112. Mind Control: How Gaslighting Really Works | Dr. Robin Stern
Release Date: 05/20/2025
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info_outlineDr. Robin Stern of Yale University shares the abusive Gaslighting tactics used to destabilize and control people. Dr. Stern offers tools to spot Gaslighting and prevent it in the future.
00:00 Gaslighting controls people 02:08 Learning to gaslight people 04:17 Narcissists use gaslighting to gain control 05:48 Gaslighting is a dance 09:17 Gaslighting gets progressively worse 13:20 The Urge to Merge 14:48 Commitment to fantasy over reality 15:38 Shame, Isolation, and Dependence 16:54 Gaslighting diminishes emotional intelligence 21:15 Gaslighters will "Fix" you 23:48 Gaslighting's vicious cycle 28:20 Who is vulnerable to Gaslighting? 32:24 The Empathy Trap 33:58 Recognize Gaslighting 38:13 Successfully stopping Gaslighting 42:35 Signs of chronic gaslighting 45:11 SMEAR CAMPAIGN: Gaslighting on steroids 48:53 Preventing future Gaslighting 51:12 Psychological Safety 52:35 find Robin online 54:05 Robin's journey helping people with Gaslighting 55:29 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse.
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RELATED LINKS
Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM
Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4
Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU
Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk
Rick Ross on Narcissists and Mind Control: https://youtu.be/Xjcg9g6xYzs
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI
Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ
Dr. Robin Stern's website: https://robinstern.com
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