a bigger role than you think Smart strategies to...

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Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Today I’m sitting down with Vanessa Zamora, and let me just say… her story is wild! Three years ago, Vanessa walked into our studio carrying 70 extra pounds, feeling shy, quiet, and honestly just trying to blend into the background. Fast forward to now, she’s stepped on stage three times as a bikini competitor and has completely transformed her body and her confidence! In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, we chat about: ✨ What pushed her to finally start her journey ✨ How working with her coach (my daughter, Coach Ish) kept her going ✨ Breaking free from people-pleasing and...

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Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

This episode of Boss Bitch Radio is one of the most powerful conversations I’ve ever had. Nicole Keefe shares her raw and inspiring story of going from years of abuse, self-doubt, and pain - to rebuilding her life with strength, confidence, and true self-love. We talk about: 👉 Overcoming domestic violence 👉 Healing from trauma and toxic relationships 👉 Finding strength in fitness and self-growth 👉 What it really takes to rebuild your confidence and life Nicole’s story will move you, inspire you, and remind you that no matter how dark things get - you can rise again! If this...

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"Why isn't my body changing?"

Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Are you putting in the work at the gym but still not seeing the shape or muscle tone you’ve been chasing? You’re not alone. In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, we’re breaking down the three biggest reasons women over 40 struggle to “look like they lift” even when they’re training hard. From understanding how your hormones impact results to the way you approach strength training (and why intensity matters more than you think), I’m giving you the real talk you need to stop spinning your wheels. Whether your glutes won’t grow, your arms don’t have that muscle pop, or you just...

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Is Your Coach Hurting Your Health? show art Is Your Coach Hurting Your Health?

Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Too many coaches hand out the same tired 1200-calorie meal plan and call it a day. In this episode I get real about why that approach doesn’t work, what ethical coaching should actually look like, and why things like sleep, stress, and your real life matter just as much as your macros. If you’ve ever felt let down by a “Walmart coach,” this one’s for you! #fitnesscoach #weightlossjourney #onlinecoaching   ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:  00:00 Kicking things off with why cookie cutter meal plans don’t work 00:22 Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio 01:28 Let’s talk about the ethics of...

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Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Ever felt like there’s more to life than clocking in and out of a job you don’t love? My friend Angela Castro sure did. She walked away from her corporate career with no plan other than knowing she wanted something different. That leap led her to owning a thriving consignment store, building community, and now coaching women in business. In this episode, we talk about self-limiting beliefs, the way women talk to themselves in the dressing room, and why taking risks (even when it’s scary) can open up a whole new chapter of life. Grab your coffee, take a walk, and join us for this...

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Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Extreme dieting and contest prep might look glamorous on stage, but the reality is often very different. In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m breaking down the truth about restrictive diets, binge eating, and why so many women struggle with food during prep and after the show. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the all-or-nothing fitness cycle, battled food guilt, or wondered if sustainable fat loss is even possible, this conversation is for you. I’ll share what I’ve seen coaching thousands of women, the red flags to look out for, and how to build a healthier relationship with food...

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Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Jack’s in the hot seat with me today for a fun and totally unscripted couple’s Q&A! We’re going through 11 relationship questions (plus one surprise bonus question he didn’t see coming) to see where the conversation takes us. From hilarious moments to deeper, more vulnerable answers, we cover everything from the little habits we’ve picked up since dating to the surprising things we’ve learned about each other. If you’re looking for fun relationship questions, conversation starters for couples, or just want to hear a real, unfiltered boyfriend-girlfriend chat, this episode is...

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Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores

Ever wonder what happens after extreme diets, bodybuilding shows, or intense fitness challenges? I’m sharing my personal post-show struggles, from body image and food obsession to social anxiety, and how to recover without shame. This episode is perfect for women over 40, athletes, or anyone navigating life after big fitness goals. Learn practical tips to balance your body, mind, and health after extreme training or dieting! #WomenOver40Fitness #WomenEmpowerment #BodybuildingRecovery   ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:  00:00 Intro - Keeping Your Routine Real After 40 00:28 Hey! Welcome Back to...

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Ever feel like you have to figure it all out on your own? This short but powerful episode is your reminder that healing, growth, and feeling good in your body and life happens with community—not in isolation! I’m sharing some juicy highlights from our Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass with my girl, almost - Dr. Crystal Barrera.

We dig into what women are really chasing (hint: it’s not just abs), why stress is the sneakiest saboteur, and how your next level might just start with one brave ask for support. Hit play and let’s talk about the stuff that actually matters!

#burnoutrecovery #womenempowerment #selfcare

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

00:00 Why having a strong community of women matters

00:28 Quick intro – this one’s a shorty!

00:38 A few gems from the Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass

01:46 Why your health and fitness still matter

02:35 It’s more than just the gym – mental and emotional health count too

03:14 Some real client wins that’ll seriously inspire you

05:33 Stress, self-care, and the stuff we actually need to talk about

08:15 A few personal reflections I’ve picked up along the way

16:25 Self-worth, self-esteem, and why they’re everything

22:43 Wrapping it up – and a little something to think about

 

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Connect with Diane:

Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/ 

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro 

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Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide 

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