Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores
Welcome to the Glow-Up Era of Boss Bitch Radio — where health meets hotness, mindset meets muscle, and becoming iconic is more than just a vibe — it’s a full-body, full-soul reclamation! Hosted by IFBB Pro, fitness veteran of nearly 20 years, and unapologetic truth-teller Diane Flores, this show dives deep into the journey of what it really takes to step into your power. From losing 100 pounds and stepping on stage 16 times to building multiple fitness businesses and navigating motherhood, relationships, and reinvention — Diane has lived it, coached it, and now she’s here to talk about it. You’ll hear solo episodes, guest convos, and unfiltered stories that might make you laugh, cry, and definitely feel seen — with the occasional espresso martini, In-N-Out Burger detour, and a perfectly chewy chocolate chip cookie along the way. No sugar-coating. No pretending. Just real talk to help you stop settling and start becoming your most iconic self. So if you're ready to glow the hell up and take action in your one wild life, hit subscribe, grab your headphones, and let’s go — baddies welcome!
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How To Respect Your Body After A Competition
02/25/2026
How To Respect Your Body After A Competition
If you’ve competed, dieted hard, or built your identity around being lean and shredded - this episode is for you. Post-show body acceptance is not about “letting yourself go.” And it’s definitely not about giving up on being hot, athletic, or strong. It’s about stopping the punishment cycle and rebuilding trust with yourself. In this episode, I’m breaking down what body acceptance actually means (and what it doesn’t), why your brain fights softness after a show or extreme diet, and the post-show spiral that no one really talks about. I share my experience from nearly 20 bodybuilding shows and how chasing the shredded version of myself impacted my mental health, food relationship, and identity. If you’re tired of chasing the last 10 pounds, if you don’t trust yourself around food, or if you feel like your value is tied to how lean you are, this conversation will hit home. You can rebuild food trust. You can respect your body. And you can stop living like you’re only worthy when you’re shredded. 👉 Click here to get your FREE Post-Show Report Card and take a quick 5-minute check-in to see what “prep brain” is still running the show: Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #PostShow #BodyAcceptance #FoodTrust Key Takeaways: 00:05 Quick rundown of how coaching works 01:54 What we’re getting into today 03:08 My real post-show spiral story 05:34 Body respect vs. body love (they’re not the same) 11:36 Why your brain freaks out about softness 15:15 How to stop punishing yourself 15:29 Maybe it’s time to break up with the scale 18:16 Wear the damn clothes that fit 21:24 Better things to track than your weight 23:44 Let’s recap this whole thing 27:34 If you’re ready, here’s how we work together Links Mentioned: Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Reverse Dieting Post Show
02/18/2026
Reverse Dieting Post Show
Research shows over 50% of competitive bodybuilders report body dissatisfaction - and it’s strongly linked to disordered eating symptoms. So yeah… we’re starting there. In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m breaking down the real truth about reverse dieting - what it actually is, when it works, when it absolutely does NOT work, and the mistakes I see coaches making over and over again. I’m a retired competitor, an IFBB Pro, and I’ve been in this world since 2010. I’ve hired coaches. I’ve coached competitors. I’ve watched women completely lose themselves post-show. And I’ve also BEEN that girl trying to figure out who the hell I was without a competition on the calendar. Because listen… bodybuilding is not real life. And you can still feel hot, strong, and confident without being stage lean. 👉 Click here to get your FREE Post-Show Report Card and take a quick 5-minute check-in to see what “prep brain” is still running the show: Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #ReverseDie #ReverseDieting #ReverseDietAfterShow Key Takeaways: 02:05 My story: competitor life → post-show coach. 04:00 Diet brain, food noise, and losing your identity after prep. 05:02 Grab the Post-Show Report Card (quick self-check). 07:04 Reverse Diet 101 - what it is and why we use it. 07:34 Reverse dieting into a show (yes, really). 12:25 Post-show weight gain, water, glycogen, and the fear spiral. 14:58 The biggest post-show mistakes. 16:51 Meal plans vs macros - what actually works. 20:05 Why competitors “fall off” after the stage. 23:33 Where coaches miss the mark. 25:51 Diuretics + dangerous post-show habits. 26:19 What real metabolic recovery should focus on. 29:13 Regulating appetite + getting strong again. 32:01 How long should you reverse? 34:36 Identity shifts + post-show body dysmorphia. 39:37 Reverse dieting myths (slow increases vs maintenance). 43:35 A practical post-show reset. 46:24 Mindset + social media cleanup. 50:58 Final thoughts + Post-Show Report Card reminder. Links Mentioned: Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Tracking Macros Forever Isn't Healthy (And Here’s What to Do Instead)
02/16/2026
Tracking Macros Forever Isn't Healthy (And Here’s What to Do Instead)
If you’ve been tracking macros for years and still don’t trust yourself around food… this episode is for you! In this Boss Bitch Radio episode, I’m talking to the competitors, the ex-competitors, the MyFitnessPal queens, the women who live and die by their macro numbers. If you feel like the only way you can stay “on track” is by weighing every gram and logging every bite, we need to have a real conversation. I’m not here to bash macro tracking. It can be a powerful tool. I’ve used it for over a decade. I competed almost 20 times as an IFBB Pro. I know what it takes to get shredded. But I also know what it costs. If you’re a competitor, former competitor, chronic dieter, or woman trying to heal your relationship with food after years of macro tracking, this episode will hit. 👉 Join the Post-Show Reset Event on Feb 24 to learn how to reset your mindset, rebuild consistency, and move forward without extremes. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #macrotracking #countingmacros #bodybuildingwomen Key Takeaways: 01:09 Hey, I’m Diane + Why I Help Women Get Out of Diet Mode 02:50 What We’re Getting Into: When Tracking Helps… and When It Starts Messing With You 04:38 Quick Plug: The Post-Show Report Card (You’ll Want This) 06:09 Why I Walked Away From Competing: Prep Brain, Food Noise, and Rebound Fear 12:44 When Tracking Gets Obsessive: Weighing Everything + Social Life Tetris 15:33 First Show Energy vs. The Long Game Mind Games 18:16 Low Fat, Low Brain Power: When Dieting Starts Wrecking You 21:40 You’re Not Clueless - You Already Know How to Eat 23:48 You Don’t Need Another Meal Plan (You Need Trust) 24:54 Signs Macro Tracking Is Low-Key Hurting Your Life 26:22 The Off-Ramp: Choosing Freedom Over Control (Start With One Week) 29:00 Step 1: Just Track Protein - Give Yourself a Range 30:04 Step 2: One Meal a Day, No Tracking - Be a Normal Human 33:30 Step 3: Keep Your Meals Predictable So You’re Not Ravished 35:36 Step 4: Build Around Protein and Let the Rest Chill 38:59 Recap + Grab the Post-Show Report Card + Pep Talk 40:03 Why Fat Isn’t the Enemy: The Peanut Butter Wake-Up Call Links Mentioned: Click here to get your FREE Post-Show Report Card and take a quick 5-minute check-in to see what “prep brain” is still running the show ➡️ Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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How to Get Your Sex Life Back (Even If You’re Tired and Busy)
02/13/2026
How to Get Your Sex Life Back (Even If You’re Tired and Busy)
Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio. This episode is a little different… and a little spicy! We’re talking about intimacy, communication, body image, and why sometimes you just don’t feel “in the mood” - even when you love your partner. This conversation is pulled straight from one of my live coaching calls inside Healthy & Hot, and I brought in therapist Leanne Wagner to go deep with us. We cover everything from Valentine’s Day ideas to improving sexual intimacy in long-term relationships, and yes… we talk about foreplay, scheduling sex, and why grabbing your butt is not always the move. If you’ve ever struggled with body confidence and intimacy, or felt frustrated that your partner doesn’t understand what actually turns you on, this episode will hit home. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #IntimacyInMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #ImproveYourRelationship Key Takeaways: 00:52 It’s a Valentine’s Week Special 💘 01:57 Meet Our Guest, Leanne Wagner 02:26 Let’s Get Into Sexual Intimacy 03:22 Fun Valentine’s Ideas + Making It a Tradition 10:35 The Communication Conversation (The One We Avoid) 17:56 Scheduling Sex + Managing Stress 23:55 Keeping Intimacy Alive in Long-Term Relationships 27:45 Deepening Connection Beyond the Basics 28:06 Trying New Things in the Bedroom 30:20 Taking a Trip to the Adult Store Together 👀 34:49 How to Talk About What You Actually Like 40:51 How Often Is “Normal” When It Comes to Sex? 44:58 Staying Connected When You’re Busy & Exhausted 45:58 Simple Rituals That Keep the Spark Alive 50:15 Final Thoughts + What’s Coming Next Links Mentioned: 👉 Join the Post-Show Reset Event on Feb 24 to learn how to reset your mindset, rebuild consistency, and move forward without extremes. Click here to get your FREE Post-Show Report Card and take a quick 5-minute check-in to see what “prep brain” is still running the show ➡️ Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Motivation Is a Myth: What Gets You to the Gym When You’re Not in Prep
02/09/2026
Motivation Is a Myth: What Gets You to the Gym When You’re Not in Prep
Feeling unmotivated after dieting, competing, or finishing a big fitness goal? You’re not lazy - this is a common experience after extreme dieting and competition prep. In this episode, we talk about why motivation drops after a diet, how identity loss affects consistency, and what actually helps you stay consistent with workouts when discipline and willpower are gone. This is an honest conversation about life after dieting, stepping away from diet culture, and rebuilding a sustainable relationship with fitness that isn’t driven by aesthetics! 👉 Join the Post-Show Reset Event on Feb 24 to learn how to reset your mindset, rebuild consistency, and move forward without extremes. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #PostShowMindset #WeightLossRecovery #SustainableEating Key Takeaways: 02:10 – Why I’m recording this in my Jeep (and very unmotivated) 05:00 – No motivation, no hype… just real talk 07:40 – Why motivation dies after dieting or competition prep 11:20 – Life after bodybuilding & losing your identity 15:10 – When the “big goal” disappears, everything feels harder 18:45 – Why aesthetic goals stop working long term 22:30 – The mental cost of strict dieting & extremes 26:50 – Comparing yourself to your old body (and why it messes with you) 31:10 – Busy life, zero motivation, and still showing up 34:40 – What actually keeps me going now (hint: not abs) 38:20 – Mental health, depression & why movement still matters 42:50 – Longevity, aging, and breaking family health patterns 47:30 – The story of my sister & finding a deeper “why” 52:10 – Letting go of diet culture without letting yourself go 56:00 – You don’t need 6 hardcore days to be consistent 59:30 – Balance, mental freedom & still being hot 1:03:20 – For anyone struggling with food noise or body image 1:06:40 – Post-Show Report Card (free resource) 1:09:20 – Post-Show Reset Workshop (Feb 24) 1:12:00 – Final thoughts + love you, b*tch Links Mentioned: Click here to get your FREE Post-Show Report Card and take a quick 5-minute check-in to see what “prep brain” is still running the show ➡️ Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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How to Eat Normally After a Bodybuilding Show (Without Rebound Chaos)
02/02/2026
How to Eat Normally After a Bodybuilding Show (Without Rebound Chaos)
If you’re struggling with food noise, rebound eating, or fear of “normal eating” after a bodybuilding show (or years of extreme dieting), this episode is your reset. We’ll cover how to eat normally after prep, rebuild food trust, reduce binge urges, and transition away from tracking macros without losing control. Welcome to Boss Bitch Radio. I’m Diane Flores, and I help retired bodybuilders, former competitors, and extreme dieters stop living like they’re still in diet season - so they can stay athletic, hot, and healthy without food fear, food noise, or massive rebound chaos. In this episode, we’re diving into how to eat normally after a bodybuilding show, why post-show nutrition feels so damn hard, and what actually causes rebound eating after show (hint: it’s not a lack of willpower). If you’ve ever gained weight rapidly after a show, struggled with binge eating after prep, or felt stuck tracking every bite because you’re terrified to stop, this conversation will hit home. Even if you’ve never stepped on stage, if you’ve dieted like you were prepping for one, this episode will resonate. This is about repairing your relationship with food, recovering from extreme dieting, and learning how to eat like a normal, confident human again - not someone still trapped in prep brain. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #HowToEatAfterPrep #PostShowNutrition #HowToEatAfterBodybuildingShow Key Takeaways: 00:00 Why post-show life feels harder than prep 00:46 Welcome to Boss Bitch Radio 01:34 The reality of post-show weight gain (and why it happens) 03:44 Food noise, hunger cues, and why your brain feels loud AF 05:58 Unlearning diet culture after bodybuilding 11:05 Quick update: newsletter + what’s coming up 12:23 Why fats and fiber actually matter post-show 15:20 My go-to strategies for a post-show reset 21:00 Wrapping up + how to work together Links Mentioned: Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Post-Show Blues in Bodybuilding: Symptoms, Causes, and What to Do
01/28/2026
Post-Show Blues in Bodybuilding: Symptoms, Causes, and What to Do
Post-show depression is real. After a bodybuilding show, many women feel empty, sad, anxious, unmotivated, and disconnected - aka the post-show crash. In this episode we talk about post-show blues, identity loss, rebound eating, and how to recover mentally and emotionally after prep. I share my own experience stepping off stage after winning my pro card and breaking down backstage. Relief, gratitude, grief, fear, and anxiety all at once. If you’ve ever felt lost in life after competing, you are not crazy and you are definitely not alone. We get into why post competition depression happens, how extreme dieting recovery plays a role, what peak week mentality does to your brain, and why food noise after dieting can feel so loud. We also talk about reverse diet aftermath, hormones after prep, and why your body softening doesn’t mean you “failed.” If you’ve been dealing with post show blues, anxiety after prep, rebound eating after show, or that quiet identity crisis after competing, this one’s for you! Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → Key Takeaways: 01:08 What post-show blues actually feel like 01:49 My own post-show emotions and identity stuff 03:28 The not-so-pretty reality after the stage lights turn off 08:00 Why having a post-show plan matters 08:48 Quick note on the newsletter and what’s coming up 10:05 Learning how to rebuild life after bodybuilding 17:16 Tools that help you transition in a healthier way 19:22 Wrapping it up and how coaching can help Links Mentioned: Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Life After a Bodybuilding Show: Why Your Brain Still Thinks You’re in Prep
01/26/2026
Life After a Bodybuilding Show: Why Your Brain Still Thinks You’re in Prep
Coming out of a bodybuilding show can seriously mess with your head - and no one really prepares you for that part. If you’ve ever dealt with post show blues, rebound eating, loud food noise, or felt like your brain was still stuck in peak week even though the show is over, this episode is for you! I’m Diane - retired IFBB pro and longtime competitor coach and in this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m breaking down what actually happens after a bodybuilding prep. Not just physically, but mentally and emotionally. Most post-show plans focus on reverse macros, training, and cardio. What they miss is the identity crash, the control spiral, and the mental health fallout that so many women experience once the structure of prep disappears. If this hits home and you’re ready to unwind prep brain and calm the food noise, you’ll find a link in the show notes to book a clarity call and see if one-on-one coaching makes sense for you. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → Key Takeaways: 00:32 Who I Am and Why I Care About This 01:52 The Bodybuilding Identity Crash 04:16 The Mental Health Piece Coaches Ignore 07:12 Prep Brain and Why It Doesn’t Shut Off 10:01 Rethinking Training After the Show 11:23 Rebuilding Trust With Food 15:46 Why Meal Rhythm Matters Post Show 18:20 Hunger Hormones, Food Noise, and Emotional Eating 20:16 Final Thoughts on Post-Show Recovery Links Mentioned: Let’s cut through the noise - book your Reset Clarity Call here: Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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The Retreat That Helped Me Stop Carrying My Past Like a Weight
01/21/2026
The Retreat That Helped Me Stop Carrying My Past Like a Weight
Ever wondered what actually happens at a healing retreat? In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m sharing my real, unfiltered experience attending a small, intimate women’s healing retreat - the kind that isn’t rushed, isn’t performative, and goes way deeper than journaling and yoga poses. I talk about why I chose a retreat focused on healing the heart, what it felt like being in such a small group (only five women), and why that intimacy completely changed the experience for me. We get into nervous system regulation, breathwork, silence, somatic healing, and what happens when you finally give yourself the space to slow down and actually feel. And yes - this experience directly inspired me to create my own small, intimate retreat for women, so if you’ve been DMing me asking to be on the list, make sure you’re on the newsletter 👀 Spots will be limited! Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #HealingRetreat #WomensRetreat #HealingJourney Key Takeaways: 00:27 Welcome to Boss Bitch Radio 01:51 Why I went on this retreat + what I was looking for 02:39 When the healing really started 11:38 Day two hit different (deep emotions + breakthroughs) 22:24 Inner child work, future self, and big realizations 28:09 Letting go + what finally shifted 36:32 Final thoughts, lessons, and takeaways Links Mentioned: Listen to this episode where I sit down with Lana & Mark Royce of BlissTopia Retreats - Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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What No One Tells You About Real Retreats
01/19/2026
What No One Tells You About Real Retreats
What if your next reset wasn’t another plan… another strategy… or another thing to fix yourself? What if it was a place where you could finally stop performing and actually do the deep work? In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m sitting down with Lana and Mark Royce, the husband-and-wife duo behind BlissTopia Retreats in Arizona and this conversation is special. I recently attended their Heal Your Heart retreat, and honestly… it rocked me in the best way! This isn’t one of those fluffy retreats where you relax for a weekend and come home unchanged. BlissTopia is intimate, grounded, and designed for real healing - nervous system regulation, breathwork, embodiment, and genuine human connection. Lana brings decades of experience as a psychotherapist, yoga teacher, former doula, and healer trained in hypnotherapy, reiki, meditation, and sound healing. Mark brings a grounded, no-BS approach through breathwork, movement, and embodiment that gets you out of your head and back into your body! Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #HealingRetreat #NervousSystemHealing #Breathwork Key Takeaways: 00:00 Kicking things off + setting the vibe 01:28 Meet Lana & Mark - the humans behind BlissTopia 03:08 What actually makes BlissTopia retreats different 04:12 Going deep: the Heal Your Heart retreat 04:50 Why the New Year’s retreat hits differently 08:35 Upcoming retreats + who they’re really for 13:51 Why small, intimate retreats matter so much 15:31 The “rules” that create safety and real healing 22:19 How retreats shift based on who shows up 29:31 Movement, sound, and getting out of your head 31:07 What breathwork unlocks (emotionally + physically) 31:52 Why retreats can be truly life-changing 34:22 Journaling as part of the healing process 35:21 Integration, rest, and actually taking care of yourself 37:02 A deeper dive into breathwork 46:13 Mark’s men’s retreat: A Warrior & a Gentleman 55:32 Final thoughts, reflections, and encouragement Links Mentioned: Feeling the pull for something deeper? Learn more + view upcoming BlissTopia Retreats: Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Stuck Isn’t Real: How to Move Through Fear, Guilt & ‘Imposter Syndrome’
01/14/2026
Stuck Isn’t Real: How to Move Through Fear, Guilt & ‘Imposter Syndrome’
This episode of Boss Bitch Radio is one I will never forget. I’m joined by Tracy Litt, and what unfolds here is not just an interview - it’s a real, embodied conversation about becoming who you already know you’re meant to be I first met Tracy at Kathy Heller’s retreat, and one spontaneous moment of coaching in a small hotel suite completely rocked my world. In this episode, I share that experience and bring you inside the exact moment where everything shifted for me - the kind of moment that changes how you see yourself forever! You’ll hear powerful reflections on identity shifts, visibility, vulnerability, and why showing up imperfectly is not a weakness but the work. If you’ve been living in the messy middle, questioning yourself, or feeling the pull toward something bigger but safer to stay small, this episode will meet you right there. This is an episode to listen to slowly. Take it on a walk. Let it land. And remember - you’re not behind, you’re not broken, and you’re not stuck. You’re becoming ✨ Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #PersonalGrowth #WomenEmpowerment #SelfWorth Key Takeaways: 00:35 Meet today’s guest and why she’s incredible! 01:32 What happened at the retreat (and why it changed everything) 03:39 Vulnerability, perfection, and letting yourself be seen 05:41 Taking risks and stepping into your power 10:33 Our personal wake-up moments 17:56 Guilt, growth, and choosing change 25:45 Identity shifts and emotional habits we don’t realize we have 30:12 Finding more flow, ease, and joy 30:23 Come join my newsletter 31:41 “What would she do?” - leading from your next self 32:32 Where guilt really comes from and how to move through it 33:51 Why your nervous system matters more than mindset 35:26 Forgiveness, healing, and releasing the past 38:49 Why being “stuck” isn’t actually real 41:53 Simple ways to move forward when you feel stuck 48:29 Let’s talk imposter syndrome (and why it’s a lie) 51:13 Making success simpler instead of harder! 54:21 Why expression matters more than perfection 54:54 Final thoughts, takeaways, and resources Links Mentioned: Follow Tracy on Instagram → Explore The School of Becoming if you’re ready to shift your identity and stop playing small → Feel “ready” but still freezing? The Choice Method shows you how to move forward without overthinking or self-sabotage → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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How to Build Inner Strength
01/12/2026
How to Build Inner Strength
What if the thing holding you back isn’t what you need to do… but what you need to stop tolerating? In this raw, fiery, recorded-from-my-car episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m talking about inner strength, self-betrayal, and why so many women stay stuck in lives, relationships, and identities that no longer fit. I break down powerful research showing that 82% of women wish they had more inner strength, and why that gap exists - not because women are weak, but because we’re conditioned to ignore our truth! This episode is deeply connected to my Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass, where we walk through the exact blueprint I’ve used and now teach - to help women stop bullshitting themselves and start choosing their lives on purpose. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #EmpoweredWome #MindsetShift #SelfDevelopment Key Takeaways: 01:14 – The stat that hit me hard: most women want more inner strength. 02:18 – A little of my backstory and how I got here. 03:52 – Why I created the Main Character Energy Masterclass and why journaling matters. 06:05 – Let’s talk about staying in relationships that are already done. 08:00 – Quick plug to get on my email list for retreats + updates. 09:05 – Leaving my marriage with three kids and what it taught me. 10:35 – I’m opening a few one-on-one coaching spots. 12:20 – Final thoughts and a reminder to join the masterclass. Links Mentioned: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Main Character Energy (Part 2): Stop Abandoning Yourself & Become the Woman Who Shows Up
01/07/2026
Main Character Energy (Part 2): Stop Abandoning Yourself & Become the Woman Who Shows Up
Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio 💋 This episode is Part 2 of the Main Character Energy series, and honestly… it gets juicier! If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “I can’t stay consistent,” “I do great until I get stressed,” or “every new year I fall back into the same patterns,” this episode is absolutely for you. In this conversation, I’m breaking down what really happens when you abandon yourself and why piling on new habits, new plans, and new goals never works if your identity hasn’t shifted first. We’re talking about main character energy as a mindset, not an aesthetic, why doing less is often the real key to lasting change, and how a lack of boundaries keeps you stuck in the same cycles year after year. I also unpack the real reason New Year’s resolutions fail and what it actually takes to become the woman who shows up for herself! You don’t need another plan. You need to become the woman who executes. Let’s get into it. 🔥 Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #MainCharacterEnergy #ConsistencyMindset #SelfAbandonment Key Takeaways: 00:18 Stepping Into Main Character Energy 00:52 Why Identity Is Everything (And How It Shapes Your Life) 03:55 My Bodybuilding Era + What It Taught Me 04:59 Life After Bodybuilding (And Feeling Lost AF) 13:54 The Mr. Miyagi Method (Wax On, Wax Off) 18:18 How to Create Real Change by Shifting Your Identity 22:41 Becoming the Woman You’re Meant to Be Links Mentioned: Be sure to listen to Part 1 of this series before or after this episode: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Main Character Energy: The Identity Shift That Makes Weight Loss Effortless
01/05/2026
Main Character Energy: The Identity Shift That Makes Weight Loss Effortless
What if weight loss was never the real goal? In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m breaking down the real reason so many women struggle to stay consistent and it has nothing to do with willpower, motivation, or the “perfect plan.” Today, we’re diving deep into what it actually means to become the main character of your life - the woman who no longer chases weight loss, but naturally makes decisions from her highest good. If you’re trying to live a Level 10 life but feel like you’re operating from a Level 2 identity… this episode is your wake-up call. This is your software upgrade for 2026. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #MainCharacterEnergy #IdentityShift #WeightLossMindset Key Takeaways: 00:18 Stepping Into Main Character Energy 00:52 Why Identity Is Everything (And How It Shapes Your Life) 03:55 My Bodybuilding Era + What It Taught Me 04:59 Life After Bodybuilding (And Feeling Lost AF) 13:54 The Mr. Miyagi Method (Wax On, Wax Off) 18:18 How to Create Real Change by Shifting Your Identity 22:41 Becoming the Woman You’re Meant to Be Links Mentioned: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Done With Diet Culture: The Identity Shift That Ends “Start Over Monday”
12/31/2025
Done With Diet Culture: The Identity Shift That Ends “Start Over Monday”
If your January plan sounds like punishment, restriction, or “I just need to get back on track,” this episode is for you. In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, we’re talking about an identity hangover - the space where your old diet culture identity doesn’t fit anymore, but your brain keeps trying to live there anyway! This conversation is for the woman who misses feeling confident in her body but refuses to go back to obsession to get it. We’re unpacking why living like your life is one long diet cut stops working, why rest can feel like failure, and why chasing another plan, program, or motivation spike isn’t the glow-up you think it is. If you’re heading into 2026 ready to stop shrinking, stop white-knuckling results, and start feeling powerful again, press play. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #MainCharacterEnergy #IdentityShift #DietCultureRecovery Key Takeaways: 00:52 Life after bodybuilding and extreme dieting 01:26 Identity shifts and real transformation 03:43 Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass details 07:12 How to tell if you’re in an identity hangover 10:57 Letting go of old identities that no longer fit 14:28 When obsession starts costing you your peace 17:33 Stepping into who you actually are 17:47 How to stay connected (newsletter info) 24:46 Choosing confidence and happiness now 25:52 Identity comes first, habits come second 27:09 Why unsustainable plans are a red flag 32:43 Practical ways to activate main character energy 36:16 Setting boundaries and learning to ask for help 40:35 Join the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass Links Mentioned: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Catch up on the latest episode in our Main Character Energy series, “How to Stop Playing Small and Finally Change,” here - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Holiday Boundaries: Stop Performing This Christmas
12/24/2025
Holiday Boundaries: Stop Performing This Christmas
Christmas Eve isn’t always cozy lights and perfect vibes. Sometimes it’s pressure, family triggers, body comments, food guilt, grief, loneliness, and feeling like you have to perform and call it love. In this Christmas Eve truth talk, I’m speaking directly to you. No fluff. No toxic positivity. Just real talk about boundaries, protecting your energy, and reminding you that you do not have to earn rest or shrink yourself to keep other people comfortable! If you’re feeling overwhelmed, triggered, lonely, numb, or just “off” this holiday season, you’re not broken. You’re human. And you’re not alone. This episode is permission to rest, speak up, leave early, eat the cookie, take the walk, and choose yourself without guilt. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #ChristmasStress #HolidayBoundaries #ProtectYourPeace Key Takeaways: 02:15 Boundaries, self care, and protecting your energy 04:12 Newsletter, retreats, and what’s coming next 05:42 A simple Christmas Eve boundary plan 08:19 Breath work for anxiety and overwhelm 09:08 Final reminders before you head back into the chaos Links Mentioned: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Stop Trying to Control Everything (and Start Living)
12/22/2025
Stop Trying to Control Everything (and Start Living)
If you’re listening to this during the Christmas holiday week and feeling a little on edge, this episode is for you! In today’s episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m sharing a real coaching call conversation about control - the sneaky kind that looks like being responsible on the outside but feels like anxiety on the inside. Yep, that kind. We talk about why so many women struggle to let go, how trying to control people and situations steals our peace, damages relationships, and keeps us from being present in our own lives. I share personal stories (including my days as a reformed control freak), signs you might be holding onto control without realizing it, and simple mindset shifts to help you release what’s not yours to carry! This is a gentle reminder that you don’t have to manage everything, fix everyone, or hold it all together to be worthy or safe. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #mentalstrength #overthinking #anxietyrelief #mindsetforwomen Key Takeaways: 00:24 Holiday Stress + Why We Try to Control Everything 00:55 A Real Coaching Call Conversation 01:59 Quick Reminder: Main Character Energy Masterclass 02:57 Mentally Strong People Don’t Obsess Over Control 04:46 Real-Life Control Freak Stories (Yep, Me Too) 06:51 Doing a Control Check-In (Be Honest) 09:45 Why Asking for Help Is Actually Powerful 13:25 How to “Bless and Release” in Real Life 17:41 Locus of Control Explained in Plain English 25:44 How to Influence Without Controlling 27:36 Acceptance, Letting Go, and Finding Peace 30:52 Choosing Calm Over Chaos 34:47 Final Thoughts + Masterclass Invite Links Mentioned: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine.
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Main Character Energy: How to Stop Playing Small and Finally Change
12/17/2025
Main Character Energy: How to Stop Playing Small and Finally Change
If you’ve ever felt like you “fall off” your health, fitness, or self-care goals… this episode is for you. Today’s conversation is pulled straight from a Healthy & Hot membership call, where we go way deeper than workouts or meal plans. We’re talking about the real reason consistency feels so hard and why it’s not because you’re lazy, broken, or lacking discipline. This episode is all about main character energy, identity shifts, and what actually needs to happen before you set goals for 2026. Because if you don’t change the woman making the decisions, you’ll just repeat the same cycle with a shiny new plan. If you’re tired of collecting programs that never stick and you’re ready to stop sleepwalking into another year, this is your wake-up call! Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #PersonalGrowthForWomen #MindsetShift #ConsistencyMindset Key Takeaways: 01:08 Life updates + holiday vibes 02:41 Main character energy going into 2026 04:44 Why mindset matters more than workouts 05:06 Main Character Energy Masterclass details 06:35 A reminder that life is precious 08:16 Fear, change, and doing it anyway 09:34 How change actually happens (and taking action) 13:16 Get on the newsletter list 14:38 Imposter syndrome + facing your fears 22:48 Big takeaways + final thoughts Links Mentioned: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine.
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Bored of Macros? Let's talk Main Character Energy (Part 1)
12/15/2025
Bored of Macros? Let's talk Main Character Energy (Part 1)
Unpopular truth: the reason most women struggle with health, fitness, confidence, and follow-through isn’t because they don’t know what to eat or how to work out - it’s because they’re still making decisions from an old identity. In the first episode of my Main Character Energy series, I’m breaking down why identity shifting is the real missing piece behind lasting change (and why motivation alone never works). I’m sharing my personal evolution, why autopilot habits keep you stuck, and yes… why we’re starting this series with makeup (stick with me). We’ll talk surprising facts about appearance, how small rituals change how you show up, my own main character makeup routine (even if you’re not a makeup girly), and how this deeper identity work actually makes results stick - not just in January, but for good. If you’re done with your old bullshit and ready to step into your main character era, you’re in the right place! Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #IdentityShift #SelfConcept #PersonalGrowth Key Takeaways: 00:41 What Boss Bitch Radio is all about 01:31 Quick rundown of the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass 02:57 Why identity shifts matter (and why we’re talking about makeup) 13:24 Let’s talk appearance and why it actually matters 18:18 My personal story + identity shifts over the years 24:41 Simple main character makeup rituals to try 32:24 Your growth assignment + wrapping things up Links Mentioned: Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine.
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Period Underwear That Actually Works for Gym Girls, Moms, and Women Over 40
12/10/2025
Period Underwear That Actually Works for Gym Girls, Moms, and Women Over 40
If you’ve ever been curious about period underwear but also kinda scared to try it… this is your episode. Today I’m chatting with Arielle Loupos, founder of FlowerGirl, and her story, her mission, and her product completely blew me away. Arielle creates non-toxic, beautifully designed period underwear including the viral period thong and let me tell you… I was skeptical. Then I tried it, fell in love, messaged her immediately, and said: “You need to come on the podcast.” In this episode, we get super real. We talk about why traditional period care (tampons, pads, cups, discs) can cause problems, why so many women deal with cramps and PMS that aren’t actually “normal,” and how materials, toxins, and synthetic fibers impact our hormones more than we think. Arielle shares her journey from e-commerce to product creation, what it really takes to make functional, sexy, non-toxic underwear, and how she’s disrupting a category that desperately needs it. We also dig into the misconceptions around period underwear - the “diaper feeling” myth, the fear of leaks, the cleaning process, and why so many women are shocked once they finally try a pair. And of course, I share my own story of trying the FlowerGirl thong on my heaviest day… and becoming immediately obsessed! You’ve been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #WomensHealth #WomensWellness #MenstrualHealth Key Takeaways: 00:35 – Meet Arielle + the magic behind FlowerGirl period underwear! 01:03 – My first reaction to period underwear (and why I'm now obsessed) 03:55 – Arielle’s journey + how she created the product 08:24 – The biggest myths about period underwear (and the real benefits) 19:08 – What’s in the FlowerGirl lineup + what’s coming next 24:00 – Final thoughts + where you can check out FlowerGirl 28:58 – Wrapping it up + your little call to action Links Mentioned: Try the period underwear I’m obsessed with: Don’t forget code BOSS15 for 15% off! Follow FlowerGirl on Instagram: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Pelvic Health Over 40: What Women NEED to Know with Dr. Sarah Tally
12/08/2025
Pelvic Health Over 40: What Women NEED to Know with Dr. Sarah Tally
If you’ve ever wondered whether your pelvic floor issues are “normal”… this episode is for you. Today I’m sitting down with pelvic health expert Dr. Sarah Tally to talk about the things women whisper about, ignore, or think they just have to “deal with” as they get older - leaking, urgency, pain with sex, constipation, postpartum changes, perimenopause shifts, AND the stuff nobody warned us about. Sarah shares how she found her way into pelvic floor physical therapy, why women over 40 dismiss symptoms that actually aren’t normal, and the surprising signs your pelvic floor needs support (even if you’ve never had kids). We dig into bladder habits, urgency triggers, constipation, painful intercourse, vaginal dryness, hormone changes, and why so many women are stuck thinking a “tiny bladder” is just their personality trait. You’ll also learn simple strategies to calm urgency, retrain your bladder, and understand what’s really going on with your pelvic floor - all in a down-to-earth, totally shame-free way! If you’ve ever peed a little when you laugh, felt like you need the bathroom every 10 minutes, or wondered whether dryness or pain is just part of getting older… this is your episode. Pull up a seat, get comfy, and let’s talk about the stuff women deserve to understand. You’ve been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #pelvichealth #pelvicfloor #womenshealth Key Takeaways: 00:00 – Kicking things off + a quick welcome 00:57 – Introducing Dr. Sarah Tilly 01:37 – How Dr. Tilly ended up in pelvic floor therapy 04:51 – The most common pelvic floor issues women deal with 06:31 – What this looks like for women over 40 08:34 – Why you feel like you always have to pee 12:13 – Simple tricks to calm bladder urgency 14:21 – Wrapping it up + final thoughts Links Mentioned: Stay connected with Dr. Sarah Tilly! Want more pelvic floor tips, education, and real-talk support? → Follow her on Instagram: @flooredpelvichealth → Visit her website: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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7 Weight-Loss Exercises That Have Nothing To Do With the Gym
12/03/2025
7 Weight-Loss Exercises That Have Nothing To Do With the Gym
In today’s episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m sharing seven exercises that have absolutely nothing to do with the gym, your macros, or the perfect meal plan but have everything to do with why you aren’t losing weight. After almost twenty years coaching women, I’ve seen over and over that the real struggle isn’t usually about calories or workouts. It’s the emotional load, the stress, the old stories we’re still believing, and the way we keep putting everyone else first. This episode kicks off a deeper four-phase process I’m calling an iconic reclamation: regulate, reconnect, redefine, and reclaim. I’m getting honest about the unconventional work that actually moves the needle, why therapy can be the most powerful weight-loss tool you’re not using, and why doing less might be the thing that finally gets your body and mind back on track. If you’re a high-performing woman who keeps starting and stopping programs and wondering why nothing sticks, this conversation is the missing piece! You’ve been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #weightlossforwomen #weightlossjourney #mindset Key Takeaways: 00:00 Let’s talk about recycled thoughts and why your brain needs a dump 00:46 Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio 00:50 The seven exercises that help you lose weight without touching the gym 04:14 Exercise 1: Go to therapy 09:42 Exercise 2: Do less 12:45 Exercise 3: Have the hard conversation you’ve been avoiding 17:23 Exercise 4: Journal to get your mind straight 19:19 Exercise 5: Ask for what you actually need 23:18 Exercise 6: Move your body for joy 25:40 Exercise 7: Get honest about your coping mechanisms 28:22 Wrap up: Lean into the inner work and the journey ahead Links Mentioned: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Catch our convo with Almost-Dr. Crystal where we dive into mental health and how it impacts your fitness journey → Feel like you're outgrowing the old version of yourself? Don’t miss “The OLD Me Had To Go” episode → Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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How Women Over 40 Can Build Muscle and Lose Fat at the Same Time
12/01/2025
How Women Over 40 Can Build Muscle and Lose Fat at the Same Time
If you’re a woman over 40 trying to build muscle, burn fat, and not lose your mind in the process, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down the biggest takeaways from Dr. Gabrielle Lyon’s interview with Thomas DeLauer - specifically her approach to body recomposition and what it really takes to grow muscle and lose fat at the same time. As an IFBB bodybuilding pro who’s coached women for almost 20 years, I’m giving you my honest thoughts, what actually works in the real world, and where most women go wrong once hormones, aging, and metabolism shifts start kicking in! We’re talking protein targets that actually make sense, how much you really need, what supplements are worth your time, and why creatine isn’t scary. I’m also getting into resistance training basics, how many sets you actually need per muscle group, and what a realistic weekly training plan looks like if you’re trying to change your body in your 40s, 50s, and beyond. If you want to build muscle, burn fat, stay healthy, and look hot doing it without drowning in misinformation, you’re in the right place! You’ve been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #buildmuscle #burnfat #bodyrecomposition Key Takeaways: 00:18 What I took from Dr. Gabrielle Lyon’s interview 01:49 Why building muscle over 40 feels harder 03:10 Why protein matters so much 06:30 Supplements that actually help 10:25 How to train to build real muscle 19:37 How sleep affects fat loss and muscle growth 24:07 Wrapping it all up Links Mentioned: Watch the full episode of “Do This to Lose Fat & Build Muscle at the Same Time | Dr. Gabrielle Lyon’s Fat Loss Keys” here: Download the Protein Snack Cheat Sheet: Get the FREE Full Body Training Program: Check out my Sleep Resource: Shawn Stevenson’s Sleep Smarter book (mentioned in the episode): Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Boundaries Around the Holidays
11/26/2025
Boundaries Around the Holidays
If you’re listening in real time, Thanksgiving is right around the corner - so today we're getting into something deeper than holiday chaos and fitness goals. Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio. I’m Diane Flores, and I’m gearing up to spend the week with all three of my grown kiddos in Vegas. Big adult humans… still my babies. You know how it goes! In this episode, I’m giving you a sneak peek inside one of our live coaching calls from The Healthy & Hot Method, my weekly membership where we build inner strength and outer strength because you truly can’t have one without the other. We talk boundaries, identity shifts, willpower myths, emotional eating, and the real work that actually keeps results from slipping through your fingers every time life gets messy. Today we dive into the patterns that keep you stuck and how to finally step into the version of yourself you say you want to be. The woman with standards. The woman with boundaries. The woman who doesn’t outsource her power to a new diet every time life gets chaotic. The main character energy you’ve buried? It’s time to pull her out. Don’t miss the Black Friday 50% off deal - use code FRIDAY and join the Healthy & Hot Method today! Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #MindsetShift #FitnessJourney #WomensWellness Key Takeaways: 00:42 - My holiday plans and some family catch-up 01:29 - A little sneak peek from a Healthy & Hot Method coaching call 02:52 - Heads up: a new masterclass is coming 03:29 - Let’s talk empowerment, identity, and becoming “her” 06:47 - What went down in this week’s coaching call 14:51 - Guest moment: Leanne shares about not giving your power away 25:10 - On self-forgiveness and moving forward 30:05 - Wrapping it all up + final thoughts Links Mentioned: Don’t miss the Black Friday 50% off deal - use code FRIDAY and join the Healthy & Hot Method today! Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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From Teen Mom to Empowering Women Over 40 (Interviewed by Gemma James)
11/24/2025
From Teen Mom to Empowering Women Over 40 (Interviewed by Gemma James)
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I sat down with Gemma James, the host of Muse Yourself Podcast for a deep and honest conversation about my journey, my reinventions, and the many chapters that led me to where I am today. Gemma interviews me about how my life shifted from becoming a teen mom at 16, to raising two children on my own, to navigating toxic workplaces, financial struggle, and the overwhelming pressure of simply trying to survive! I share how fitness became my lifeline during some of my darkest moments, helping me manage depression and slowly rebuild my confidence. We talk about how a random idea turned into a thriving pole dancing business, how that evolved into a women’s strength studio, and how following tiny nudges without knowing the full plan turned into a career of helping women over 40 feel strong, capable, and connected to their bodies! This episode dives into midlife health, reinvention, the power of movement, and the surprising path that brought me from government aid to coaching women worldwide. If you’re craving a fresh start or love hearing raw, real stories of growth and grit, this conversation with Gemma is one you’ll want to hear. Don’t miss the Black Friday 50% off deal - use code FRIDAY and join the Healthy & Hot Method today! Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #WomenOver40 #WomenEmpowerment #FitnessMotivation Key Takeaways: 01:11 Sharing some Thanksgiving thoughts and what I’m grateful for 02:39 Sitting down with Gemma James to talk life, growth, and reinvention 03:13 How I went from being a teen mom to stepping into fitness 04:04 The story of building my pole dancing studio and business 25:05 Shifting from pole to strength training and opening my own PT studio 29:58 My mental health journey and how fitness played a huge role 36:55 Why movement matters and how I love helping women feel strong 39:16 Where it all started - diving into integrative nutrition 40:04 Creating The Goddess Body Project 40:13 Getting into coaching… and eventually competing 41:00 What so many women have in common when they come to me for coaching 42:59 How fitness can truly transform your whole life 44:26 A little newsletter + behind-the-scenes talk 45:45 Finding the balance between chasing goals and self-love 49:19 The real challenges that come with bodybuilding 55:10 Breaking down the Healthy & Hot Method 57:36 Strength training tips for women over 40 01:01:16 What “iconic” really means and how we evolve 01:03:24 Dealing with self-doubt and making big life moves 01:07:16 My advice for anyone who’s feeling stuck 01:11:34 A look at the future - speaking, coaching, and what’s next 01:14:20 Wrapping it up + where to find me Links Mentioned: Want to learn more about Gemma James? Check her out here: Catch more inspiring conversations on her podcast: Follow Gemma on Instagram: Don’t miss the Black Friday 50% off deal - use code FRIDAY and join the Healthy & Hot Method today! Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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The Audacious Woman’s Guide to Building a Brand, a Life, and Boundaries That Stick With Gilly from Gilly's Organics
11/19/2025
The Audacious Woman’s Guide to Building a Brand, a Life, and Boundaries That Stick With Gilly from Gilly's Organics
In this episode, I’m sitting down with Gilly, the founder of Gilly’s Organics and the host of Everyday Rock Stars. Her story is wild - in the best way! Gilly went from freelancing for huge brands like Estée Lauder, Clinique, Jo Malone, and Aveda… to suddenly losing the client that made up most of her work. Instead of going back to corporate, she followed this little spark she always had for mixing things, creating products, and helping people feel good in their skin. We talk about how Gilly’s Organics actually started (spoiler: a DIY scrub and a friend who believed in her), how she got her products into Whole Foods for eight straight years, what pushed her to expand from one product to a full nine-product line, how losing her mom changed everything, how her love for storytelling led to the Everyday Rock Stars podcast, the confidence, grit, and mindset pieces entrepreneurs never talk about, what she does when self-doubt creeps in, and the movement and routines that keep her grounded. This one is full of honesty, hustle, heart, and that “just start” energy so many of us need. If you’re building something of your own or thinking about it - this episode is such a reminder that passion + consistency can take you further than you think! You’ve been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #WomenEntrepreneurs #FemaleFounders #MindsetForSuccess Key Takeaways: 00:38 Meet today’s guest, Gilly from Gilly's Organics 01:13 How Gilly went from freelancing to running her own brand 02:57 The story behind how Gilly’s Organics actually started 07:27 Growing the line from one product to a full collection 14:02 Why movement and self-care matter so much 21:45 How to avoid burnout and take care of yourself 26:20 Lifting women up through real self-care 27:02 Breaking old patterns and doing things differently 27:49 How our self-care impacts our kids 29:23 Standing by your values and handling the online world 30:55 Clean beauty, healthy habits, and what that really means 31:47 How her podcast started and how she’s growing it 34:18 What’s next for Gilly’s Organics 42:00 Wrapping it up and final thoughts Links Mentioned: Go follow Gilly on Instagram: Catch more of her on TikTok: Watch and listen to her podcast, Everyday Rock Stars, right here: Explore her full line of clean, feel-good products on the Gilly’s Organics site: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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How I Quit Self-Pity and Get Things Things Done
11/17/2025
How I Quit Self-Pity and Get Things Things Done
This week on Boss Bitch Radio, we’re going deep into mental strength, holiday triggers, and why your mindset is the real foundation of your health and fitness journey. If the holidays bring up anxiety, old patterns, or family dynamics you’d rather avoid, you’re not alone. Inside my coaching program, The Healthy and Hot Method, we’ve been breaking down the book 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do by Amy Morin, and today I’m giving you a real behind-the-scenes look at our call. We unpacked why so many women fall into the “poor me” loop, how those thoughts quietly sabotage your progress, and how to finally shift your mental patterns so you can move forward instead of staying stuck. I’m sharing vulnerable parts of my own story, the “tapes” I played for years during a painful chapter of my life, and the exact journaling prompts and mindset tools I teach my clients to help them break out of old beliefs. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unworthy, or like you can’t catch a break, this episode will land for you! You’ve been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #SelfAwarenessJourney Key Takeaways: 00:16 Talking about the holiday season and all the feelings that come with it 01:05 What we’re reading inside the Healthy and Hot Method book club 01:41 Why mental strength matters just as much as your workouts and nutrition 03:58 A real story from my life about staying stuck in self-pity 04:31 Journaling prompts and mindset reframes we used on the call 05:07 What “healthy and hot” really means and why it might look different for you 10:11 Simple tools you can use to build mental resilience 17:55 Some powerful moments from the community and our group convo 26:36 Wrapping things up and how to plug into the Healthy and Hot Method Links Mentioned: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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When Burnout Becomes Your Breakthrough
11/12/2025
When Burnout Becomes Your Breakthrough
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I sit down with Angie Bailey, a former nurse who completely reinvented her life through creativity and calligraphy. After 25 years in nursing and battling Hashimoto’s and burnout, Angie rediscovered her passion for art and founded Calming Calligraphy turning her healing hobby into a thriving business! We talk about how slowing down, letting yourself play, and reconnecting with your creativity can become a powerful tool for mindfulness and stress relief. Angie’s story is proof that burnout can be the redirection you didn’t know you needed. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overworked, or like you’ve lost your spark, this episode will remind you that your creativity isn’t gone - it’s just waiting for you to remember it! Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #CreativeHealing #MindfulnessPractice #SelfDiscoveryJourney Key Takeaways: 01:22 Meet today’s guest, Angie Bailey 01:59 How she rediscovered calligraphy 03:29 From a 25-year nursing career to full-time entrepreneur 07:13 The story behind Calming Calligraphy 08:10 Pushing past self-doubt and fear 10:27 How Angie grew her business 14:06 The power of intention and unexpected opportunities 18:16 What’s next - certifications, growth, and more 20:19 Letting go of limiting beliefs 21:09 Getting started with calligraphy 21:44 Simple calligraphy techniques anyone can try 23:52 Fun and practical ways to use calligraphy 28:05 Angie’s daily creative practice 30:46 How to bring creativity into your everyday life 34:17 Where to find more of Angie’s calligraphy content 35:31 Final thoughts and key takeaways Links Mentioned: Go give Angie a follow on Instagram Don’t forget to visit her website to see more of her calming calligraphy magic: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine.
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Why Mental Strength Matters More Than Macros or Muscles
11/10/2025
Why Mental Strength Matters More Than Macros or Muscles
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, we’re talking about why your mindset - not just your meal plan or workout - determines how far you go. I’m bringing you inside a real call from my Healthy and Hot Method membership, where we’re diving into 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do by Amy Morin. We unpack how your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors shape everything from your confidence to your consistency, and why mental strength is the foundation for setting boundaries, staying focused, and showing up for yourself especially when life gets messy. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in self-doubt, people-pleasing, or “starting over” mode, this conversation will help you step into your power and finally make yourself a front-burner priority. You’ve been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #MentalStrength #MindsetMatters #ConfidenceBuilding Key Takeaways: 00:16 A quick look at the Healthy and Hot Method 00:36 Diving into our book club pick: 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do 01:11 How mental strength ties into your fitness journey 01:28 Setting goals and pushing through challenges 01:47 Talking boundaries and ditching self-limiting beliefs 02:06 Connecting with the community 02:37 What’s coming up next + how to get involved 03:00 Kicking off the book club session 04:01 Real talk about building mental strength 08:43 Finding balance between emotions and logic 10:13 A quick shoutout about the newsletter 11:33 Sharing personal stories and mindset reframes 15:57 Guided journaling time 21:27 Wrapping up with final thoughts and takeaways Links Mentioned: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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Stop People Pleasing: How To Know When It's A Hell Yes Or A Hell No
11/05/2025
Stop People Pleasing: How To Know When It's A Hell Yes Or A Hell No
If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “yes” when you really wanted to say “no,” this episode is 100% for you. I’m diving into one of the biggest mindset blocks I see inside my Healthy and Hot Method membership - people pleasing and how it’s quietly draining your energy, wrecking your routines, and keeping you stuck! In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I’m pulling back the curtain on a private members-only coaching call where we talk all about boundaries, why women struggle to stay consistent, and how to start saying “no” without feeling guilty. I also share lessons from “13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do” by Amy Morin, including how to stop worrying about what everyone thinks and start showing up for yourself unapologetically. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → #PeoplePleasing #SetBoundaries #SelfWorth Key Takeaways: 00:32 – A Quick Peek Inside the Healthy and Hot Method 01:06 – Why Mindset Shifts Matter So Much 01:43 – Boundaries, Weekly Calls, and Protecting Your Energy 02:31 – What People Pleasing Really Looks Like 02:47 – Book of the Week: 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do 04:41 – How to Spot the Signs of People Pleasing 07:39 – My Own Story (and a Few Real-Life Examples) 23:25 – Why People Pleasing Keeps You Stuck 26:54 – How to Set Boundaries and Actually Say No 27:17 – Get Clear on Your Values First 28:43 – Spotting Manipulation and Standing Your Ground 30:39 – Balancing Your Values with Relationships 33:30 – Knowing When to Say Yes (and When to Pass) 37:00 – Practicing Assertiveness Without Feeling Guilty 40:39 – The Freedom That Comes from Saying No 48:36 – Wrapping It Up: My Final Thoughts & Takeaways Links Mentioned: Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - I’m loving this Cathy Heller’s program is packed with gems. Check it out here! Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They’re giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. Connect with Diane: Website: Instagram: YouTube: Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: Protein Snack List: Full Body Training Program: Fit Girl Gift Guide: My Favorite Supplements:
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