Winning the Mental Game | You Must Be Aware Before You Enhance

In this episode of Building Championship Mindsets, Dr. Amber Selking discusses Play # 1 of the mental performance playbook on why it’s important to be aware of what’s going on inside of us and what’s happening around us. She talks about using the five love language assessment to understand how emotions impact our ability to bring our full selves to move forward and get better through that. Discovering our love language will help us make the necessary adjustments to show up and deliver our best when it matters.

 

About Building Championship Mindsets

Welcome to “Building Championship Mindsets. | the Podcast!” From the LockerRoom to the BoardRoom, our purpose is to help individuals, teams, and organizations understand and leverage the power of Mindset and Leadership to drive results and achieve sustainable performance excellence. 

As a leader in the field of sport and performance psychology, Dr. Amber Selking has been fiercely devoted to optimizing human performance in people and systems throughout her entire career.

Dr. Selking is the founder of Selking Performance Group, a leading performance consulting practice that helps individuals, companies, and sports teams achieve sustainable results. She has served as the Mental Performance Coach for the Notre Dame Football team and as the Vice President of Leadership & Culture Development for Lippert, a global, publicly traded manufacturing company whose corporate vision is to change the model of work, demonstrating that business can and should Be a Force for Good in our World. She has also served as an adjunct professor in the Mendoza College of Business at Notre Dame.

Dr. Selking holds a PhD in Educational and Counseling Psychology from the University of Missouri, a master’s degree in Sport and Performance Psychology from the University of Denver, and an undergraduate degree in Management Consulting from the University of Notre Dame. At ND, Amber played soccer for the Fighting Irish before injury ended her career, after which she founded Notre Dame Christian Athletes (NDCA) in the ND Athletic Department. She currently resides in South Bend, Indiana, with her husband, Aaron, and their Doberman Pinscher, Rockne.

 

Championship Mindset Training | MidWeek Mental Rep

• Do the five love languages of assessment. Where do your results show up in your life? Where are you winning your mental game? How can you become more aware of how other people are treating you?

 

STANDOUT QUOTES

• “I firmly believe that in order to win in the long term, to make and manifest the greatness inside of us, it’s start with how we think.” -Dr. Amber Selking  [02:57]
• “Here’s the challenge that a lot of leaders and coaches face is that often inadvertently our communication styles shut people down. Because we’re wired a certain way, so we don’t process information the same way that our people or our players or our student athletes might, and so we shut them down.” -Dr. Amber Selking  [04:12]
• “How can we as leaders and coaches actually adjust our communication style in ways that we know are meaningful to the men and women that we lead or that we serve as their coach, as their teacher, as their parent in ways again that can elicit that greatness inside of them?” -Dr. Amber Selking  [12:23]
• “If we are aware of the fact that we are words of affirmation, it can help us not take things so personally sometimes.” -Dr. Amber Selking  [16:03]

 

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Check out our EBooks! "A Dream Come True: the Buzz on Greatness" “Winner's Circle" 

Check out Dr. Selking’s TEDxTalk entitled, “Think Like a Champion Today” to learn more about the power of your mind to drive excellence in all areas of your life!

 

TIMESTAMPS

[00:02] Intro

[01:49] Play #1: Awareness

[03:14] What’s your love language?

[10:11] Shift your communication

[13:01] Fundamentals of awareness

[15:07] This week’s Championship Mindset Training 

 

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Please rate and review us! We are excited to complementarity share this content with our audience, and engagement will enable us to continue sharing quality content. Also, please share the podcast on social media, so we can continue Building Championship Mindsets around the world! If you are interested in being a sponsor of this podcast, please contact Dr. Selking directly.