69. Why I Don’t Set Goals in January (The Science Behind Wintering)
Release Date: 01/12/2026
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info_outlineIn this episode of Modern Latina in Midlife, I’m sharing why I don’t jump into “New Year energy” in January and why slowing down during this season has been one of the most supportive practices for my body, mind, and nervous system.
For years, I noticed a clear pattern: after the holidays, my energy drops and my system naturally wants rest, reflection, and simplicity. I used to think this was just personal or tied to my March birthday. Recently, I’ve learned this rhythm aligns with a concept called wintering, popularized by Wintering.
In this episode, we cover:
- What “wintering” means and why it’s a natural human cycle
- Why January is often the hardest time to force change
- The biological and nervous system reasons winter feels slower
- Why most New Year’s resolutions don’t stick
- How winter supports rest, reflection, and maintenance
- Why I plan my year in late February instead of January
- Practical ways to winter well without falling behind
If you’ve been feeling tired, unmotivated, or out of sync with New Year expectations, this episode will help you understand why and offer a more realistic way forward.
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Resources:
Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times by Katherine May
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