How to Put Yourself First (Even When Your "Busy")
Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores
Release Date: 07/09/2025
Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores
Staying consistent with your health and fitness in your 40s and 50s isn’t about “discipline” - it’s about the plan. If you’ve been stuck in the all-or-nothing grind, burning out, or wondering why what worked in your 20s no longer works, this episode of Boss Bitch Radio is for you. I’m Diane Flores, retired IFBB pro, trainer of 20+ years, and now your midlife hype girl. I’ll walk you through: Why burnout is so common for women in midlife The problem with training like a man in a woman’s body Why the “go hard or go home” mindset backfires after 40 Small wins that...
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Ever wonder what happens after extreme diets, bodybuilding shows, or intense fitness challenges? I’m sharing my personal post-show struggles, from body image and food obsession to social anxiety, and how to recover without shame. This episode is perfect for women over 40, athletes, or anyone navigating life after big fitness goals. Learn practical tips to balance your body, mind, and health after extreme training or dieting! #WomenOver40Fitness #WomenEmpowerment #BodybuildingRecovery ✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS: 00:00 Intro - Keeping Your Routine Real After 40 00:28 Hey! Welcome Back to...
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From resetting unrealistic fitness goals to creating simple rituals, building boundaries, and finding fun again, this episode is full of real talk and real tools to help you breathe easier and live lighter! Missed part one? Catch it first—then come back here to keep the peace train going 🚂💆♀️
#BurnoutRecovery #FitnessMindset #AnxietyRelief
✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:
00:00 – Let Your Inner Goofball Shine
00:12 – Hey hey! Welcome to Boss Bitch Radio
00:39 – Let's talk about anxiety and feeling overwhelmed
01:58 – Time to reset those fitness expectations
06:15 – How to actually enjoy moving your body
11:51 – Boundaries = peace (trust me)
14:45 – A peek into morning and evening rituals
15:38 – Stop the comparison game—find what works for YOU
16:28 – Your nighttime routine can look different (and that’s okay)
17:11 – Why being a “C student” might be the secret sauce
18:33 – Build a morning routine that works with you, not against you
19:21 – Less anxiety? More boundaries.
19:43 – Let’s not sleep on... sleep
22:19 – Yep, we’re talking boundaries again (because they matter)
23:56 – Some morning habits that won’t make you roll your eyes
26:10 – How to make your space feel really good to be in
28:33 – A little love note to end the episode 💛
Links Mentioned:
Watch the Part 1 Episode here: https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/is-it-overwhelm-or-is-it-anxiety-find-out-now
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