Ep 58 - How Self Deception Leads to Infidelity
Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity
Release Date: 04/10/2018
Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity
In this episode, Brad and Morgan Robinson delve into the complex dynamics of memory and betrayal in relationships. Discover why both partners remember infidelity differently and how these memory gaps can impact healing and reconciliation. Explore the roles of victim and perpetrator, and learn about the psychological and emotional processes that occur after trust is broken. With insights from historical truth commissions and personal anecdotes, this episode offers valuable perspectives on navigating the aftermath of betrayal. Whether you're seeking to understand your own experiences or support...
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In this episode of "Healing Broken Trust," Brad and Morgan Robinson discuss the concept of "pre-assurance," a proactive approach to offering reassurance to a partner before they are triggered, especially during the holiday season. They explore how pre-assurance can help partners feel emotionally safe and valued, emphasizing the importance of understanding and discussing each other's triggers. The episode provides practical advice on offering pre-assurance in various situations, such as during holidays, social gatherings, before going out, and before physical intimacy. They also discuss the...
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Brad Robinson, LMFT delves into the complexities of supporting a betrayed spouse during the emotionally charged holiday season. Discover ten actionable strategies to help navigate the festive period with empathy and understanding. From initiating open conversations and creating new traditions to offering reassurance and protecting boundaries, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to turning negative cycles into positive ones. Whether you're dealing with emotional triggers or seeking to build a supportive environment, these tips aim to foster healing and connection. Join us as we explore...
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In this episode we discuss the differences between "fantasy love" or "limerence" and "companionship love" or "real love". We explain how limerence is an intense, emotionally volatile form of love driven by attraction and fantasy, while companionship love is a deeper, more stable form of love built on mutual commitment, trust, and shared values. The speakers emphasize that companionship love, while less flashy, is ultimately more sustainable and fulfilling in the long run. We are available to help you heal broken trust. We have several ways to get help. Couples...
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Friendships are a normal and healthy part of life. We all need people outside of our romantic relationships who support us, make us laugh, and share our interests. But sometimes, a close friendship can slowly turn into something more—even without us realizing it. Emotional affairs don’t happen overnight. They start off innocent—just good conversations, just inside jokes, just feeling understood. But over time, the emotional connection deepens, secrets start forming, and the lines get blurry. The trcky part? Emotional affairs don’t always involve physical intimacy, making them harder to...
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Trigger warning: this episode can be difficult to hear especially for those who are still raw after discovery. If that is you consider reading the transcript on our blog here: Get the podcast downloads here: Join us for the next couple's workshop here:
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In episode 76 Brad and Morgan discuss a new way to look at negative cycles. If you haven’t yet listened to episode 3 called “Why Do We Fight and Avoid Difficult Topics” that episode will help you understand negative cycles. You can check that out HERE: We are available to help you heal broken trust. We have several ways to get help. Couples Workshops: Trauma Intensives: Stop My Divorce: Help for the Unfaithful: 1-on-1 coaching/therapy: Podcast Resources: You can call our office at 918-281-6060...
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Every couple I’ve encountered as a relationship therapist has been dealing with this specific issue, but they didn’t have a concept for it to describe or explain it. This episode will help you do that. Before we jump into our episode I wanted to take a moment to speak to those of you who are looking for resources. Some of you are in therapy or coaching and you’re finding: Your therapist is nice but the issue of betrayal or trauma isn’t being addressed. You run out of time in your sessions A lot happens in between sessions which can feel like progress is stunted. It...
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Erik Rasmussen shares with Brad Robinson how he found hope after discovering his wife's infidelity. Erik shares what those early days were like and what he did that created the transformation he was looking for. Get the 21 Things the Unfaithful Want to Tell You But Don't Know How to Say free download here: Attend a 3 day Healing Broken Trust couple's workshop register here: Listen to the free podcast here: Already participated in our workshop? Consider 1-on-1 help here:
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This episode sheds light on what your spouse was thinking about you and your relationship during their affair. Did they love you? Did they love the affair partner? Could they have loved you both? Enroll in our 3 day workshop here:
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