"Some Advice Teens Gave Us About Mental Health, Love, and Valentine’s Day," February 13, 2025
Release Date: 02/14/2025
"Beyond Thank You: Four Truths About Gratitude from an Unexpected Vista," Episode #166, November 21, 2025
The Wellness Compass Podcast
What follows is the Weekly Wellness Column we send by email each Friday, based on the same topic as the podcast episode for that week. You can sign up for the Weekly Wellness Column . Beyond Thank You: Four Truths About Gratitude from an Unexpected Vista The two of us went on a hike the other day. It was a beautiful late Wisconsin fall day. We had chosen a large state protected area we'd never explored before, and as we switchbacked up a ridge, we had no idea we were about to experience gratitude in its truest form. Turned around at the top, we were overwhelmed with the unexpected view...
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"Awe, Mystery, and the Northern Lights: Nature's Gift to Our Well-Being" Episode #165, November 14, 2025
The Wellness Compass Podcast
What follows is the Weekly Wellness Column we send by email each Friday, based on the same topic as the podcast episode for that week. You can sign up for the Weekly Wellness Column Awe, Mystery, and the Northern Lights: Nature's Gift to Our Well-Being This week, something extraordinary happened. People across the Northern Hemisphere stopped in their tracks, looked up at the night sky, and collectively whispered, "Whoa." The Northern Lights danced across skies where they rarely appear, and for a few precious moments, we remembered what it means to be truly awestruck. The aurora...
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"Taking Time to Reset," Episode #164, November 6, 2025
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"What the Day of the Dead Teaches Us About Emotional and Family Wellness," Episode #163, Oct. 31, 2025
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This episode finds Holly and Scott exploring lessons from Day of the Dead celebrations and how they can support our inidividual and family well-being. What follows here is the column they send out by email each week that is always on the same theme as the weekly podcast. You can signt up for the weekly email column . What the Day of the Dead Teaches Us About Emotional and Family Wellness While Americans are having fun celebrating Halloween this week, other countries around the world, especially in Mexico and Latin America, will be celebrating El Día de los Muertos (Day of the...
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"Making the Problem the Problem, Not the Person," Episode #162, October 24, 2025
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(Click on the player at the top to listen to this ten-minute episode) What follows is the weekly column we email every Friday that is a companion to this weekly podcast. This podcast episode expands on the content of the column. You can subscribe to the weekly column . Making the Problem the Problem, Not the Person We've all been there: a conflict starts small—maybe it's about whose turn it is to handle the dishes or a disagreement about something important you're planning together—and suddenly you're no longer discussing the actual issue. Instead, you're blaming each other for...
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"Our Need for Different Kinds of Rest," Episode #161, October 17, 2025
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(Click on the player at the top to listen to this ten-minute episode) What follows is the weekly column we email every Friday that is a companion to this weekly podcast. This podcast episode expands on the content of the column. You can subscribe to the weekly column . Our Need for Different Kinds of Rest Our Wellness Compass Initiative is a holistic approach to wellness. With that in mind, we offer four "Compass Points" that speak to multiple dimensions of rest, as well as help us become aware of our inner attitudes about the role of rest in our lives. Let’s all be...
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Transcending the Limits of Either-Or Thinking," Episode #160, October 10, 2025
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"Four Quotes to Inspire Us From Dr. Jane Goodall," Episode #159, October 3, 2025
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"Wellness Wisdom for Everyone from the Twelve Steps: Celebrating Recovery Month," Episode #157"
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Emotional Flooding: Four Wellness Compass Points & Three Questions
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info_outlineWhat follows is our Weekly Wellness Compass column on this same topic. The column is sent out every Friday morning by email.
Some Advice Teens Gave Us About Mental Health, Love, and Valentine’s Day
This Tuesday, I, Holly, had the privilege of spending my day in a combined Middle and High School (Turner MS/HS in Beloit, WI) for their annual Mental Health Awareness Day. During this Valentine’s week, everyone school-wide had set the day aside to focus on supporting student mental health by engaging in several different relaxing activities, engaging in group discussions on related topics, listening to speakers, and getting acquainted with all kinds of resources and organizations that work to support mental health in their area, Rock County, WI. I was one of those people as I was there to represent our nonprofit Wellness Compass Initiative.
Throughout the day, I had the opportunity to speak with most of those young people (ages 12 -18) and had the honor of listening to their concerns and desires, and meeting their friends. I also told them about this column and the corresponding Wellness Compass podcast. As a bit of research for our column, I asked them this important question: “What kinds of things would you like me to tell the adults who listen to our podcast about what they can do to support teen mental health?”
Here are some of their answers:
Don’t be so judgmental.
Share stories of the mistakes you made when you were young.
Consider how you sound to others. Bossy? Controlling?
Freaking Out? Supportive?
Don’t force things on us, like clubs, activities, and beliefs. Feel free to share your beliefs, but don’t force them on us.
Laugh and have fun with us.
Don’t say it’s just a phase. It is important to us now.
Encourage us.
You can say what you need to say without being mean about it.
Check in with us on a regular basis by asking “Are you OK?” And then really listen to what we are feeling.
Do things with us, like playing sports, hiking, and playing video games.
Honor our thoughts and opinions.
Don’t jump to conclusions.
Give us hugs.
Don’t make decisions for us.
Take interest in our interests.
Talk with us, not at us - fewer lectures and more listening, please.
As they spoke, I realized that what they were sharing with me could be applied to any relationships that we value and care about. So on Tuesday, out of the mouths of our young people came their suggestions for staying connected and supporting the mental health of all those we love. How appropriate for right before Valentine’s Day.
Their honest words are a good reminder for each of us as we consider how to express our love to all the important people in our lives this Valentine’s Day.
Which of their suggestions could you give as a gift to someone on this special day?