Brad Carr Podcast
Brad Carr interviews the world's best leaders. Previous guests include Navy SEALs, #1 New York Times bestselling authors, CEOs, and more. Listen anywhere you get your podcasts, and please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. In 2018, Brad Carr teamed up with the Navy Leadership and Ethics Center to produce 12 podcasts with guests featured on the Navy Reading List and Navy Movie List. Those episodes are archived here. DISCLAIMER: The views and opinions expressed in this content are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any agency of the U.S. government.
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109. How Narcissists Plan to Abuse You | Dr. Christine Cocchiola
04/21/2025
109. How Narcissists Plan to Abuse You | Dr. Christine Cocchiola
Dr. Christine Cocchiola discusses the methods of narcissistic abusers and her experience helping survivors. 00:00 Narcissists plan to abuse you 02:42 Language for control 03:49 Abusers use mockery 04:23 Covert Authority 05:51 Coercive Control Defined 07:25 Dr. C's experience of coercive control 08:55 Threats of Suicide 10:17 Unspoken Threats 10:58 What motivates abusers? 15:58 Trauma Bonds are like torture 20:32 Preventing narcissistic abuse 23:53 Recognizing evil 25:07 Ideal victims 27:50 You don't see the betrayal 29:32 Write down the behavior 32:27 Can you expose a narcissist? 33:40 SMEAR CAMPAIGNS start day 1 38:55 Provoke & Record (Reactive Abuse) 42:55 Love bombing is a trap 43:39 Signs of love bombing 44:21 Abusers will have inauthentic relationships 48:10 how to protect your identity 49:51 Persectutor, Rescuer, Victim Triangle 52:34 Find Dr. Cocchiola online 52:54 Dr. Cocchiola's experience helping survivors 54:44 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Narcissistic Relationships Episode: Dr. Cocchiola's website: Dr. Cocchiola's channel: @DrCocchiola 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse
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108. How to Beat a Narcissist's Smear Campaign | H.G. Tudor
04/20/2025
108. How to Beat a Narcissist's Smear Campaign | H.G. Tudor
H.G. Tudor discusses smear campaigns, manipulation, emotional thinking, and the mind of a narcissistic psychopath. 00:00 The Golden Rule of Freedom 00:23 Get Out. Stay Out. 02:22 The SMEAR CAMPAIGN starts before the breakup 03:02 The Narcissist's Prime Aims 03:41 You are an appliance 05:03 The SMEARING is to control you 06:33 The Narcissist values lies 10:21 Some narcissists are consciously SMEARING 13:26 Specific Language. Narcissistic Fuel. 16:01 Does talk fuel the narcissist? 17:35 Getting in 22:18 You are witnessing your own future 24:57 How is the Fuel Matrix structured? 32:08 Who obeys the narcissist? 33:50 Triangulation and Brainwashing 37:39 The Majority Effect 43:01 Emotional thinking 47:23 Emotional thinking makes you vulnerable to love bombing 50:20 How to spot a narcissist 51:59 How narcissists spot victims 54:16 digital SMEAR CAMPAIGNS 57:32 Do Flying Monkeys get tired of SMEARING? 59:47 Laziness and narcissists 01:01:48 find HG Tudor online 01:03:47 Narcissistic psychopath's meaning of life 01:04:58 Maintaining The Matrix 01:05:33 Does awareness change a narcissist? 01:07:24 How Narcissists use religion 01:10:16 Aging and narcissism 01:12:03 HG Tudor's last word DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Narcissistic Relationships Episode: HG Tudor's website: narcsite.com HG Tudor's channel: HG Tudor's books: 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse
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107. How Narcissists Use Love to Break You | Ask Anoushka
04/19/2025
107. How Narcissists Use Love to Break You | Ask Anoushka
Anoushka Marcin discusses the inevitable harm of relationships with narcissists. 00:00 Narcissists will harm you 00:44 Sex for the Narcissist 01:23 Sex as a tool for control 03:53 Spotting the Narcissist early 05:48 Future Faking and promises 06:29 Isolation, Cult Behavior, SMEAR CAMPAIGN 08:44 Narcissists will trap you 10:19 Trauma bonding 11:21 Trauma in relationships 12:31 The victim is uncomfortable in their own body 13:13 The goal of Gaslighting 15:58 Breaking your reality test 17:32 Compliance is the Narcissist's greatest need 18:26 Narcissist's lies feel good 19:54 The Discard is a long silent treatment. 24:41 Narcissist's trail of destruction 25:21 Comply. Otherwise I'll make your life Hell. 25:44 The cost of staying with the Narcissist 27:10 Healthy breakups 28:03 Protecting people from the Narcissist 29:22 Recovering from the Narcissist 30:54 Lessons from the Narcissist 31:35 Rebuilding your identity 33:45 Reframing your identity 37:05 Anoushka's trauma experience 38:51 Find Anoushka online 39:35 Anoushka's experience helping survivors 40:44 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ Anoushka's website: askanoushka.co.uk Anoushka's channel: 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse
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106. How Narcissists Hijack Communities | The Royal We (Kevin McKee)
04/18/2025
106. How Narcissists Hijack Communities | The Royal We (Kevin McKee)
Kevin McKee () discusses the manipulation, mimickry, social control and smear campaigning of narcissists. Kevin shares his three phases of the journey of healing. 00:00 - Narcissist need you to be dependent 01:03 - Narcissists have no identity 03:42 - Giving is a trap 07:10 - Discernment with receiving gifts 10:55 - Giving time can be a tool too 11:08 - The danger of being mimicked 14:23 - Defense against mimickry 15:57 - Narcissists are computers and chameleons 17:32 - Testing an accomplice 19:33 - Narcissists are tribalistic 20:20 - Narcissist's SMEAR CAMPAIGN will turn on you 21:31 - Victims of compliance. The Narcissists fan club. 26:45 - How to spot flying monkeys 27:10 - The Enablers hurt you the most 29:50 - Hell's deepest circle is for betrayers 31:45 - Narcissists are threatened by independence 33:53 - Narcissists can't succeed among independent thinking 35:02 - They will try to destroy you 35:12 - Prevent a SMEAR CAMPAIGN? 35:33 - How to End a SMEAR CAMPAIGN 36:16 - People who listen to SMEAR CAMPAIGN are not your friends 37:15 - You can choose your family 38:19 - How to confidently leave people 38:42 - purging. rock bottom. ego death 41:59 - Hope helps. But it will not be easy. 43:23 - Don't look back 46:10 - The cost of staying with narcissists 46:58 - You are limited by the narcissist's group 50:36 - Can narcissists be redeemed? 53:17 - What are the steps of healing narcissistic abuse? 53:36 - Introspection 55:12 - Validation 57:58 - Transformation 1:01:12 - how to heal faster 1:02:34 - Pain can protect you 1:05:21 - Narcissists kill people 1:06:46 - find Kevin online 1:07:03 - Give yourself permission. 1:08:41 - Narcissists don't give closure 1:09:31 - SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Narcissistic Relationships Episode: Kevin McKee's website: jointheroyalwe.com Kevin McKee's channel: 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse
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105. How Narcissists Use Psychology to Destroy Lives | Dr. Kerry McAvoy
03/15/2025
105. How Narcissists Use Psychology to Destroy Lives | Dr. Kerry McAvoy
Dr. Kerry McAvoy discusses the psychological tactics that a Narcissist uses to destroy lives, manage their fake image, and control other people. 00:00 - Narcissists are predators without conscience 00:24 - What makes a narcissist hard to leave? 00:57 - You are living in the narcissist's movie 01:47 - Agony of mixed reality 02:16 - Excuses: state-driven behavior 03:09 - Targeting people who believe in goodness 03:39 - Testing victim's vulnerability 04:31 - Most victims are agreeable and conscientious, not traumatized 05:30 - Abusers prey on your conscience 06:02 - Abusers spot victims and test boundaries 07:30 - Pickup artist narcissist boundary testing 08:20 - how Dr. Kerry's ex tested her 09:17 - Narcissism and Big 5 Personalities, Dr. Keith Campbell 09:40 - Dr. George Simon: They have no conscience 10:07 - The brain deficiency of a narcissist 11:22 - Narcissists are predatory from birth 12:01 - How abusers build their skills 13:59 - Dr. Peter Salerno: The SMEAR CAMPAIGN is premeditated 14:24 - Mind mapping: How to tell a believable SMEAR CAMPAIGN 16:20 - Mind mapping to control people 17:34 - Triangulation: playing sides to get the middle 18:12 - Trusting your gut won't work! 18:45 - Gossip itself is the problem. TRIANGULATION 21:19 - What can you do after gossip? DISEMPOWERED 22:30 - Recognize the aggression in gossip 23:22 - Narcissist's incredible charm 24:36 - Fake rapid trust and closeness (Cult Leader Tactics) 25:35 - Mimicking, mirroring, parroting 26:51 - How Narcissist creates a sense you've always known them 28:47 - Narcissism in horror movies 29:25 - Overwhelming narcissistic seduction 30:10 - The alien evil of the narcissist 30:48 - Sociopath or Psychopath? 32:55 - Confusion: the best way to exploit a person 34:18 - Victims consume a false reality 35:04 - How victims are misled 36:42 - Narcissist is the consummate actor. Prof. Sam Vaknin 37:08 - Victims give up reality for the relationship 38:12 - The danger of prioritizing relationships 38:55 - The "long suffering" victim is ideal 40:20 - How Breadcrumbing and Devaluation work 42:01 - The Narcissist is completely dependent on others 44:01 - Isolation, Withholding, SMEAR CAMPAIGN 44:11 - The most DANGEROUS moment 44:31 - The SMEAR CAMPAIGN grows 44:59 - The abuser looks good. Victim looks crazy. 46:28 - Defense against SMEAR CAMPAIGN 47:58 - Leaving Narcissist takes many attempts 48:53 - How Narcissists rely on compartmentalization 51:14 - Narcissist's weird relationship with time, memory, identity 54:16 - "Splitting" defense mechanism 57:18 - The narcissist's jealousy is competitive 57:47 - The narcissist must MALIGN you 1:00:02 - Narcissistic abuse in friendships 1:00:36 - Narcissistic abuse is worse with friendship 1:02:05 - The Twinship tactic of abusers 1:03:20 - Joining a friend group as a form of isolation 1:03:43 - Joining the narcissist bully's entourage 1:03:59 - Complying with the narcissist to get their approval 1:04:23 - Narcissists prey on your need to belong 1:05:10 - Why Narcissists take victims to new places 1:06:02 - Preying on the victim's need to be special 1:07:04 - Narcissistic abuse regresses the victim 1:07:47 - The Art of Seduction. Robert Greene 1:08:17 - Defense against Narcissists 1:10:02 - How big a cult can a narcissist build? 1:11:10 - The Narcissist wants to destroy you 1:12:42 - Consequences for the narcissist 1:13:01 - Listener question: Other dangerous personalities? 1:13:16 - The 4 dangerous personalities 1:15:15 - Sexuality in dangerous persons 1:16:25 - Find Dr. Kerry online 1:16:44 - How to trust after narcissistic abuse? 1:18:09 - SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Narcissistic Relationships Episode: Dr. Kerry McAvoy's website: Dr. Kerry McAvoy's channel: 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse How Narcissists Use Dark Psychology to Hurt Everyone | Dr. Kerry McAvoy How Narcissists Use Psychology to Destroy Victims | Dr. Kerry McAvoy How Narcissists Use Psychology to Destroy Lives | Dr. Kerry McAvoy
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104. How to Defeat Narcissists and Manipulation | Dr. George Simon
03/12/2025
104. How to Defeat Narcissists and Manipulation | Dr. George Simon
Dr. George Simon discusses the covert aggression of narcissists and individuals without conscience, the path to escape abusers, and the process of healing. 00:00 - People can fight dirty and look good 00:25 - How manipulation always works 01:48 - People hide their fighting 02:45 - Fighting dirty and looking good 03:30 - Narcissists use the same tactics 03:50 - Putting you on the defensive 05:49 - Narcissists use group manipulation 08:07 - Exposing Narcissists in groups 10:26 - Backlash after leaving an abuser 11:26 - Therapy with a Narcissist is traumatic 12:05 - Exit fast. No threats. 12:35 - How to find allies 13:21 - Saying "No" to a Narcissist is dangerous 13:52 - Most Important Thing: Building relationships with allies 14:36 - How victims overcome learned helplessness 14:56 - Slot Machine Syndrome and depression 15:23 - Manipulators control your attention 15:55 - Power lies in your actions 17:06 - Abusers can see their abuse 18:13 - Prepare for a SMEAR CAMPAIGN 19:47 - Looking good is easier than being good 20:54 - How Narcissists change your reality and history 21:34 - People believe lies when repeated 22:40 - Narcissist's fan club believes lies 23:06 - Narcissists cast a spell on you 24:11 - People who care too much or not enough 25:02 - Preying on people's conscience 27:22 - Signs of the Gaslighting Effect 27:39 - Believing in a fantasy with a Narcissist 29:03 - Look for previous victims 30:04 - Narcissism is not one-dimensional 31:59 - Gaslighting: the ultimate manipulation 34:41 - How to make Gaslighting even worse 35:14 - Stacking manipulation tactics in SMEAR CAMPAIGN 36:03 - Strategies against SMEAR CAMPAIGN 37:37 - Fundamental Rule of dealing with manipulation 39:21 - When you recognize a manipulation 39:35 - The Greatest Empowerment: Accept that people fight 40:14 - The healthy form of fighting 41:39 - How to build personal power 42:54 - Internal validation is key 44:13 - Dr. Peter Salerno's question 44:57 - Chronic grandiosity is destructive 48:06 - Inaccurate psychology is harmful 51:15 - False paradigms keep victims stuck in abuse 53:34 - How to confront behavior in relationships 55:16 - How victimization starts 57:14 - First tactics of an abuser! 58:18 - Regret, remorse, and contrition 1:00:28 - How to build your character 1:01:37 - Dr. Simon's work 1:04:00 - What is healing? How do we get there? 1:06:26 - SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Narcissistic Relationships Episode: Dr. George Simon's book: Dr. George Simon's website: Dr. George Simon's channel: @georgeksimon 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse How to Defeat Narcissists and Manipulation | Dr. George Simon
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103. Narcissism is Genetic. The Abuse is Deliberate. | Dr. Peter Salerno
03/11/2025
103. Narcissism is Genetic. The Abuse is Deliberate. | Dr. Peter Salerno
Dr. Peter Salerno discusses the genetic roots of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, intentional abuse, and how to recover 00:00 - Narcissists are deliberately abusive 00:12 - Narcissism is genetic 02:39 - Why blame childhood? 07:05 - Lying Narcissists have misled science 10:03 - Relationships with Narcissists cause trauma 12:09 - Signs of Narcissistic Abuse 13:50 - "Dark cloud over you" 14:53 - Isolation is primary to Narcissistic Abuse 16:31 - Isolation disturbs reality test 17:07 - Narcissistic Abuse is intentional 18:43 - Why does the mask drop? 21:15 - What do Narcissists want? 21:58 - Narcissists mate to exploit you 22:38 - Celebrity serial killers 23:53 - Narcissists' brains are lacking 25:30 - Brain wiring and development 28:13 - Missing neurons 28:59 - Brain deficiency in empathy 30:06 - What to do if in relationship with Narcissist? 31:07 - Find an outsider to help you 33:22 - Similar to leaving a cult 33:54 - How to get away from a Narcissist 34:50 - Covert Psychological Torture 36:06 - Narcissist fears being exposed 37:07 - You are Enemy no. 1 37:24 - Narcissists keep you isolated and quiet 37:49 - Isolation, Withholding, Smear Campaign 38:25 - Biochemical Hijacking 39:20 - The SMEAR CAMPAIGN starts day 1 40:16 - How to manage a SMEAR CAMPAIGN 43:00 - Rapid extraction of personal information 43:26 - Two kinds of predators 44:09 - Narcissists are capable of stalking 44:50 - What is biochemical hijacking? 45:32 - Slot Machine Effect 46:08 - Narcissistic don't have bonding hormones 47:04 - What to do after getting away? 47:28 - It will be a dramatic power struggle 48:00 - Expect manipulation. Get support. 48:50 - Find the right professional 51:18 - How to tell other people? 54:06 - Treating Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance 55:21 - EMDR 56:40 - Vulnerable people are targeted 57:37 - Narcissist appears as White Knight 57:45 - Goal: Become indifferent to abuser 1:00:45 - Should I move away? 1:01:56 - What resolves a trauma bond? 1:03:24 - How to have hope after abuse? 1:04:49 - Seek internal justice 1:05:47 - Long term goals after abuse 1:06:42 - Find Peter online 1:07:13 - What's it like to help survivors? 1:10:41 - Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ Peter's book: https://amzn.to/43hO2sL Instagram: drpetersalerno 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse Narcissism is Genetic. The Abuse is Deliberate. | Dr. Peter Salerno
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102. The 7 Steps of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery | Richard Grannon
03/10/2025
102. The 7 Steps of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery | Richard Grannon
Richard Grannon discusses Narcissistic Abuse Recovery 00:00 - Vulnerability to gossip 00:15 - Introduction: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Toolkit 02:15 - STEP 1: What is Narcissistic Abuse? 02:36 - What does a victim experience? 04:41 - Do victims become narcissistic? 06:04 - How can survivors tell other people? 10:14 - STEP 2: Cult psychology and reality testing 12:37 - What is a Reality Test? 15:28 - Victim's Reality Test 17:41 - Strategies of isolation 18:04 - Trauma Bonding Process 18:51 - Poison in your ear 20:13 - STEP 3: Addiction to fantasy 23:00 - The fantasy is unfair. Exploitative. 23:48 - Pathological Narcissism is insatiable 24:15 - Breaking your spirit is the goal 24:40 - Breaking the shared fantasy 26:25 - Narcissists are cheap con artists 31:27 - STEP 4: Why Narcissists launch smear campaigns 32:25 - Murder and Narcissists (Ted Bundy) 33:11 - How does a smear campaign work? 34:38 - Defense against smear campaign 35:45 - Dumb people believe smear campaigns 36:26 - STEP 5: The Introject (voice in your head) 37:50 - Narcissists take authority in your life 39:23 - Childhood abuse changes your introject 40:14 - Recognize, Resist, Integrate the introject 40:54 - Habits are introjects 42:35 - STEP 6: Revenge and letting to 46:18 - Guilt of bringing others to the Narcissist 52:25 - Find Richard online 52:54 - STEP 7: Look forward to life after abuse 54:44 - Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Richard Grannon's book: https://amzn.to/4hQHMMY Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse The 7 Steps of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery | Richard Grannon
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101. How Narcissists Take Total Control in Relationships | Dr. W. Keith Campbell
03/08/2025
101. How Narcissists Take Total Control in Relationships | Dr. W. Keith Campbell
Dr. W. Keith Campbell discusses How Narcissists lie, control, and abuse others in relationships 00:00 - Narcissists control victim's minds 00:26 - Clearing confusion from relationships with narcissists 01:17 - What narcissists want in relationships 02:38 - Narcissistic supply or self-enhancement 04:37 - What is narcissism? 06:47 - Narcissistic personality disorder 07:33 - 2% of people (3% of men) are abusive narcissists 08:32 - Narcissistic relationship pattern 10:30 - Trauma in relationship with narcissist 12:11 - Why leave a narcissist? 13:24 - Gaslighting defined 14:16 - Reality testing is key to abuse 15:50 - Breaking people psychologically. Predators. 16:56 - Cults exemplify narcissistic abuse 17:53 - Ophans are isolated. Vulnerable to narcissist. 19:30 - Narcissists have relationship patterns 20:26 - Narcissists will leave a trail of destruction 22:45 - Why you are attracted to narcissists 26:22 - Celebrity narcissism research 29:29 - Narcissists launch smear campaigns 34:24 - Body changes from narcissistic abuse 37:40 - Doctor Strange: Pathological Narcissist 41:03 - Tony Stark: Mild Narcissist 45:20 - Bernard Tai: Narcissist 49:38 - Gaston: Pathological Narcissist 51:46 - Narcissism and Psychopathy 53:41 - Narcissistic self control enables evil 55:09 - Narcissists are often psychopaths 55:51 - Gilderoy Lockhart: Grandiose Narcissist 1:00:40 - A CLOCKWORK ORANGE and mind control 1:02:10 - Claiming to be "Alpha" is narcissistic 1:03:45 - Find Keith online 1:04:13 - How to not fall for a narcissist 1:07:06 - Support the channel DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Keith's book: Narcissistic Abuse Episode: Robert Greene on Manipulation: X: wkeithcampbell Website: 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse How Narcissists Take Total Control in Relationships | Dr. W. Keith Campbell
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100. How Narcissists Recruit and Control New Victims | Prof. Sam Vaknin
01/31/2025
100. How Narcissists Recruit and Control New Victims | Prof. Sam Vaknin
Prof. Sam Vaknin discusses how narcissists use group psychology to recruit and control victims 00:00 - Groups amplify the narcissist 00:17 - Mapping narcissistic abuse 01:25 - Pathological Narcissistic Space 03:51 - Entrainment and Brainwashing 07:09 - Introject (voice in your head) 08:41 - Physical presence and entrainment 09:29 - Dance and entrainment 09:55 - Groupthink, Cult Psychology 10:28 - Groups are easier to entrain 11:35 - Narcissism is religion 18:13 - Narcissist's preferred careers 23:00 - Narcissists will teach for free 24:36 - Narcissists give to get 27:55 - Making victims two-dimensional 30:50 - Narcissist needs to annihilate you 33:53 - Sadistic supply 36:24 - Abuse is guaranteed. No exception. 40:26 - Lies and language 46:06 - Narcissists are skilled liars 48:13 - Narcissist monopolizes love 50:22 - Cult participation 51:08 - Testing the narcissist 57:27 - Identifying the narcissist 59:37 - More time. More damage. 1:01:10 - Secrecy is the abuser's weapon 1:02:39 - Victims are not smart 1:05:35 - Tell others, even if they won't believe you 1:08:49 - Can we unplug others? 1:12:35 - Need to be selfish after abuse 1:13:42 - Find Sam Vaknin online 1:14:08 - Self love is the opposite of narcissism 1:23:38 - Support the channel DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Sam Vaknin's book: Life's Wisdom playlist: Robert Greene on Manipulation: 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse #narcissism How Narcissists Recruit and Control New Victims | Prof. Sam Vaknin
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99. 7 Reasons Mexico Will Bring War to USA | Peter Zeihan Series
01/31/2025
99. 7 Reasons Mexico Will Bring War to USA | Peter Zeihan Series
Peter Zeihan's 7 Reasons Mexico Will Bring War to USA from THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER 10 YEARS ON 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Summary of TAS 10 YEARS ON - Peter Zeihan Interview with Brad Carr - https://youtu.be/VSC6sUAyf8U Peter Zeihan's newest book - https://amzn.to/3wpCHJ1 Summary of Peter Zeihan's THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - https://youtu.be/ciVd_MqHQEk 2022 interview with Peter Zeihan - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fZHfnDrEZNA THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - https://amzn.to/3N24Jgt Manufacturing Summary - -------------------------- 00:00 - Intro 00:15 - Failed Geography 01:35 - Four Horsemen 03:25 - The Border 04:44 - This War is Different 07:21 - Illegal Immigrants 08:46 - America's Greatest Threat 10:10 - The 10 Years On Perspective #peterzeihan #geopolitics #globalization 7 Reasons Mexico Will Bring War to USA | Peter Zeihan Series
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98. 7 Reasons Canada Will Join the USA | Peter Zeihan Series
01/31/2025
98. 7 Reasons Canada Will Join the USA | Peter Zeihan Series
Peter Zeihan's 7 Reasons Canada Will Join the USA from THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER 10 YEARS ON 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Summary of TAS 10 YEARS ON - https://youtu.be/w6PuhbCRJB8 Peter Zeihan Interview with Brad Carr - https://youtu.be/VSC6sUAyf8U Peter Zeihan's newest book - https://amzn.to/3wpCHJ1 Summary of Peter Zeihan's THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - https://youtu.be/ciVd_MqHQEk 2022 interview with Peter Zeihan - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fZHfnDrEZNA THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - -------------------------- 00:00 - Intro 00:13 - Unlikely Geography 01:25 - Dissolving Demographics 02:17 - Canada's Economy 03:15 - The Quebec Question 04:51 - The Alberta Question 08:48 - Global Disinterest 09:50 - The 10 Years On Perspective #peterzeihan #geopolitics #globalization 7 Reasons Canada Will Join the USA | Peter Zeihan Series
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97. @Hoe_Math: Self-Maximizing, AI, Bodily Awareness, LEVELS of Thinking
01/31/2025
97. @Hoe_Math: Self-Maximizing, AI, Bodily Awareness, LEVELS of Thinking
@hoe_math discusses self improvement (Selfmax.ai), levels of thinking, wisdom, romantic relationships, dating, and artificial intelligence 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Hoe_math's book: https://amzn.to/4eECsdL Selfmax.ai linktr.ee/hoe-math -------------------------- 00:00 - KILL THE WOLVES 02:17 - dating and moral decay 04:41 - getting hot 07:00 - Understanding your mistakes 09:52 - getting confident 14:08 - Why not give up? 16:32 - Self-Maximize 18:22 - Selfmax.ai: The A.I. Dating Coach 25:42 - LEVELS of thinking 38:42 - hoe_math's life 40:21 - Bodily Awareness 48:11 - book recommendations 53:24 - talk to murderers and drug dealers 55:09 - find @hoe_math 55:58 - Ultimate Guide to Dating 1:02:08 - where to meet women 1:06:48 - message to the world #hoemath #selfmaximize #levelsofconsciousness @hoe_math: Self-Maximizing, AI, Bodily Awareness, LEVELS of Thinking
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96. Become an Elusive Object of Desire | Human Nature Series
03/26/2024
96. Become an Elusive Object of Desire | Human Nature Series
Second episode in a series on THE LAWS OF HUMAN NATURE by Robert Greene 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Robert Greene interview- Human Nature Series Introduction- The Laws of Human Nature- The 50th Law- Robert Greene's on Psychotic people- -------------------------- 00:00 - Introduction 01:18 - Context 03:00 - Strategy 1 03:19 - Strategy 2 03:50 - Strategy 3 04:03 - Strategy 4 04:36 - Strategy 5 05:06 - Strategy 6 05:33 - Reversal #robertgreenebooks #humannature
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95. 11 Reasons Europe Will Die | Peter Zeihan Series
03/20/2024
95. 11 Reasons Europe Will Die | Peter Zeihan Series
Peter Zeihan's 11 Reasons Europe Will Die from THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER 10 YEARS ON 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Summary of TAS 10 YEARS ON - 2024 Interview with Peter Zeihan - Peter Zeihan's newest book - Summary of Peter Zeihan's THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - 2022 interview with Peter Zeihan - THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - -------------------------- 00:00 - Intro 00:12 - European Geography 01:15 - Europe Today 02:04 - The Euro 03:32 - Banking 04:53 - E.U. Leadership 06:00 - Money and Time 07:59 - Germany's Crisis 09:11 - Aggressive Neighbors 09:38 - Middlemen 11:03 - Life After Europe 11:29 - 10 Years On #peterzeihan #geopolitics #globalization 11 Reasons Europe Will Die | Peter Zeihan Series
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94. Introduction (HUMAN NATURE Series)
03/18/2024
94. Introduction (HUMAN NATURE Series)
First episode in a series on THE LAWS OF HUMAN NATURE by Robert Greene 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: The Laws of Human Nature- The 50th Law- Robert Greene interview- Robert Greene on Psychotic people- -------------------------- 00:00 - Intro 01:21 - Promise 1 02:52 - Promise 2 03:18 - Promise 3 03:55 - Promise 4 04:34 - Promise 5 05:02 - Promise 6 05:49 - Promise 7 #robertgreenebooks #humannature Introduction to HUMAN NATURE Series (w/Brad Carr)
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93. Introduction (DIGITAL MINIMALISM Series)
03/17/2024
93. Introduction (DIGITAL MINIMALISM Series)
The first episode in a series on DIGITAL MINIMALISM by Cal Newport 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Digital Minimalism- Robert Greene's thoughts on Social Media- -------------------------- 00:00 - Intro00:23 - Digital Identity02:02 - Addiction03:09 - The Situation04:15 - Freedom #calnewport #digitalminimalism Introduction to DIGITAL MINIMALISM Series with Brad Carr
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92. Eleven UPDATES in Peter Zeihan's THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER 10 YEARS ON
03/14/2024
92. Eleven UPDATES in Peter Zeihan's THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER 10 YEARS ON
Key Ideas from THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER 10 YEARS ON by Peter Zeihan 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: 2024 Interview with Peter Zeihan - Peter Zeihan's newest book - Summary of Peter Zeihan's THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - 2022 interview with Peter Zeihan - THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - Peter Zeihan's newest book -
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91. How to Express Masculinity Through Style | THE APPEARANCE OF POWER
03/13/2024
91. How to Express Masculinity Through Style | THE APPEARANCE OF POWER
Tannery Guzy Interview - The Appearance of Power by Tanner Guzy - 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: Tanner Guzy has spent the better part of a decade in the men's style industry. He is both philosophical and pragmatic.
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90. Peter Zeihan: DEPOPULATION and the End of the World Order
02/25/2024
90. Peter Zeihan: DEPOPULATION and the End of the World Order
Peter Zeihan discusses population collapse, the end of globalization, and his newest book THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER 10 YEARS ON 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Summary of Peter Zeihan's THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - Summary of THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER by Zeihan - Previous interview with Peter Zeihan - THE END OF THE WORLD IS JUST THE BEGINNING - Peter Zeihan's newest book - -------------------------- Peter Zeihan: DEPOPULATION and WARS of the Future
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89. Why Smart Narcissists Believe in Conspiracies | Dan Ariely Interview
10/18/2023
89. Why Smart Narcissists Believe in Conspiracies | Dan Ariely Interview
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Misbelief: DanAriely.com - Introduction - Dan's Conspiracy Experience - Forgiving Conspiracy Theorists - Why Smart People Believe Dumb Things - Contact Dan - How to Stop the Spread of Lies Dan Ariely is a professor and New York Times bestselling author. He serves as a James B. Duke Professor of psychology and behavioral economics at Duke University. Ariely is the co-founder of several companies implementing insights from behavioral science. Why Smart Narcissists Believe in Conspiracies | Dan Ariely Interview
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88. The 7 Intelligences for Finding Your LIFE'S TASK
07/25/2023
88. The 7 Intelligences for Finding Your LIFE'S TASK
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help us make more episodes: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- RELATED EPISODES: How to Find Life's Task: How to Achieve Mastery: How to Resist Manipulation: Robert Greene Interview: RELATED BOOKS: Frames of Mind - Mastery - Outliers - 12 Rules for Life - Leonardo Da Vinci - Brad Carr shares the 7 forms of multiple intelligence as described in Howard Gardner's FRAMES OF MIND. Howard Gardner is an American developmental psychologist and Professor of Cognition and Education at Harvard. TIMESTAMPS: - Introduction - 1. Linguistic Intelligence - 2. Musical Intelligence - 3. Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence - 4. Intrapersonal Intelligence - Resisting Manipulation - 5. Interpersonal Intelligence - 6. Spatial Intelligence - 7. Logical-Mathematical Intelligence - Your Next Steps 88. The 7 Intelligences to Find Your Life's Task
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87. Vitaliy Katsenelson: The Stoic Path to Wealth and Meaning in Life
06/17/2023
87. Vitaliy Katsenelson: The Stoic Path to Wealth and Meaning in Life
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Soul In the Game: Vitaliy Katsenelson: Peter Zeihan episode: 00:00 - Introduction 00:37 - How much money makes us happy? 28:16 - Ray Dalio v. Peter Zeihan 34:27 - Emotional control 40:28 - Contact Vitaliy 42:15 - Priorities in later life Vitaliy Katsenelson was born in Murmansk, Russia, and immigrated to the United States with his family in 1991. After joining Denver-based value investment firm IMA in 1997, Vitaliy became Chief Investment Officer in 2007, and CEO in 2012. #money #stoicisim #economics The Stoic Path to Wealth and Meaning in Life | Vitaliy Katsenelson
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86. Brad Carr: The 3 Keys to Building New Skills (Selection/Planning/Compliance)
05/26/2023
86. Brad Carr: The 3 Keys to Building New Skills (Selection/Planning/Compliance)
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help us make more episodes: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: 🎦 RELATED VIDEOS: How to Achieve Mastery: Brad Carr podcast with Robert Greene: How to Find Life's Task: RANGE by David Epstein: The Brain That Changes Itself: 📖 RELATED BOOKS: The First 20 Hours - The 4 Hour Chef - https://amzn.to/43ebpjK Range - The Rise of Superman - Mastery - Deep Work - The 4 Hour Chef - The Brain That Changes Itself - Thinking Fast and Slow - Frames of Mind - Brad Carr shares how to save time when learning a new skill by using this planning process. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Your responsibility 00:23 - Part 1: Selection 01:44 - The First 20 Hours 12:12 - RANGE by David Epstein (see card) 16:26 - Part 2: Schedule 19:38 - Questions to ask 24:07 - Part 3: Compliance 25:04 - Odysseus Contracts 28:20 - The Brain That Changes Itself (see card) 30:30 - Deep Work and Eudaimonia 33:56 - Task switching 34:46 - Your next steps #learning #mastery
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7 Ideas in AGRICULTURE from Peter Zeihan's Newest Book
04/28/2023
7 Ideas in AGRICULTURE from Peter Zeihan's Newest Book
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS: Peter Zeihan's newest book - Summary of Zeihan's newest book - China's Debt - Zeihan on Food Security - Zeihan 2022 Interview: Summary of THE ACCIDENTAL SUPERPOWER by Zeihan - Previous interview with Peter Zeihan -
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Ep. 85 Brad Carr: 11 Models of Life's Task from MASTERY by Robert Greene
04/17/2023
Ep. 85 Brad Carr: 11 Models of Life's Task from MASTERY by Robert Greene
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help us make more episodes ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: -------------------------- RELATED LINKS: How to Find Life's Task: How to Achieve Mastery: Brad Carr podcast with Robert Greene: Mastery - The 33 Strategies of War - The Laws of Human Nature - Brad Carr shares examples of Life's Task as described in Robert Greene's MASTERY. Robert Greene is an American author of books on mastery, strategy, power, and seduction. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Introduction 00:50 - 1. Leonardo Da Vinci's Life's Task 02:03 - 2. Steve Jobs 03:14 - 3. Buckminster Fuller 04:00 - 4. Freddie Roach 05:04 - 5. John Coltrane 06:12 - Social Benefits of Life's Task 07:24 - 6. Mozart 08:08 - 7. Henry Ford 09:01 - 8. Champollion 10:01 - 9. Michael Farraday 10:59 - 10. Charles Darwin 11:43 - 11. Marcel Proust 12:55 - Your Next Steps
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Ep. 84 How the New Warfare Favors China | General Robert Spalding
01/20/2023
Ep. 84 How the New Warfare Favors China | General Robert Spalding
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Book: https://amzn.to/3iK1Bwi Website: https://generalspalding.com/ Twitter: robert_spalding Peter Zeihan episode: https://youtu.be/fZHfnDrEZNA Michael Beckley episode: https://youtu.be/153YhR_DAAw Dinny McMahon episode: https://youtu.be/XUo_NR8OD0Y 00:00 - Introduction 00:16 - Ray Dalio or Peter Zeihan 03:41 - China's goal 06:08 - The New Authoritarianism 07:32 - The war has already started 24:44 - China's impact 29:39 - Why countries imitate China 37:16 - Acting against corruption 48:34 - Listener questions 54:47 - Electric grid attack 58:13 - How to protect yourself 1:00:51 - Further recommendations General Robert Spalding has served in senior positions of strategy and diplomacy within the Defense and State Departments for more than 26 years, retiring as a brigadier general. He was the chief architect for the widely praised 2017 National Security Strategy and the Senior Director for Strategy to the President at the National Security Council. General Spalding’s innovation while serving in the White House has led to a reset in national security and public policy regarding telecommunications in the US as well as globally. He is the CEO and co-founder of SEMPRE, the continuation of his vision for secure digital infrastructure created while at the NSC. He is also the author of both Stealth War: How China Took Over While America’s Elite Slept and War Without Rules: China's Playbook for Global Domination. #privacy #china How the New Warfare Favors China | General Robert Spalding
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Ep. 83 Will Psychedelic Medicine Change Your Mind? | Dr. Alex Belser
01/13/2023
Ep. 83 Will Psychedelic Medicine Change Your Mind? | Dr. Alex Belser
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Book: https://amzn.to/3k0pboX Website: https://alexbelser.com/ Dr. Alex Belser is a psychedelic researcher and licensed psychologist. For the last 20 years, he has been a leader in the psychedelic clinical community, having served as an investigator on a number of clinical trials of psilocybin and MDMA to treat depression, anxiety, substance use, OCD, PTSD, and end-of-life distress. He is the founding President of Nautilus Sanctuary, the first non-profit center for psychedelic medicine on the east coast. He serves as the Chief Clinical Officer of Cybin. Dr. Belser’s research has been featured on the front page of the New York Times, in the Atlantic, the New Yorker, The Guardian, and in Michael Pollan's book, How to Change Your Mind. 00:00 - Introduction 00:37 - Appeal of psychedelics 03:44 - The psychedelic experiences 16:41 - Psychedelics in medicine 32:25 - Psychedelics for performance 46:12 - What about "Bad Trips"? 52:01 - The Body Keeps the Score 1:01:51 - Side Effects of Psychedelics 1:05:23 - Before You Try Psychedelics Will Psychedelic Medicine Change Your Mind? | Dr. Alex Belser w/Brad Carr
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Ep. 82 What Will World War 3 Look Like? | Elliot Ackerman
01/07/2023
Ep. 82 What Will World War 3 Look Like? | Elliot Ackerman
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Book: https://amzn.to/3GdfU4i Website: http://elliotackerman.com/ Instagram: elliot.ackerman Elliot Ackerman is an American author and former Marine Corps Special Operations Team Leader. He is the New York Times-bestselling author of the novel 2034 and other works.
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Ep. 80 Humble the Poet: How to be Love(d)
01/06/2023
Ep. 80 Humble the Poet: How to be Love(d)
🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Humble's new book - https://amzn.to/3TxwMr7 2019 Interview with Humble - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jdMzhWnSk1Y UNLEARN summary - https://youtu.be/aVv0g8u5mXs Kanwer Singh, known professionally as Humble the Poet, is a Canadian YouTube personality, author, rapper and spoken-word artist. He is the author of several books, including How To Be Love(d). 00:00 - Introduction 00:23 - Why write about love? 02:38 - What blocks feeling love? 10:01 - Addiction to approval 13:26 - Pornography and love 17:14 - Polyamory and open relationships 21:33 - Benefits of arranged marriage 25:53 - Self respect over self esteem 31:09 - Recognizing love 35:10 - False love 37:43 - Focusing on love 40:46 - Marriage's role 45:39 - Cancelling his wedding 50:10 - Loving friendships 52:17 - How to be more loving 55:59 - Contact Humble 56:34 - Meeting God in an Uber #howtolove #relationshipadvice How to be Love(d) | Humble The Poet
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