Grief, Guilt, and the Cost of Change: Why Every Transition Comes with Loss (Even the Right Ones)
The Brave Enough Show for Women Physicians
Release Date: 06/05/2026
The Brave Enough Show for Women Physicians
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In this episode of The Brave Enough Show, Dr. Sasha Shillcutt and Dr. Brittney Anderson discuss: Naming ambiguous grief Letting yourself mourn what could have been Guilt about leaving roles, teams, versions of yourself Rituals for closure "With changes in our jobs and our lives, we mourn the loss of the expectation. How we thought our life would be, and what we expected to happen." -Dr Brittany Anderson For ten years, women have gathered at the to step away from the demands of medicine and into a space...
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In this episode of The Brave Enough Show, Dr. Sasha Shillcutt discusses: When it’s time to leave vs. when it’s time to renegotiate How to exit without over-explaining Letting go of the need to be “the good one” Scripts for graceful transitions “One of the hardest things high-achieving women do isn’t starting something. It’s leaving something.” - Dr. Sasha Shillcutt For ten years, women have gathered at the to step away from the demands of...
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Naming ambiguous grief
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Letting yourself mourn what could have been
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Guilt about leaving roles, teams, versions of yourself
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Rituals for closure
"With changes in our jobs and our lives, we mourn the loss of the expectation. How we thought our life would be, and what we expected to happen." -Dr Brittany Anderson
Brave Enough 2026 CME Conference For ten years, women have gathered at the Brave Enough Conference to step away from the demands of medicine and into a space of renewal. This anniversary year, we celebrate a decade of empowerment and sisterhood—ten years of lifting each other up, reigniting purpose, and remembering that none of us has to do this alone. Join us September 24-27, 2026, at the Omni Scottsdale Resort and Spa.
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