Episode 51- Strife and the Underlying Issues Causing It
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
Show Notes : https://abeautifuladventuremarriage.com/strife-and-the-underlying-issues-causing-it/
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Episode 50- How to Transform a Bad Temper
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For show notes go to https://abeautifuladventuremarriage.com/how-to-transform-a-bad-temper/
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Episode 49- Proverbs: What is the Language of Your Marriage?
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
For show notes : https://abeautifuladventuremarriage.com/proverbs-what-is-the-language-of-your-marriage/
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Episode 48-Proverbs: Which Path Have You Chosen?
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
In the Bible we find two paths, and everyone is on one or the other. The Path of Righteousness involves obedience and allegiance to God, with actions that show this loyalty. This path leads to life and blessings. The Path of Wickedness involves a life of sin, self-indulgence, and allegiance to the prince of the world, Satan. This path leads to destruction and curses. For more show notes check out our website: https://abeautifuladventuremarriage.com/proverbs-which-path-have-you-chosen/
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Episode 47- Proverbs: Creating a Home God can Bless
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Episode 46- Proverbs: The Importance of Scripture with Jeff and Sherri Friedlander
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
God's Word is powerful. It has the ability to transform us from the inside out. When we allow this tranformation to happen it not only changes our lives but it changes our marriage as well. Join us for this episode as we sit down with Rabbi Jeff and Sherri Friendlander. We dive into Proverbs 3 and talk about how the Bible is "One Book, One Story" and the implications it has on our lives and marriages when read it and apply it to our lives as a couple. One Book One Story: You can connect the first ten verses of Proverbs back to the Torah and forward to the New Testament. The Bible truly...
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Episode 45- Introduction to Proverbs
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
Being willing to learn and grow is the only way to guarantee your life and marriage will thrive. People are always changing as time goes by whether they realize it or not. No one stays the same. Since change is inevitable why not be intentional about changing in positive ways as a couple? We believe the whole Bible is our road map. God gave us His Word so we could learn, grow, and become more like His Son, Yeshua (Jesus in Hebrew). Through this transformation, we can live a life that honors Him and is a light to the world. Since becoming better is our goal, Proverbs is a...
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Episode 44- Resolving Circular Arguments
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
In every marriage you will experience disagreements and arguments. However, when you find yourself having the same arguments often that’s a sign that there is an underlying issue(s). A circular argument in marriage is a repetitive pattern of conflict. In most cases both husband and wife are very emotional about whatever the issue is, because of this it is hard to find closure so the argument comes up often. There are a lot of moving parts that go into why circular arguments occur. The good news is you and your spouse can bring resolution to your particular argument. Read More:
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Episode 43-Reintroductions, Recaps, and Vision for the Future
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
We took a pause at the end of 2024, so we felt like this would be a great time to reintroduce ourselves, talk about why we created A Beautiful Adventure Marriage in the first place, catch you up on what has been going on in our lives over the last few years, and cast some vision on where we are going with in the future. Read More At: Book Links: A Time to Advance by Chuck Pierce The Messianic Churching Arising by Robert Heidler
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Episode 42- 10 Ways to Have Better Sex Part 4
A Beautiful Adventure Marriage
On this episode we are wrapping up our conversation on the importance of sex in marriage. We have dove into this topic and have explored things you or your spouse could be doing to harm your sex life and ways you both can make it better. Let's look at two more tips before we go. Do Not Watch Porn Porn is extremely dangerous to a marriage. It will in no way unite you and your spouse. Porn will only cause division and other issues. For more information about the dangers of porn check out Mark Gungor. Create A Sex Bucket List Our last tip is to create a sex bucket list. Sit...
info_outlineLast week we gave you more things that could be damaging or even killing your sex life. Your sex life is such an important part of your marriage and should be thriving not dying.
On our last two episodes we talked about...
Distractions
Constantly shutting down your spouse
Critical Words
Body Image
Comparison
Being Too Busy
Poor Routine
Let's look at a few more things that could be hindering your sex life.
Getting Too Comfortable
I love the fact that I am comfortable being myself in my marriage. That is one of the many facets of marriage. It is a place to be loved unconditionally, even the imperfect side of me that no one else sees. However, we can take comfort too far.
During the dating phase, you probably would have literally died if you farted or burped in front of the other person. You definitely didn’t let them in the bathroom while you occupied it. You didn’t go around scratching whatever itched or wearing dirty clothes. Yet, we do these very things in marriage and wonder why our spouses aren’t throwing themselves on us.
Let’s be comfortable, but not take it too far. Set back up some of the dating boundaries and you might get some of the dating attention.
Selfishness
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights.” Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:3-4
Being selfish is easy to do, it is our human nature. It is our natural response to focus on what we want or need. Unfortunately, selfishness can also be an intimacy killer. If your only goal in the bedroom is to fulfill your needs, that is not very alluring for the other person. Sex in marriage needs to be a place where both people are being satisfied.
Weaponizing Sex
We saved the most dangerous sex life killer for last. Using sex as a weapon is the quickest way to kill intimacy in your marriage. Sex is a gift, not a prize. Sex should never be withheld due to bad behavior, or as a prize for good behavior. In the sanctity of marriage, sex should never be conditional. It is a privilege we get to enjoy in marriage, not earn.