#417: Why I Hate the Saying, “Pick Your Battles” (advice for dealing with conflict in relationships)
breakup BOOST: Direct Advice for Messy Situations
Release Date: 08/13/2026
breakup BOOST: Direct Advice for Messy Situations
In this episode, I’m talking about how to tell whether your ex genuinely wants another chance - or simply wants to know they could still have you. Because an ex missing you, reaching out, getting jealous, or even talking about getting back together doesn’t always mean what you think it does. Before you get swept up in the excitement of a possible reconciliation, make sure you understand what they’re actually looking for from you. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized...
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After your ex has hurt you deeply, you may find yourself wanting to explain EVERYTHING in one long emotional text. Every feeling. Every disappointment. Every way their actions affected you. Maybe you’re hoping that this time they’ll finally understand. Maybe you just need to get it all out. Whatever your reason, before you send that message to your ex, you'll want to press "PLAY" on this episode. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized help: & @breakupBOOST Check...
info_outlinebreakup BOOST: Direct Advice for Messy Situations
It’s one of those texts that can instantly get your mind spinning after a breakup or the end of a situationship. Simple enough - until it comes from that person. I'm gonna break it down for ya... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized help: & @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch:
info_outlinebreakup BOOST: Direct Advice for Messy Situations
You’ve probably been told to “pick your battles” in a relationship - but is that advice really as wise as it sounds? Hmmm... I say, "no." lol. If you’ve ever questioned whether you should speak up or simply let something go, this episode will hopefully completely change how you look at it... as well as how you look at your present and/or future relationship(s). You won't be able to unsee it haha... Sorry, not sorry ;) LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized help: ...
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If you've ever caught yourself saying, or even just thinking, "I'm tired of asking you for what I want," this episode is for you. I'm talking about what it really means when you're having the same conversations over and over, why so many people get stuck in this cycle, and what your next step should be. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized help: & @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch:
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In this episode, I'm challenging one of the biggest assumptions people make about life success, timing, and what it really means to be "behind." Because what if the pressure you're putting on yourself isn't based on reality at all? If you've been comparing your life to everyone else's timeline, feeling like you've missed your chance, or wondering why you haven't reached certain milestones yet, this will hopefully snap you out of it and give you a completely different perspective. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY &...
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In this episode, I’m talking about a relationship trap that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough: the difference between choosing someone because you genuinely want them - and - choosing someone because they seem less likely to hurt you. And while most people would never say that out loud, their dating choices often tell the REAL story. Plus, does someone's attractiveness make them less or more likely to cheat? Hmmm... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized help: &...
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You may assume that because you're still thinking about your ex, it must mean you're not over them. But is that REALLY the case?! The answer may reveal more than you expect. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized help: & @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch:
info_outlinebreakup BOOST: Direct Advice for Messy Situations
Few things are more aggravating than being hurt by someone who refuses to simply own it. Instead of taking accountability, they make excuses, deflect, blame-shift, or act like YOU'RE somehow the problem. Huh??!! In this episode, I break down 5 reasons some people refuse to take accountability after hurting you. If you’ve ever thought, “How is this person seriously justifying this right now?” ... or been made to feel like you're going crazy, this one’s for you. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on...
info_outlinebreakup BOOST: Direct Advice for Messy Situations
When emotions take over, people can start doing things that feel justified in the moment… but usually lead to more pain, more confusion, and less self-respect. The first way to avoid desperation in dating situations or after a breakup is to call yourself out on it. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: Get personalized help: & @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch:
info_outlineYou’ve probably been told to “pick your battles” in a relationship - but is that advice really as wise as it sounds? Hmmm... I say, "no." lol.
If you’ve ever questioned whether you should speak up or simply let something go, this episode will hopefully completely change how you look at it... as well as how you look at your present and/or future relationship(s).
You won't be able to unsee it haha... Sorry, not sorry ;)
LISTEN NOW.
Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz
Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com
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